okay.. we were suppose to move into a flat instead of the house that were in... now u all told me to leave him, but i just dont think i can.. we've been together 4 3 years..well now this other place we wantd we cant get because of him... he went to the bathroom in their house and i guess he made a big mess, thats what i was told.... so now we gotta be out by the 1st.. my parents want me to move back home and pay them 50$ a week and save up my money for my own place??? what to do? and no i really am not too happy in our relatinship???
2007-08-12 03:17:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my big thing is when i try to leave i think about being alone..... and i really hate that feeling..... but i also know that i can do it because i have before.....
2007-08-12 03:28:54 · update #1
okay for the guy saying that its two kids playing house... i am a 23 year old grown woman... i do not play house or games...... get that straight......
2007-08-12 04:49:10 · update #2
u have to leave him he sounds like a iresponsible pig...ur not happy......ur parents are trying to help you .let them....its not the end..its cutting your loses.dont waste a nother day with him
2007-08-12 03:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"As the sands through the hour glass, these are the days of our lives" lol I know most relationships are soap operas, so why not yours? I had to go back a few questions to see what has happened. Now what I see here is that you have yet to say that you two are married. Maybe just friends that have S3X all the time. So you want to know what to do? Your parents have offered you an escape from a horrible situation. YOU SHOULD TAKE IT! Your ex boy friend has a kid on the way, that means child support and he only makes peanuts now! Financial problems are the main cause for divorce, next is cheating. You hit both with this loser! Get yourself financially set up so you don't need to have a guy to help you move out! I hate to say we guys are bums, but, some are and yours is! $250 biweekly? OH MY GOD! You'd make more working full time flipping burgers! This is not an environment for a relationship. It's two kids "playing house"! I don't mean this in a mean way but, you really need to get back home and grow up a bit more. You tried it on your own once and it failed. Welcome to the club, I've been there once myself, going back home is a big whack to your self esteem until you do it, and then you realize how wise it was. Now I'm almost 50, and I have taken my son back home 3 times. I will take all of my kids back at any time and at any age. So will you when you reach that stage! Each time just remember to get a better job, and make more $'s before you leave again!
2007-08-12 10:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i really am not too happy in our relatinship???
Okay... you said it. The guy you're with is an indiot. So dump him. What you are worried about is being alone. So what - big deal.
Get a grip. Pay your mom room and board which is cheap, dump this jerk, and move on.
If you are ever going to have a real life, learn how to be alone and be happy. If you can't be happy on your own, you'll NEVER be happy with someone else. That comes from inside.
You have a decent education? Get a job? Make new friends... and learn how to live your life instead of hanging out with jerks how clearly, are making you unhappy.
2007-08-12 10:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by teritaur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what seems to be the problem here? Youve basically answered your own question here if you look deep inside yourself and trust your feelings. You have admitted that your relationship is worse staying with this guy and is headed nowhere. Your best bet is to move way beyong this loser,go backhome to save some money and then when youre ready move on to a whole new life and never look back. You really do already have the answer you seek inside of you. Good luck
2007-08-12 10:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that insecure ? Do you really need to stay with a man just to feel your not alone ? I think this is more a problem of your own self confidence, than him being an a55.
2007-08-12 10:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋