Family & Relationships - 4 August 2007

I was dating a guy for about a year and got pregnant. I decided not to abort. I asked him for some help since I am a foreign student here with no family. He promised that he would help although he was dating me mainly because he wanted to "relieve himself". He stopped seeing me immediately, then stopped calling, and taking my calls..He does not help with anything.I am in my 9th month, suffering because of heat,loneliness fear for babys health and attacks of extreme anxiety.He does not think that he is acting improperly since he did not want the baby and it was my own decision to keep it.How can I explain him that he does owe me something?
How can I repay him for this and do I have the right to (after all who asked me to sleep with him?). For certain immigration reasons he might have serious problem if I take him to court he is also scared of loosing his reputation of a deeply catholic guy. Shall I take revenge or just accept charity he will give me after the baby is born?

2007-08-04 06:18:32 · 10 answers · asked by Monica80 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a skinny rail type of girl or about a 5/6 size girl, someone with some meat?

2007-08-04 06:17:15 · 14 answers · asked by Elizabeth K 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to have my power bill stay at no more than 100.00 per month..The main thing run in my opt is the air conditioner..we keep it on 77..i havent recieved bill yet as i just moved in..what is the best way to keep my bill at 100 when using ac? what is your bill like?

2007-08-04 06:15:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so my BF went to this testicle festivle in montanna. i was totalyl fine with him going. we even had a wedding to go to today (sat) but told him i woild go alone and he could go have fun with his dad and his dads buddies at this testy festy thing. well i looked it up online today and saw sooo many topless women and wet t-shirt contests!! it has nothing to do with testicles!! well, now i am really upest. and i feel really inescure. i dont want to be, but i am. he called me this mornign and was real tired sounding, and as i was talking to him his dads older friend yelled onver to my BF and knowing knew he was on the phone with me said he is a cow man!!! i asked what that meant and he kept laughing and syaing he didnt know. then he was being really short on the phone with me, and he hasnt talkd to me since last evening. am i being paranoid? i know i am insecure about this, but do i have a right to be? i jsut didnt think he was into that kinda stuff + i have 2 days alone to think about it!

2007-08-04 06:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by darrah 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well im in grammar school an i dont have very many friends mostly because i am a very shy person but some of my mates are actually starting to think im a lesbian because i hav never had a boyfriend. I am 14 and feel very insecure about what they are saying about me is it natural to hav never had a boyfriend at 14???

2007-08-04 06:13:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My sister is 13 and dating already. I think she is still too young. What do you think is an appropriate age to start dating?

2007-08-04 06:07:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres no room for my shaving stuff, and my CD rack has been taken over with rainforrest music, and My nano pod you cant scrub it cuz it only synchronizes her collection aswell?
she even got me white cotton bed sheets to replace my Fantastic four ...well that one was a bit used, granted.
and guess what she's placed on my coffee table to replace my cactus....a f-cking bowel of pebbles!..Pebbles?
she wears lenses and has turned the bathroom into a little laboratory,
Im eating grass and rice cakes that taste like the box. When does it stop ...guys help me here im sinking..?

2007-08-04 06:07:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-08-04 06:02:09 · 4 answers · asked by LACY LYNN 2 in Friends

I love my husband to death and I know he loves me too. I got this jobs offere which i will be making enough money that my husband want't even need to work any more but i will be traveling alot and he doesn't like that at all. I really want take this jobs but i don't want do any thing to put my realtionship at risk. He saying me getting jobs that i wold be travling alot hurts his manhood what does that have to do with man hood if i will be making way more money than him. I wold be supprting him if that was him. Also, another problem is that he never want do any thing around the house he may do one thing after we have fight over it and just for that day. work full time and go to school full time I'm also a full time mom for our only child 3mon. He works full time and go t school part time and when the house is not clean he complains about it. I tried to talk to him about it so many times but is not working i don't know what to do anymore.

2007-08-04 05:57:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a guy. I'm 27 years old now. When I was young, around 11 I was fondled & messed with by an older woman. It was uncomfortable since I wasn't ready. I guess this has caused problems for me now. But since I'm telling you now I can get over it? Am I over it now? .. Thanks.. It feels better to tell someone as if I can finally get over it. I've never told anyone.

2007-08-04 05:53:39 · 10 answers · asked by Jim P 1 in Singles & Dating

i wear clothes that dont match most of the time, for awhile i was wearing to different color sandals, one yellow one tan, one time i wore 2 different shoes, i just dont care what other people think, i am retired, make a great pension have great freinds that dont care so whats the big deal, i dont need somebodies approval of what i wear,

2007-08-04 05:53:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am marry 2 year ago and myhusband have best friend (women) 10 year already.
before I marry him,she always help him about everythink and he's always talk everythink with her.
by the way after I marry him,he never talk to me what he problem,about he salary and everythink.He,s look like dont care with me and he,s best friend more impotent for him.so what I must doing guys?

2007-08-04 05:50:15 · 6 answers · asked by yaya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 1 year. When we got married he told me he wanted to be in a house for a year before we start trying for a baby. So we bought a house, and we've been in it for a year at the end of August. I went off of the pill last october (which we agreed on) but we haven't been trying to get pregnant. A couple weeks ago I asked my husband when he wanted to start trying because we've met his criteria. He told me he was getting closer to wanting a baby but he is affraid of being a bad father because both of his parents treated him badly and he had a horrible childood and doesn't want to be like them. I told him he would be a great father and I understand he is scared. Then all of a sudden acouple days ago I asked him again when he wanted to start trying and he said "stop asking me, I'll let you know when I'm ready." It wasn't in a nice tone and I'm wondering if he's letting his past stop him or if he's just making excuses because he doesn't kids. Help???

2007-08-04 05:48:44 · 14 answers · asked by Steven's Mommy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like these two guys. They both go to the same school, but i go to a different school then them. I've known both of them for quite a while and i found out they both like me. I dont know what to do.. they're personalities are completly different..
what would happen if both of them ask me out? what would happen if accept one and reject the other? Would they fight eachother at school?? i'm scared that would happen, because they're both in the same school and they both dislike eachother. :( And i dont want to date both of them.. and i dont wanna leave any of them..

2007-08-04 05:48:14 · 11 answers · asked by Sugurx 2 in Singles & Dating

I know you might of been seeing lot of questions like these..but...its URGENT! IF SOMEONE LOVES YOU...BUT...?
you don't love him...like atleast not real "love" but you accept them as your really really nice friend...you never thought they'd even be close to ask you out. But it happens...and u already like someone else...
and that friend already knew that...but he still wants to ask you out and already did....

what would you do?

I don't want to hurt his feelings...cuz he's already hurt...which leaves me trapped and stuck...

he accepts me as his type of girl ...but he's not MY type of guy...just a really good friend!!!

ii have problems telling him...like how should ii say no...if that's what it comes out to be...just help me!!

WHAT SHOULD I DO IN MY POSITION...??

yes u don't come across these type of guys often..he knew i like someone else and still has hope...ii just told him that ii need some time.

2007-08-04 05:47:54 · 17 answers · asked by ღCuteღLiLღAnGeLღ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am about 4 7 and i have dirty brown hair. i hate to admit it but i am a bit sassy. i love to play soccer and my favorit colors are lime green and light purple but not together

2007-08-04 05:46:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you want to tell someone something so bad,that you dont know where to start?

2007-08-04 05:46:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is Kiss?

In view of ......
GEOMETRY:''its the shortest distance btw two lips''!


ECONOMICS:''its that thing for which DEMAND is always high than SUPPLY''.


PHYSICS:''its a source to change a human body''.


COMPUTER:''two bodies are connected wid eachother without any data cable''


DOCTOR:''harm for health but good in taste''

@--}--hez a red rose 4 all.....n kisses 4 all....
thanx 4 ur answers.....pls give me star if u all liked it
may god bless u all.....

2007-08-04 05:45:45 · 13 answers · asked by Sana 3 in Singles & Dating

Need some advice. I'm married (in my early 30's), and love my husband, but am not particularly sexually attracted to him anymore. I do have a healthy sex drive, but don't have much desire for my husband. Our sex life = practically non-existent.
Recently, a gorgeous co-worker has verbally expressed interest in getting together...and he knows I'm married. I am incredibly attracted to this guy (both physically & mentally).....and find myself fantasizing about being with him. I am so tempted. I have never cheated on my husband though.
What do I do? I'm too young to go without a sex life!
And how do I work on being attracted to my husband again? I love him....but, can't seem to get myself hot for him anymore. Is the marriage doomed?

2007-08-04 05:45:37 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is really annoying me and i dont know what to do. I sleep over at her house last night and i tried to do stuff like talk and other sleep over stuff but all she would do is text her boyfriend and her other friend and she wouldnt stop i kept on telling her to stop cause i am over and bored and she is like no so i ended up just going home with a fake stomach ache. what should i do to make her stop/

2007-08-04 05:39:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been a grandmama since May 2006 and I Love it! but I'm curious to hear from other grandparents what they like best and least about grandparenting?

2007-08-04 05:39:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Now i have a guy friend that cheats onhis wife and he says that he loves her but i tell him that he doesnt.I say you love her but your not in love with her.This is my question how can you cheat on someone and llove them? is that possible?And if he loves her why does he do it?It doesnt make sense!!!

2007-08-04 05:38:58 · 18 answers · asked by missylynn2005_1829 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-04 05:38:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this gal that I like and have told her how I felt last year, but she said she just wanna be friends. However, now I feel that some things have changed. Recently she showed more interests and especially today, there were more conversations between us and often she asked me about things. She seemed more interested. She also teased me more.

But, there's this guy who likes her too.This guy's friend started it first by asking her and her friends to play bowling next week on the government election day (I think they've been planning it so far. He even teased her about me, I think is to eliminate any suspicion of him trying to unite them). Should I be worried? If they agree, does it mean that she likes that guy? This is the first time though and in my case, I've hanged out with her together (in groups) a couple of times. We're involved in more activities though. When he asked her about that, she seemed rather clueless. She did not seem to really look for him though (they’re in different class) and I doubt if she realized he was absent today.

What SHOULD I do? It shattered my heart into pieces!!! I'm planning to ask her friend about it. Should I do?

2007-08-04 05:38:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You already start dating this girl but you are not that interested in her. How to let her know without hurting her feeling? And once you've told her that, is it possible to come back to her in the future?

2007-08-04 05:35:19 · 43 answers · asked by YucaKacamata 1 in Singles & Dating

plz help i dont know what to do

2007-08-04 05:34:41 · 16 answers · asked by Shorttie 2 in Singles & Dating

Everyone says i look like david wright. Here is a picture of david wright, cuz hes the better looking of us. the face is similar, hes just buffer, cuz im skinny lol http://www.davidwrightfoundation.com/ima...

Im 6'6 160 17 years old.
i play baseball, pitcher.
like the red hot chili peppers
brown hair blue eyes, brown chinstrap
nachos junkie
like swimming baseball and nachos lol gotta work those off in the weight room.
i have a 6ish pack but it sucks cuz no matter how much i eat i never gain weight.
my nickname is Poler, cuz im tall and my ancestors are from poland mostly, ireland too.
i like girls around 5-4, 5-6 brown hair any color eyes, gotta have a good personality, tha comes first. then sense of humor then looks. not meaning to sound rude but on top means more to me than your butt, and you cant be a sl ut. i have a 3.5 gpa so im pretty smart but not like valedict. oh and for those who care basically none lol it looks like im going to chapel hill or texas to play baseball

2007-08-04 05:34:06 · 21 answers · asked by Daniel Wright 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a young professional in a loving, but long distance relationship. I will be moving over to a different country to be with him next year. The thing is, I like my career and it won't be plausible for me to pursue it should he move to a more rural area, which he is adamant about doing. I'm not interested in living apart, which is the main reason I'm immigrating. I want my career and he wants his farm, but neither of us are willing to budge. What should I do? I've already gone through a lot of trouble to plan my move there and I'm scared to be alone in a foreign place. What should I do? Please state your rationalizations.

2007-08-04 05:32:51 · 7 answers · asked by janicebks 3 in Singles & Dating

Today he was taking our daughter to her first gymnastics class. Last night I drew out a map for him (I guess I should have given him the address and had him figure it out, but he never would think to do that), but he decided to go an alternate route which is twice as long and on a really busy road with a ton of stoplights. (Not to mention the fact that he was late getting out and took a super long shower and couldn't find his phone, etc.)

So anyway he calls me five minutes ago and he's lost, so they're going to be 15 mins late to a class that only is 30 mins long.

How do you teach someone common sense? I'm so irritated at him, because you think he'd be able to handle a simple task like find the gymnastics place. He has noooo common sense at all. Am I just b****y?

2007-08-04 05:32:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-04 05:32:26 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Froggi_Kisses♥ 2 in Singles & Dating