Should I ask her friend? (10 points)?

Question

There's this gal that I like and have told her how I felt last year, but she said she just wanna be friends. However, now I feel that some things have changed. Recently she showed more interests and especially today, there were more conversations between us and often she asked me about things. She seemed more interested. She also teased me more.

But, there's this guy who likes her too.This guy's friend started it first by asking her and her friends to play bowling next week on the government election day (I think they've been planning it so far. He even teased her about me, I think is to eliminate any suspicion of him trying to unite them). Should I be worried? If they agree, does it mean that she likes that guy? This is the first time though and in my case, I've hanged out with her together (in groups) a couple of times. We're involved in more activities though. When he asked her about that, she seemed rather clueless. She did not seem to really look for him though (they’re in different class) and I doubt if she realized he was absent today.

What SHOULD I do? It shattered my heart into pieces!!! I'm planning to ask her friend about it. Should I do?

Answer 1

Let me honest with the answer and direct, since I don't need the points.Just go ahead and take your chances.Think like a winner.Act like a super-winner and make the move.Be secure and don't be afraid of nothing.Just be you and the rest is easy as one two three.Just do it with a winner mind and you will make it.

Answer 2

ask her to the movies as friends then after the movie take her for aa walk in the park and tell her exactly how you feel