ok well im in grammar school an i dont have very many friends mostly because i am a very shy person but some of my mates are actually starting to think im a lesbian because i hav never had a boyfriend. I am 14 and feel very insecure about what they are saying about me is it natural to hav never had a boyfriend at 14???
2007-08-04 06:13:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes - it's natural! There is nothing wrong with you.
Tell them you are busy having an actual LIFE, and you'll have the rest of your life to pick a boyfriend.
2007-08-04 06:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by parfait 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend is 15 and she just got her 1st boyfriend. That is completely normal. Plus, the older you get, the more mature the guys get, which means a relationship would probably work out better. I don't think age should have anything to do with it. Oh && 4 the people that are calling you a lesbian....they have NO reason that they should be in ur business, i mean even if you were a lesbian, it shouldnt matter to them anyways!!! I would tell them all to stick it where the sun dont shine!!!! =D Good luck!!!!
2007-08-04 06:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its NOT natural to HAVE a boyfriend at 14. thats WAY too young to be dating. who cares what people think, u can date when ur ready to start dating, and when u start dating is when u should be ready for marriage, ur making a good choice to be boyfriendless. im 14 and have never had a bf, im waiting til im at LEAST 18, i wont be ready to marry until then so ya. dont care about what other people think, dont give into peer pressure, its not worth it.
2007-08-04 15:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by blue-a-touille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to these girls...if they have nothing better to do but to make u feel bad-thats not natural, tell someone how u feel. and its completely normal not to have a boyfriend at 14. i know a girl who just got a boyfriend for her first time at 22! so dont feel discouraged.
2007-08-04 06:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 05:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal, my sister is 17 and turning 18 soon and shes never had a boyfriend it is normal
2007-08-04 06:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them if they're picking on you, they aren't the one. You just haven't met anyone you want to be exclusive with.
2007-08-04 06:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are young...enjoy your life...and get new friends
2007-08-04 06:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by bwj1963 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋