Family & Relationships - 4 August 2007

My husband and I have been seperated for a few weeks now but I have to see him often because of our 3 yr old daughter.Well every time I see him he's all "Can we have sex","C'mon just a quickie","I miss having sex with you".It's starting to drive me crazy.We split up because we fight and argue too much and the only thing we had between us anymore was sex and he still thinks he's going to get it from me.When I complain that all he's ever wanted me for is sex he then says he loves me and wishes I was still around.I told him we have to work on our relationship and not just jump in bed together but it hasn't helped.He's always bugging me about doing it.Sending me texts and emails and it's really bad when I go to see our daughter.I just want him to stop badgering me about sex all the time.Any suggestions would be great.

2007-08-04 05:30:20 · 13 answers · asked by Sweetbear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is still begging me to come back and that everything will be different. He is driving crazy.

2007-08-04 05:28:57 · 4 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes I know this is a stupid question and I don't mean to come off racist but I want to ask....

"Do white women turn a shade of pinkish red when they are gettting pleasure from sex?"

Sorry if this question sound very ignorent......

2007-08-04 05:26:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one person you would like to meet..past, present, future...

2007-08-04 05:25:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont knnow his name and he doesnt know him i met him at this dance thing and the 1st time i kept asking him to dance but got scared and after that night TOTALLY regreted not dancing with him and the 2nd time i asked him to dance and he kept saying no so i randomly asked if he was gay he said F*C* NO!! so later on that night i went up to him and told him the only reason i asked if you were gay is because you wont dance with me and he said well i would of danced with you last time but you kept walking away so i was like will you dance with me now?? he said "I CANT I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND" and after that night i was sooooo sad and regret everything that happened and i know he likes me...i think im going to see him again tonight what do i do??

2007-08-04 05:24:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-04 05:21:47 · 10 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

I just got out of a ten year relationship. (We started dating when I was only 14). Now I am dating someone new. He treats me so well and I know he would do anything for me. He has proven that. I do trust him, but I'm finding myself more insecure and jealous than I want to be. For example, in my past relationship nothing was left unsaid... after ten years if someone called him or he was going somewhere, he told me. No secrets, you know? But with this new guy, his phone will ring and he will silence it and never say who called. Once when I had the nerve to ask, he said, "My Grandma." It was 11pm! I'm 24 years old and don't want to seem like a child getting all upset over something so silly, but I just need to know if he should be courteous and telling me who's calling or if I just need to deal and give him his privacy. Any thoughts?

2007-08-04 05:20:40 · 2 answers · asked by kimmy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-04 05:19:54 · 2 answers · asked by oracle 2 in Singles & Dating

i like almost love this guy and i was dating him. i found out he was cheatin on me. it really hurt me. i never got a chance to tell him i lve you. we were datin for almost a year and a half. should i tell him how i feel and see waht he does?

2007-08-04 05:16:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Could it be a good thing?

2007-08-04 05:06:47 · 27 answers · asked by kindclinton2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About 3 years ago she kissed another guy while we were going out and yes she has lied to me many of times and now lately I have this bad feeling again.. She's been going out a lot more.. She changed her hair.. Started talking to guys more.. She treats me pretty much the same but I just can't shake this feeling. I've asked her about it and yes she denied doing anything of the sort but what do I do?

2007-08-04 05:05:30 · 29 answers · asked by Mike0000 2 in Singles & Dating

when it's obvious your man is messing you around and hints he wants you and sex with others what do you do?? what i did was loose my temper and tell him she/they can have him but i loved him enough to be his friend. Now he is posting back letters i sent to him saying nothing despite the fact he knows i'm hurting and the letters are the ones i'v written saying he had hurt me and **** on me and basically she/they could have him and his manhood and i'm not competing. He's reminding me of my own words and seems to be taking me at my word. Have i handled it wrong or should i be fighting for him playing it another way.???

2007-08-04 05:03:23 · 22 answers · asked by mymanomer 1 in Singles & Dating

Something i don't understand all religious people say God is love,he teaches and show the way to love.He love us whatever type of person we are.....it is an unconditional love....unfortunately when two persons of different religion fall in love then religion become a factor......why?? to be clear religion learn us the right way to God but how come it (religion) become an issue in a love relationship....Do you think God make it an issue or it is you Men/Women which make it become a problem??

2007-08-04 05:03:19 · 17 answers · asked by secret &trade 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-04 04:59:44 · 37 answers · asked by -your-lil-gurl- 1 in Singles & Dating

you know having more sex,, i know guys that do that with their ladies for more fun time, but i hear some women getting upset about it,,complaining that their men take it,, why is that, they dont complain about the extra sex just the blue bill

2007-08-04 04:57:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-04 04:54:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i think i have the mother in law from HELLL! what would you do if..... these are just a few examples of two things she said to your hubby while in IRAQ- he is deployed, in a letter. this has been going on for a total of 6 yrs.
a- *john*( your brother) wishes i die, b. your wife said that you hate me, c. my 3 daughter in laws sit and talk about me all the time!

I really dont care that she is talking about me, nor do my sister in laws, but the fact that she sent my hubby this letter in iraq, while he is fighting and was *extremely upset* over this letter, pissed beyond words, and well, now he is distracted by her stupidity to write such sh it to him, she could wind up getting him hurt!

would you call her up and tell her to stop writing the 'drama' section to him!

2007-08-04 04:45:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wife and I are going through a divorce. She is financially irresponsible and I have proof of adultery. I still live in the house with her during the split only to be close to my three kids. I am the sole breadwinner,she does not want to get a job yet. I have always provided for my family, my kids have never done without. Now, whenever the kids need something she spits out 'They need this or that and I'm taking them to get their back to school clothes and they want me to take them'. So while I'm at work all day, she's with the little ones all day at the movies, shopping, whatever..... Now I cut her off from the money when I found out about the affair, but do I force my little girls to go shopping with their Dad for their clothes. Do I play hardball and put my foot down and just tell her if you want to take the kids shopping then get a job. I resent every time I give her money to buy the kids something when I have to be at work. I feel that the kids are seeing 'Mom is fun all Dad wants to do is work.' Do I tell the kids that if mom wants to take you shopping then she needs to get a job.' Am I being immature or a jerk for not wanting to get stepped on or am I going about this the wrong way.

2007-08-04 04:35:12 · 31 answers · asked by What to do? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy I work with whom I'm friends with asked me out, there are some reasons why things might be difficult so I said I don't know.

A few days later he asked me if I was OK because he thought that I might be feeling a bit awkward around him. He said that he did not regret asking me out but did not want to lose me as a friend.

I told him not to be daft, in a nice way, and that I had just been quiet this week.

So what do you think does he just want to be friends or would he still be interested?

2007-08-04 04:24:18 · 13 answers · asked by shark 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this all started when she gave me a lap dance for my birthday at a strip club she happend to work at and ever since then she likes it when I tell her she looks pretty or she will bend over in front of me while wearing sleeping shorts....Man I just don't know what to do

2007-08-04 04:22:42 · 15 answers · asked by Chase L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So when a guy says he is looking to settle down, and he supposedly "chooses" a woman, and he draws her in, and you have a wonderful thing going that is rich and full and fun and so much of it is about what is beyond the physical, even though the compatability at the physical is freaking incredible -- what would make you turn away and just decide pfft? -- when she honestly did not do anything differently than she had been doing for 6 months?? I am SO not understanding what is happening here.

Is it about expectations? Trust me -- if nothing else, I am a communicator. I know women tend to think too much, but I have to work this through because up until last night I thought everything was fabulous. Beyond that. It was incredible and moving in a great direction. Grant it, there is a significant age difference and I think he is much more handsome than I could ever be beautiful, but what can possibly happen in 12 hours to screw something up??

Fear?? S***.

2007-08-04 04:10:56 · 6 answers · asked by Shihan 5 in Singles & Dating

Should I make her out of clay, plastic, rubber, or straw? Why does love have to be so complicated?

2007-08-04 04:09:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He moved out three weeks ago. He is really depressed. He isn't seeing anyone else. He said today if I lost 20-25 pounds over the next two-three months then that would prove to him that I was serious about working on our marriage. Currently I'm 5'6'' and 157 pounds. What should I do? Divorce him? Or lose the weight? My weight has always been an issue I use to be 193 pounds.

2007-08-04 04:07:26 · 52 answers · asked by MTNS24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-04 03:55:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

For over a year I dated a girl who had walked out on her child (2 & 4) and left them with the father who was very bitter. I gave her the benefit of the doubt when I met her because she was very sweet. She did finally get 50/50 back for her kids. After a long battle. Our relationaship was good for the first 6 months, till I caught her cheating on me one night, when she was drunk. It took about 2 months 2 get over that. Then I discovered she really left her kids to be with her best friends husband whom she had been swingering with. All of this was hard to take. Towards the end it got hard to bring her around my family because I felt weird. Finally, she met some guy, through my cousin whom she broke up with me for and starting talking to him. I still talked to her for a few weeks, because we still had feelings for each other. Then last saturday, she was drunk and called me over for sex , the next day she told me she was still was talking to the new guy. What do I do? Because I still love

2007-08-04 03:53:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-04 03:50:17 · 1 answers · asked by Malanie N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

watched a musical play or an opera together?

What did you watch together? Is your husband interested in watching it?

2007-08-04 03:37:48 · 12 answers · asked by DeathStar 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think?

2007-08-04 03:36:10 · 12 answers · asked by cherrryberry 4 in Singles & Dating

For the past 5 years of my life I struggled with my weight, sometimes it got up to 180lbs. When it was that high my grandmother would ask me not to come around that side of the family or go to her church because I was embarrasing her. Over the years she'd call me up anytime she saw a diet pill on tv and she'd beg me to accept money from her for plastic surgery. She'd go on and on about how our whole family is thin, and that I'm ruining our families reputation. Well now I'm pregnant and I'm about 190lbs and my grandma was still going at it a week ago. I got so sick of her hurting my feelings and making me feel bad about myself that I went off on her. I cursed at her telling her what a horrible person she is and that God would be ashamed of how she's treating me and that she wouldn't see her grandchild. She's Baptist and really centered on God so I knew the God bit would upset her. Then I left. Now my family is mad at me saying, "She's just a poor little old lady".

Advice?

2007-08-04 03:35:01 · 18 answers · asked by Mikki Lynn Breisch 2 in Family

2007-08-04 03:31:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends