i like almost love this guy and i was dating him. i found out he was cheatin on me. it really hurt me. i never got a chance to tell him i lve you. we were datin for almost a year and a half. should i tell him how i feel and see waht he does?
2007-08-04 05:16:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, i've always said there was no stupid question, but i've just been proven wrong because I gotta ask this one...u were dating for almost a year and a half and u never got a chance 2 tell him u love him?...wow. Jaw wired shut all that time? U can tell everyone here u love him but u couldn't tell him? U couldn't write him a letter or put it in his bday card or whatever?
I just cannot stress this enuf, so everyone reading this answer and especially u, COMMUNICATION after GOD is the number one necessity in any relationship. That mind-reading thing doesn't work for either party...the only way to know anything is to ASK, the only wat to say anything is to TALK.
Ever think mebbe he cheated b'cause he thought u 2 were just friends with benefits and not in a committed relationship? Mebbe had u have said something 2 him in the last year and a half u wouldn't b wondering if u should say something 2 him now...this isn't like losing ur virginity on ur wedding night and saying "i'm glad I waited", a year and a half and no talk of feelings towards him...just exactly what did u 2 "talk" about during that time? or did u just spend ur time sittin' around watching cars rust.
gee, u think telling him now will change his mind...
move on and LEARN from this experience.
2007-08-04 05:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he was cheating on you, then he must not really like you, or he does not understand the meaning of being faithful. It may not be worth it to tell him after that. Since you guys were dating for almost a year, he probably didn't think you guys were truly boyfriend/girlfriend, so that means that he probably doesn't see you as a girlfriend.
My question is "Are you feeling mad at him for being with another girl or the feeling that you like him?" I wasn't clear about that. I think if you tell him you like him, then he might not care.
I think it would be BETTER if you tell him you are mad about him cheating on you. That would be better to do, because then you would see if he really cared about you or not. If he cared about you, he would beg for your forgiveness. If he didn't care about you, he would probably not be too upset about what he did. In that case, find someone else.
2007-08-04 05:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Harry Balsac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...cheated on you!!! He broke your heart already.
Move on and find yourself a more faithful and loyal BF
for you to be with. You deserve so much better in life.
There are plenty of other guys out there in the world to be with. Good luck to you
2007-08-04 05:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
year and a half and he never said he loved you? mine said it first month and now its been 3 years!!!
he is not worth it, he cheated once a cheat always a cheat, move on and find someone who deserves you
xx
2007-08-04 05:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him the truth and go tell his other girlfriend that he is taking me and you on dates.
2007-08-04 05:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ali A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just drop him let him go im sorry that this happen to you.
2007-08-04 05:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by trueblueeyedguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-08-04 05:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was cheating n you because you never told him yo feelings
2007-08-04 05:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by hoopboy0713 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..it's clear that if he cheated on you he does not love you...
2007-08-04 05:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2007-08-04 18:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋