Ok this all started when she gave me a lap dance for my birthday at a strip club she happend to work at and ever since then she likes it when I tell her she looks pretty or she will bend over in front of me while wearing sleeping shorts....Man I just don't know what to do
2007-08-04 04:22:42 · 15 answers · asked by Chase L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're flirting with disaster. Eventually your wife will catch on and you'll regret "just flirting." I suggest trying to ignore the wife's sister until she gets the picture. Don't jeapardize your marriage.
2007-08-04 04:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Serena G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not ok if you love your wife and it pisses her off. Would it be ok with you if she flirted with me as long as we didnt go any further than her giving me a lap dance and her bending all over and stripping for me? Maybe so. Some couples are like that. If yall are then you didnt need to post the question. Common sense deduction.
2007-08-04 11:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Funnel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let ME tell you what to do then. Ask yourself why you are doing this.? I mean besides asking this question on this site, why are you looking for trouble? This is absolutely a bad idea and if you were smart you would avoid seeing or talking with her out of respect for your wife. NO it is not ok to flirt with her. I could write paragraphs here about people who do this, who are bored with their spouses so go elsewhere and truly regret it later. But with a sister its even way worse. PLEASE dont see her if you can help it and if you do see her do NOT tell her she looks pretty or look when she bends over. She is a tramp and you are being seduced by her.
2007-08-04 11:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there unless you know your wife is totally OK with it. Since you're asking the question here I guess you already know that she's not.
You're at serious risk of damaging your marriage or your wife's relationship with her sister; probably both. Flirting (whether or not it's with your sister-in-law) will get you into trouble unless you and your wife both have your heads screwed on pretty tight.
2007-08-04 11:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by Craig B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not ok to flirt with your wife's sister. it's obvious that she is only coming on to you to make her sister sad. I bet she has done this kind of thing to her sister since the beginning of time. Just think about what your wife might be feeling. She has gone through her sister stealing her men for some time now, and you just want to go right along with it. You don't deserve your wife.
2007-08-04 11:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from her it is totally not okay for you to be flirting with your sister in law; whats wrong with you? How would you like it if your wife gave your relative a lap dance and bended over for him.?
2007-08-04 11:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by mayrad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. No matter how innocent it seems it could lead to a lot more intimacy. Why would you want to lead on her sister anyway? How do you think this makes your wife feel? Would you like her to flirt with your brother? If you can honestly say it wouldn't bother you if she flirted with your brother than I have to wonder about your relationship in the first place.
2007-08-04 11:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you could have even less class. Try getting your own sister to give you a lap dance, for example.
2007-08-04 11:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it is not ok to flirt with your sister in law. Can you guarantee that things will not go any further? I THINK NOT!! This is your wife's sister and she should know better to behave in such a manner with you. You both should know better. FREAK!
2007-08-04 11:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer is easy. Wake up!!!!!! Ask yourself if you want to keep your wife??????? If the answer is yes, then NO! its not OK to flirt with your wife's sister!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-04 11:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by rspeed_tx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋