Family & Relationships - 4 August 2007

I dont know why but i always hurt ppl i love i say horrible things to my mom i fight with my brother and get into huge fights with him and i feel like i want to hurt him really bad before i wasnt like this now its as if i am a different person who doesnt have control in what i do can someone tell me what i should do because when i hav kids i dont want to abuse them help!

please dont say rude remarks.

2007-08-04 14:44:05 · 1 answers · asked by lilhapyk913 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend Daniel has been hiting on me it's been a while and i find it's kinda weird and yah... but to make it even more unconfortable, he ask me out by e-mail. He told me to reply but i don't know what to say. If i say no he'll hate me and all weird around me and if i say yes... i don't really know!


Please answer me A.S.A.P!!!

2007-08-04 14:43:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When your family gets together at family BBQ's, reunions, etc. do some of them fight or get drunk and start fighting?

I've never seen anyone do that in real life until tonight in a picnic area. It was so sad there were kids there watching and women yelling. I was just sad to see FAMILY acting like that toward each other.

2007-08-04 14:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by Rina 4 in Family

2007-08-04 14:38:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were talking the other day and this subject came up from my guy friends..and I'm very confuse..so guys..please explain to me what's the difference..?

2007-08-04 14:35:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-04 14:35:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy named hunter and about 3 years ago we went out and he broke up with me, well i got a new boyfriend named corey and hunter asked me out twice while i was with corey, and i said no sorry i had a boyfriend well when me and corey broke up i asked hunter out and he said no that i turned him down. well at partys he always hangs out with just me and dances with me and talks to me but when we are not together, we dont really talk that much so i want to tell him that i love him but i dont know exactly what to do//say.

i am going to tell him how i feel but i need to know how. please help. :[

2007-08-04 14:34:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it proper to hug people that you've met? I mean, my wife keeps hugging people of the opposite sex. Sure, they're just friends, or people she knows, but I'm afraid of them taking advantage of her. You know, I'm afraid the hug might be something more. She says it's not malice but I think it is. So, my two questions are:

1. Is hugging people of the opposite sex proper?
2. Am I crazy for thinking this way?

Please answer this!

(P.S. My dad wanted to ask a question in yahoo answers, lol. So, I'm not a lesbo, this is my dad.)

2007-08-04 14:31:25 · 17 answers · asked by 1001 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Recently my husband has been on craigslist posting ads for sex. Then I found pictures on his phone of naked girls parts. I confronted him and he says he was just playing around and it was nothing serious. He said he just got bored and wanted something to do. I called the # from one of the girls pictures and she said she didn't know him and had never talked to him-just sent pictures for fun. He swears he has stopped but I don't know how to begin to trust him. Any advice would be wonderful

2007-08-04 14:31:01 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-04 14:30:56 · 6 answers · asked by ragincajun87123 2 in Singles & Dating

but i'm kinda hesitant. i don't wanna get hurt so i guard myself and that's what i think is the problem to my failed relationships. i want to change but i'm afraid. i want to believe what guys tell me but i find it hard. want should i do?

2007-08-04 14:28:57 · 11 answers · asked by purple_goddess 2 in Singles & Dating

they know that they arent in love. so why do they sabatoge a good thing to make it as an excuse to run back?

2007-08-04 14:24:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mom said that tommorrow we are going somewhere "fun" at 10:00. Are we going shopping?? its kinda early in the morning to go to DQ or anything. Anybody have any guesses? my guess it that we are going to the mall... but idk!! plz help she will not tell me!

2007-08-04 14:19:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

seriously, I can't think of a way to just talk to a woman in hopes of getting a phone number or a date without coming off as desperate and creepy.

From what Ive learned and been told about Womens mind games is that if they know you like them, they will never ever EVER have any interest in you what so ever

(Mabey im over-stating but its happen to me so many times, girls that are usually really friendly to me and talk to me all the time find out I like them though the grapevine and then avoid me like the plauge and instantly want nothing at all to do with me, but thats off topic right now)

Say im in a resturant with freinds and I want to talk to the watress

Or the girl who works at a coffee shop or something, What can I say to her to start a conversation without it looking like im "hitting" on her (Of coruse I would do this at a slow time when theres no big rush or anything like that, so It wouldn't detach her from her work or get her in trouble)

Or a girl just standing in a store how can I approach her then.all my platonic female freinds keep telling me im too nice and thats why women don't like me. Im 18 WM college sophmore and Im looking to date a girl younger then me (College freshmen or Highschool senior, but no lower)

2007-08-04 14:17:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never get to choose the music in the car..he takes my car all the time and wastes my gas..when he wants to play video games he puts the music as loud as the tv so i cant hear and refcuses to put it down..he stays up til like 3 every morning and wakes me up when he comes to bed every night and i get up early for work..i pay for most things..unless i am have no money then he'll pay..he doesn't listen..when i have something to say he ignores me and when i yell to get him to listen he gets mad at me..and he'll make plans with me and then blow me off to go hang out with his buddies and then when i try to talk him out of it he gets pissed with me even tho he promised me some time...he demands a lot(laundry, cooking, cleaning...after him mostly) but he only works part time and i work part time and go to school and he has the nerve to get mad at me for not wanting to do everything for him....I love him but i think there is a line when its not worth it...am i right to think about ending it?!?

2007-08-04 14:16:46 · 21 answers · asked by vikkish1087 2 in Singles & Dating

can i have sex with a 25 year old at 18 and get a hotel with him

2007-08-04 14:14:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out that she's bi (or was in college, anyway)... should I go after her? she's really, really hot... and to be honest, I never liked my brother very much anyways, so...

2007-08-04 14:14:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Before I continue, I know that my father controls the money and I apprecite his child support. That being said,my father decided to pull my 9 year old brother out of a private school because he thinks that it is too far of a drive.(it is right next to his work) and that it costs too much(9,000 a year) even though he sits on the computer all day and gambles on stocks. He pulled my brother out without even discussing it with him. The rest of family have noticed that my brother's reading, writing and math have improved greatly since he has been going to the private schoo. Also, my brother learned more how to behave. When the rest of the family decided to discuss this issue with my father, he said that if the public schools are not like compton, they are better than the private school. when my brother started crying because he would be leaving his friends from the school. my dad told him to make new friends.

2007-08-04 14:13:47 · 1 answers · asked by texanpride 1 in Family

Could you see and believe the good in them ,
If your past realtionship to others injuried your ability to trust ?

2007-08-04 14:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by Brains & Beauty 6 in Singles & Dating

i'm watching rob & big. rob speaks of a "dirty girl", what do you think it takes to be a "dirty girl"?

2007-08-04 14:12:42 · 7 answers · asked by bedwetter 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-04 14:09:18 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He told me to my face am i ment to read anything into it?

2007-08-04 14:08:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

that is why they reject the nice guy. and also women confuse the asshole guy with a nice guy.

2007-08-04 14:08:26 · 4 answers · asked by julvert h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-04 14:03:28 · 9 answers · asked by Dave Saguban 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I've been in a relationship with a girl for about 2 mouths. But I've known her since around the beginning of the year. She has very, very, over protective parents and because of that, she broke up with me, because she felt she couldn't keep lying to her parents that we where together, cos we where keeping it a secret saying it would be better off with us just being friends.. After a few days I haven't talked to her, trying to get over it, and get over the fact I was "upset". The other day I talked to her on Aim. After that I remembered how much I still love her. couldn't really sleep last night, because she was on my mind. I just want her back. I know, Im just thinking about what I want, and need to understand what shes going though with her parents, and just wait. But I can't help it. I need her, she makes me so happy. I don't know how to tell her how much I love her, and how I want her back, because I'm afraid I'll just end up annoying her, and making things worst between us

2007-08-04 14:00:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do i feel this way? We havent been seperated for too long but everytime my ex says something (or posts surveys on myspace) he always makes comments that "he wishes he was with the person on his mind" and that "he only speaks to his ex because of the kids" and "of course there is someone i like" and on and on. It hurts because HE's the one who had an emotional affair and I told him to get out and he is acting like he's still wanting to hurt me...what coudl i have possibly done to make him hate me so much? He pulled away and he's moved on so fast....was I just a waste?

2007-08-04 14:00:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean they choose my own clothes and who i should be!

2007-08-04 13:54:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how th hell do u work this? there got me for 30 dollars and there is no number or n e thing to contact these people !!!!!!!! im pissed i put my dads name in there who is dead and it says no matches i would of never got this **** if when i put my boyfriends name in to find out if hes been married it said yes but i had to pay to get the results now its says no matches this is BULLSHIT

2007-08-04 13:54:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter who is 11 and a half wants to date 12 and 13 year olds. She skipped a grade so she is in the same classes as these boys. I think this is a little young to date. I'm not sure though. This generation is all about dating at early ages. My neighbor is dating my other neighbor -- they are nine years old. Scary, much? Should I allow her to date or not? Thanks a lot!

Love,
Jennyyy.<3

2007-08-04 13:50:44 · 16 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont understand what the problem is niether of us have ever been married we live as if we were married but yet nothing. Sometimes when he is talking to his buddies they will ask him what he is waiting for and he acts like A jerk, He will say things like marry her? like im gross to him or something. Or he will say Im not marring her I dont plan on it either. How can I explain to him that his words are just flat out hurtfull?

2007-08-04 13:48:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce