Well I've been in a relationship with a girl for about 2 mouths. But I've known her since around the beginning of the year. She has very, very, over protective parents and because of that, she broke up with me, because she felt she couldn't keep lying to her parents that we where together, cos we where keeping it a secret saying it would be better off with us just being friends.. After a few days I haven't talked to her, trying to get over it, and get over the fact I was "upset". The other day I talked to her on Aim. After that I remembered how much I still love her. couldn't really sleep last night, because she was on my mind. I just want her back. I know, Im just thinking about what I want, and need to understand what shes going though with her parents, and just wait. But I can't help it. I need her, she makes me so happy. I don't know how to tell her how much I love her, and how I want her back, because I'm afraid I'll just end up annoying her, and making things worst between us
2007-08-04 14:00:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are in High School.
Parents problems are lack of trust and thinking the worst of what could happen to her.
2007-08-04 14:01:13 · update #1
she broke up with you because she wanted to. her parents are convenient scape goats. move on.
2007-08-12 07:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by busted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be friends with her first - try to help her with homework, study together, etc. Her parents will like that a lot. Ask her if you can meet her parents too, and when you do, look clean cut and be respectful. If you can be friends with her family members too, you will get further along. And remember that you and this girl are very young, so a purely boyfriend/girlfriend relationship won't probably last is not practical. If you really like her that much, try to be a good friend and that will grow and grow into the future far more lasting and with far more potential as you both grow up,
2007-08-12 14:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by CRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a former high school student and the overprotective sister of a brother who just graduated from high school, I completely understand how you feel and how her parents feel. Believe me, they are only having their daughter's best interests in mind, so you must not blame them for this result. In the meantime, its nice that you love her, but practically speaking, everyone is young and love seems like a wonderful thing, but you may be taking it a bit too seriously, for someone so young, and dating for only 2 months. I suggest that you continue being good friends with her - know you love her and know she loves you. If she belongs to you, she will come back. Meanwhile, if you still feel, sad, talk to your parents or an older sibling. Its not a bad idea - because they will have gone through the same thing and can offer you comfort and advice, which may make you feel better.
2007-08-04 21:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lighthouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be so personal but how old is you GF? Parents are always going to be over protective with their girls for reasons that they want the best for them. They want to finish school get a degree in a career that they are interested in and make sure that they can take care of themselves out in the world. However, if you are really interested in this girl and you have gone out with her for 2 months secretly why don't you go by the house and talk to her parents that your interested in dating their daughter and that you would like to have their approval. They will ask you a lot of questions before they give you an answer but it is okay at least you were well respectful and man enough to ask. If it doesn't go well I am sorry but if she and you are destined to wait for each other then wait. I wish you luck my dear and I hope that if you do what I have said to do, then you and her don't have to hide from no one especially from her parents. I will pray for you and hope things go in your favor. Let us know how everything goes. Bye
2007-08-12 20:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk 2 her at skool and tell her how u feel den u can talk 2 her parents and ask dem if they would give u a chance wit der daughter promise dem dat u will have her baq home in time and u wouldnt rush her into anything she doesnt want 2 do and u will alwayz protect her even if it meanz losing ur own life
2007-08-12 18:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allright man, then put your chin up and go talk to her parents. That's what I'd do and have actually done before. Give them your word you don't do stupid stuff like smoke weed or even just cigarretes and you would never get their little girl into any bad situation. Get on their side, or better said on their team.
2007-08-12 16:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have those parents too. whatever you do, DON'T LET HER GO. stay with her, even if you're just friends at least you're still talking. don't change how you are towards her. when her parents finally are comfortable then win her back again. don't lose her... you'll regret it. (show her your not going anywhere and you're sticking with her through the hard times)
2007-08-04 21:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What hell do u say ???u love her so much and want to leave her ???what shall i say to you ???u have to return her back,don't wait more than that .i made a mistake in my love story and i want to correct this mistake so i want to help you trust me.
2007-08-12 19:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by a lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to introduce you to her parents, how will they ever develop trust in her if she keeps lying and hiding what she is really doing???/
2007-08-12 17:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋