What is the magic sentence to start a conversation with a random woman? LADIES PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!?

Question

seriously, I can't think of a way to just talk to a woman in hopes of getting a phone number or a date without coming off as desperate and creepy.

From what Ive learned and been told about Womens mind games is that if they know you like them, they will never ever EVER have any interest in you what so ever

(Mabey im over-stating but its happen to me so many times, girls that are usually really friendly to me and talk to me all the time find out I like them though the grapevine and then avoid me like the plauge and instantly want nothing at all to do with me, but thats off topic right now)

Say im in a resturant with freinds and I want to talk to the watress

Or the girl who works at a coffee shop or something, What can I say to her to start a conversation without it looking like im "hitting" on her (Of coruse I would do this at a slow time when theres no big rush or anything like that, so It wouldn't detach her from her work or get her in trouble)

Or a girl just standing in a store how can I approach her then.all my platonic female freinds keep telling me im too nice and thats why women don't like me. Im 18 WM college sophmore and Im looking to date a girl younger then me (College freshmen or Highschool senior, but no lower)

Answer 1

Honestly, the best way to start a conversation is to start it based on something you have in common. No, you don't have to talk to them first to find out what you have in common. For example, if you want to talk to the waitress, ask her how busy it's been, maybe ask her what's the strangest request she's been asked (relating to her job, I mean -- get your mind out of the gutter!), etc. The thing you have in common is you're at the same restaurant. The same thing goes for a girl who works at a coffee shop.

Here's a different example for you. Say you see a woman in a grocery store. There are several ways to start up a conversation that seem perfectly harmless. If you're in the produce section, ask a woman to help you pick out a nice, ripe tomato. Or in the laundry section, ask what kind of detergant she prefers and why. You're asking for their input and expertise on items that she would think you are less experienced with and would likely be friendly and help you out. That's your opening for a conversation.

Answer 2

If you want to ask the girl in the coffee shop something, ask her how she likes working there. Keep it light and brief. Talk more the next time you see her. Tell her a little about yourself and what you do and what your interests are. Ask her if she'd like to go out for ice cream or something after work sometime. Be casual about it. Women don't like to feel pushed or manipulated.
A girl just standing in a store is tougher. You'd have to make her laugh somehow by making a comment about another shopper in line or something. Women like guys with a sense of humor, so brush up on funny opening lines. I'm sure there's a website that can help you. If she's carrying a book you can ask if it's interesting- make a comment about her groceries in a kidding way. If she likes you, you'll know by the eye contact. Don't ask for her number. Have cards printed up like business cards with your name and number on them and just hand one to the girl and say you'd like it if she'd give you a call sometime- and by the way, what's your name so I'll know who's calling? She'll be intrigued enough by that to think about you later or in a day or two and possibly give you a call. Leave it up to the girl and back away. Never pursue a girl to the point where she feels uncomfortable about it. You won't win any points that way. You're so young! You still need to learn what works for you and how you should come across before you feel good about trying it out on a random girl. Try practicing your approach with your sister or mom and see what they think. Good luck- I hope you find somebody special.

Answer 3

because of all the creeps out there some woman just constantly have their guard up. Try approaching them when they're with a group of friends so they feel more comfortable, and don't come on too strong especially during the first conversation. When a random guy starts talking to me at the bank in line, or in an elevator, or somewhere where I'm "on the go" I don't think anything of it. I don't automatically think "they're attracted to me" but if a guy is moving close to me while talking to me I get a little creeped out.

Answer 4

haha, you could say,
"hey, I'm in college."
haha just kidding. To just start randomly talking to a girl, you could compliment her outfit or her hair.
But dont come off as gay, just like "you have a great sense of style"
or something. I dont know. Or be like, "whats that smell...its amazing..." sniff around, and look at her and be like, "Wow, its you!" haha no I'm kidding!!
be outgoing but not to outgoing that you're freaking her out.
to tell you the truth, i have no idea. every woman is different, you know?

Answer 5

the best thing to do is make eye contact. just fleeting glances, making her WANT you to come talk to her. then it makes everything easier when you do finally approach her.

Answer 6

Go and say "Are you a broom cause you swept me off my feet."

or

"I though I was gay till I met you!"

Answer 7

initial eye contact is important and if "aproval" is there, a simple "hi" will start event rolling . . . .

Answer 8

try aproaching her saying hey babe how was your day??
and then keep the convo flowing =]