they know that they arent in love. so why do they sabatoge a good thing to make it as an excuse to run back?
2007-08-04 14:24:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They lack moral fiber. They are pigs and deserve to die in burning beds.
2007-08-04 14:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
So men actually believe u can have sex with women and not be inlove with that person, and some actually believe u can be in love with someone and that sex is just sex and has nothing to do with love..
ALOTTTT of men cheat on their wives because they want to feel the excitement of conquering another female.. another notch on their belt, but they love or they think they love their wives and they believe that their wives are what hold their lives together, for them and the kids, some go back cause maybe things arent great with their marriage but they dont want to be with out their kids, or maybe its the financial part of it all that they are worried about losing in a divorce.. who knows for sure.. but what kills me is the women that sleep with married men and actually expect them to leave their wives for them thinking they could have a real relationship with a man that has already shown that when he gets bored in the marriage that he will cheat.. why would any woman knowingly want that??? to me thats crazy.
2007-08-04 21:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying the affair is a good thing? I doubt it. It's usually just for the thrill - they don't get into ever expecting to make it a permanent situation. If they had planned on leaving their wife, they wouldn't be having an affair; they'd be going through a divorce.
2007-08-04 21:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is right, for those who go back to their wife after being caught are being careful to loose everything that he build, and paying child support can't really be that good from their own pocket. But when I discovered my husband affair to this married woman,and told me that he has feeling for her, not worry about her husband, that when I told him sorry no can do, I waste 2 decade of my life with him and I'll be damn if I just ignore what he did. Now I'm happy and my kids to, I didn't lost anything but he did,...............hurray for him.....
2007-08-04 22:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to start off why do women talk married men back when they have had affairs and ahve left them and their kids to go with another woman then when she does't want him anymore he goes back with the wife and she takes him back as if nothing happened. Well one thing to all married woman who have taken your husbands back after they had affairs well if he got away with it this time he will do it again.
2007-08-04 21:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The excuse was you he can play with you an go home till the next 1 comes along, It's a game they play sorry stay away from involved people or this is what you get. There not trust worthy.It's not just guys??
2007-08-04 21:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They don't always go back to their wives. Sometimes their wives divorce them and the man being newly single starts dating again. He usually dumps the person he used to cheat on his marriage with.
2007-08-04 23:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do this because they want to and because the women take them back. Some have sexual addictions and some just want more than one woman sometimes because they like variety.Also, they don't want to lose half of their possesions and love their kids. Cheating is always a choice.
2007-08-05 01:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I just can't figure out why some "women" would even consider sleeping with a married man. Obviously the guys are screwed up so what are the women, ya know???
2007-08-04 21:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by Encyclopedia Allie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They go back because their wives are willing to accept what he did instead of giving him the boot.
2007-08-04 21:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by ThanksJustWondering 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..i don't know that cheating men "always go back to their wives"..
but for the ones who do..i would say that they want their "cake and eat it too". (sorry for the pun)
they want the homemaker who runs the home, books, does his laundry, takes cares of his children, etc and wants to **** around on the side. i think it's that simple.
2007-08-04 21:29:45 · answer #11 · answered by shyanne 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋