Hi,
This is A tricky one. My parents split up when I was 14 and I lived with my dad for a few years. He then remarried and one day, whilst I was at college, he wrote to me to ask me not to ever come home again. That was thirteen years ago and I have had no contact at all with him since then.
A lot of water has passed under the bridge, and all of the hurt and anger I felt back then has faded away.
My brother, who still sees my dad, sent me an email to tell me that he is dying. He had a hear attack a few years ago but now he has been diagnosed with a brain tumour. He has been given between 3 months and 2 years to ive. He hasn't asked to see me or even asked my brother to tell me about him, so I feel very confused.
In the 13 years that have passed, I have got a new life. I am married and have a 2 year old daughter. I would like to see him before he dies, but worry that he will turn me away, and I do not feel that I could handle the rejection again. Any advice welcomed.
2007-08-04
20:28:21
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