I was just wondering about this... Okay I hate the term... "She is so insecure" Why is it that when beautiful girls keep a real high guard on their boyfriends, people call her insecure. What if she is just keeping her guard up, to prevent the chance of letting other girls get in her way?
What makes a girl insecure? And why? I am so tired of guys calling girls insecure just because they make it known that they are the g/f, and that they are most important girl in that mans life!
What are you alls thoughts on this?
2007-08-04 21:16:14 · 10 answers · asked by Chicka 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i appreciate exactly what you are saying but would have to also add this;
there is nothing wrong with being insecure, security comes with time! when you dont really know someone, you dont know what their actions are going to be when confronted with another 'beautiful' girl it can make you feel insecure... i would say this also, just because we (us girls/women) think that another girl could be pretty or attractive, doesnt mean that our men will feel the same!
and lets face it, its not the fact you dont trust your boyfriend but the other girls that seem to flaunt themselves around him and he probably smiles and kind of flirts back, when really he should just ignore them ... well two can play that game and then you'll find out who the 'insecure' one is lol! ;)
2007-08-04 21:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Rєвє¢¢α 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just the fact that she's keeping her guard up means she's insecure. She obviously has a reason for doing so, and no matter what the reason, it's based on some insecurity, whether it's him being flirtatious, or her being concerned about other women. When you put your guard up, it means you're insecure about something. I think women in general are insecure, not just beautiful women. There is nothing wrong with it, it's just a natural human reaction.
2007-08-04 21:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by Hawkster 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are insecure, doesn't matter how pretty they are, no getting around it. Most women have a billion insecurities built up inside.
In all honesty when a woman "makes it known that they are the g/f" there is nothing but insecurity in that act, as much as you would love to deny it. If you weren't then there would be no reason for you to "make it known".
From a guy's stand point when you let your insecurities known about other women talking to or looking at or whatever with your guy. It is as good as saying to the guy, "I don't trust you to be able to make the right decision if she hits on you. I don't believe you are strong enough to resist temptation."
2007-08-04 21:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every woman's body is so different, and they never feel like their's is just right. It just comes naturally for them. Call a girl beautiful a million times, and she'll never believe you. But call her ugly once, and she'll never forget. Why? It's just how it is. Constantly being compared to models and "perfect" girls does not help at all.
2016-05-18 21:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by kathleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any woman who keeps guard on her man is insecure, maybe not with herself but definitely with her relationship.
Why do you have to guard your man? If he is untrustworthy why do you want him anyway?
Look if a guy is going to cheat he is going to cheat....and no amount of guarding, nagging or spying is going to stop him.
If you can't relax and feel secure in your relationship its not a good relationship.
2007-08-04 21:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by blueink 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love makes girls insecure!!!!its part of being in love (well at least i believe) i could be the finest b*tch in this world if sum other gurl is looking at my man i'd feel insecure just bcuz of the fact the i love him too much and i dont wanna lose him
2007-08-04 21:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by khristina t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have found that it is usually those that are calling other girls insecure to be the ones that are actually insecure & they make themselves feel better by insulting other girls that are pretty ; p
2007-08-04 21:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes
2007-08-04 21:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who cares, they do the same both ways,, u so silly.
2007-08-04 21:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
love has no barriers, mind games that what it is..... trying to lower your self esteem.................
2007-08-04 22:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋