Family & Relationships - 4 August 2007

2007-08-04 20:13:38 · 11 answers · asked by 4U4EVER 2 in Singles & Dating

Back in 1995 ,I married my boyfriend in county jail. The ceremony was soo sad .We got married through a glass window.I would go visit him everyday, But when it came time for him to get transferred out, He called me collect..to tell me to go down to the station to pick up his property, When I did I had noticed some letters from his ex gf..very graphic letters I may add..but this girl lives out of my town..Anyways..the next day when he was about to leave I wanted to confront him about this girl, afterall he is my husband!!! The officer at the visiting window told me that .he had all his visits of the day..so I went home confused and heartbroken..waiting for him to call ...no call..I went the day after to see if he still was there and they told me he had been transferred out the night before..The officers did not realease any info to me, I called his P.O...he told me that he didn't want to act as a 3rd party.To this day I havn't heard from him. i run into inlaws, but they don't talk 2 me.

2007-08-04 20:08:07 · 20 answers · asked by I <3 Joe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-04 20:04:50 · 11 answers · asked by sooraj k 1 in Friends

2007-08-04 20:03:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Girls hate me!im soo sweet but they hate me!im tall,and i always show my long legs!!guys r sweet...but girls talk s**** behind me always!in my face there nice!but they say some nasty stuff behind my back!r they jealouse that guys r nice 2 me!or because they dont like me!!!tell me the truth i dont care if u get mean ok!i really want 2 know!!!!!!thank u!

2007-08-04 20:03:10 · 18 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

I always sexually harass this waiter at a local bar that I go to. I really think he's adorable! Last night after I was the only table left, he pulled me around the corner and kissed me. It lasted for like 5 minutes. How do I know if he really likes me or if he just did it as a charitable action? Should I ask to see him outside of work?

2007-08-04 20:03:06 · 8 answers · asked by travelgurl73 1 in Singles & Dating

If you were asked to give up something(1 thing) on your body or in your body what would it be. And your giving it up to save a life!

2007-08-04 20:00:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-04 19:59:57 · 18 answers · asked by vinod g 1 in Friends

without paying or does anybody know online

2007-08-04 19:53:41 · 1 answers · asked by riderfan4life 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

just a curious poll.....

and do tell of the characteristics you expect in him/her.....

2007-08-04 19:53:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend has a bf, but she still can't 4get the one she 1st loved.
She can't stop thinking of him and its really driving her crazy.

Don't expect her 2 4get her bf and love the 1st one...she can't do that

2007-08-04 19:51:20 · 10 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

My older sister shes 3 years older then me. (16) Shes criticle of evrey thing on me. She says I'm fat wich not (I don't think I am, just a little bit of a roll on my stmoach (don't alot of people?) Shes criticle of my hair and the color wich is a light blonde. Shes mean about the way I dress and who I am friends with, Like she would say I don't want you seeing her anymore she will give you a disses. (shes not gross or dosn't do drugs just a normal person) and like say if I was doing somthin new (like meeting a new person) she would make me let her pick out my clothes or she would get pissed off. (and I chose my clothes fine). She really hurts my feelings I have told her to please stop treating me like this and she would say somthing like, Oh god grow up I'm not like that. My mom as told her to be nicer but she bascialy says the same thing she says to me. What should I do?

(I think I spelt a few things wrong so please don't insult me)

2007-08-04 19:49:24 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

I alternate between hating and feeling sorry for him. He literally has no hobbies or friends. All he does is go to work, then come home and do stuff with my Mother.

If she's busy or out with her friends, he just sits in front of the television drinking alcohol. Or he'll keep calling her on her cell phone.

He has no interest in me or my sister. he only spends time with us if my Mother is spending time with us.

WHY?!

2007-08-04 19:48:07 · 18 answers · asked by Panky_Hanky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you are standing at the back of a church, facing the front, which side does the bride's family usually sit on? And also...when walking down the aisle, is the brides father on her left hand side or her right? Thanks!

2007-08-04 19:47:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i mean among different races: white, yellow(asian),brown,black,red(aboriginals) which one would u rather? plz dont say im racis!! cuz im not! when it comes to personal preference it is a totally different issue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i know what i want, but i dont wanna spoil the question and make ur mind biased!

2007-08-04 19:43:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to be happy! so where is that one?
the one i been dream about?

2007-08-04 19:41:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should a girl or guy leave their boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse for being told what they can and can NOT do?

2007-08-04 19:39:28 · 8 answers · asked by Ree 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i think i like this kidd and hes 17 and im 15 we always flirt and mess around (not sex) but we always fightin and i dont know wat to do!!he get mad when i dont pick up his fone calls and when i go out wit my guy friends its like he acts like my bf!!

2007-08-04 19:39:26 · 6 answers · asked by kim.. 2 in Singles & Dating

One who can trust totally!

2007-08-04 19:39:03 · 40 answers · asked by anil m 6 in Friends

hey. im in my first relationship ever and we will have been together for 8 months on Monday. It's pretty nice when you think about that. However, I doubt how much I love him sometimes. I mean dont get me wrong... he is sweet, loving, caring and a complete gentlemen and of course, a total hottie. Our sex drive for each other is way off the charts! There are some problems though. We fight often. He thinks it's because we're away from each other at the moment. This summer I had to go to home. See, I met him in college and I had to go home for the summer so we have been missing each other and it's been real hard! During school, I was used to seeing him just about every other day, even if it was for a few minutes, it was still awesome! Well, anyways, we have different views on almost everything. Our interests can be quite different but it has its similarites every now and then. I talk to him about this and he thinks as long as we're in love, none of that matters but it bothers me a lot.....

2007-08-04 19:36:57 · 7 answers · asked by Shayyyyy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay I'm 16, I;m a very sweet slim Hispanic guy. I've been called cute, fine, gorgeous. I've even been called the best looking person in my grade level. I dress well, I'm very clean, and present myself well.I've also been called one of the nicest people you will ever meet. Here's the thing, with all the things I've mention above, I've never had a girlfriend! I'm way to shy to approach a girl, and while I've been hit on by plenty of girls, i've never been asked out. I'm very quite, and have been labeled stuckup, just for being to quiet(which is not the case). Can anybody help me with this?

Also I'm hispanic, but I'm not attracted to hispanic girls that much, I rather date an African-American, which i feel plays a big part,.

2007-08-04 19:31:47 · 6 answers · asked by West Jefferson Alum 3 in Singles & Dating

I used to party alot (drinking, drugs), and I haven't done that in 43 days. Since I quit partying, I haven't talked to any of my friends. I thought not talking to my friends would give me time to think, and time to break all the habits that came with the constant partying. During that time alone I realized that the drinking and the drugs was what was saving me from reality. I live in a house where everybody can't stand each other, theres constant yelling, fights, and stuff being smashed. Without being intoxicated I can't sleep, I can't block out the screaming, and I am becoming very depressed. What should I do? I'm not old enough to be able to move out and support myself, and I don't want to get back into the partying habit again because that could ruin my whole future. I also don't want to report my family because the few days we do get along are great, and even through everything I still care about them. I don't know what I should do? What would you do in my situation?

2007-08-04 19:15:36 · 31 answers · asked by slipknot_is_wicked 2 in Family

If you were a guy, and your friends talked s*hit about your gf, and said ur a dumbass for being with her. What would you do? Say your gf is bipolar, but she cant help that. But if they were like shes such a b*itch and a s*lut (when actually she's only ever had sex with you), and yadda yadda...what would you do? HONESTLY! Guys and Gals please answers, i would love to hear both sides. Like Gals what would you expect your bf to do? Any one had this problem, if yes what happened?

2007-08-04 19:13:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They don't like me since the very begining of our relationship.When we met we decide that we want to try this out so I move to NY bc I am from PR he is dominican. I got a job before I moved and when I move I went to his grandma house bc she was renting a room. I paid rent the whole time I lived there. But then(5 month later)I decided to get my own apartment and my boyfriend decide to move in with me. The parents got crazy they talked a lot of things about me. They said that he should'nt let me move that it was'nt the right time. That I think that I am the man of the relationship and he have to take control over me. I felt very offended bc since when someone have to tell me when I can move if I am the one who is paying for that. I never ask for anything, I work and pay my bills. Now we are getting marry on Jan so I asked him to bring his bills to our house and the dad is saying the same thing again. I just want to have our financial status fix and clear before we get marry. I am wrong?

2007-08-04 19:07:52 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

I'm 17 about to be 18.. i've been dating a guy since i was 14. i've known him since i was about 6. i love him to death and he treats me so nice!! he doesnt pressure me into anything.. oh yeah i forgot to mention he is 19 going on 20. my family loves him and his family loves me. we spend almost every day together. we've only taken one break they whole 3 years we've been together. neither of us have cheated either. i think we're perfect together and i would love to be with him the rest of my life. My parents started dating when they were 14 and they've been married for 32 years. am i just being naive?? am i too young to find my soulmate??

2007-08-04 19:05:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy, and he likes me. He's whole family likes me too and wants me to marry him. I am NOT interested and never was, but for some reason he keeps pressing on and saying that this is the plan of God. I asked him how he knew that and he said that God showed him a sign.
His dad is a pastor, and even his little sisters are trying to get me to like him...
How would you handle a situation like this without having to call the police or take it to court ( it's not worth the trouble/money)
What would you say to his parents who are so sweet?!
PLEASE HELP ME!!

2007-08-04 19:05:31 · 3 answers · asked by Twix_Chocolate 1 in Friends

Like he is in 3 of my classes. And in Science he always tickles me and flirts with me. I asked my male friend to ask him who he likes and he said he likes someother girl. How do i get him to like me. and please don't say move on or confront him cause i can't do that

2007-08-04 19:04:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy and I have been "friends with benefits" for about three years now. Its been fun cause we hook up on weekends see each other at bars, etc. Its fun without the drama. We usually don't call or worry about the other until we're going to mess around. We're both promiscuous and have others on the side, but for some reason, we always come back to each other.

Last semester he asked me to help him with a math class, (I'm a math major) so he would come over once or twice a week, we'd study, and then mess around. I really started liking him, more than before. But I know he'll never take me serious. After he got his A, I told him I didn't want to see him anymore. I hated myself for liking him, knowing it will never lead to anything more. This lasted for about 2 months. Recently he's been calling me, he wants to see me, and saying he misses me, etc.

I hate him, why does he do this if he doesn't want anything serious with me?

2007-08-04 19:03:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hes so fine!!!!

2007-08-04 19:00:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

recap
i ask him would he consider being in a relationship with me to see where this go since he told me that i could be his fiance well he answer and said maybe i will consider us being in a relationship one day......
he said maybe means maybe
doesnt mean a yes or no
So should i move on with a maybe i will one day or keep trying...we both live in different states and im going to be seeing him alot starting in september...would a man waste his money on you ..buying plane tickets and hotel and everything else if he wasnt somewhat hoping that maybe one day i will be his women/fiance?

2007-08-04 18:57:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce