I always sexually harass this waiter at a local bar that I go to. I really think he's adorable! Last night after I was the only table left, he pulled me around the corner and kissed me. It lasted for like 5 minutes. How do I know if he really likes me or if he just did it as a charitable action? Should I ask to see him outside of work?
2007-08-04 20:03:06 · 8 answers · asked by travelgurl73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He pulled you around the bar and kissed you for 5-minutes? What do you need? An engraved invitation? He likes you! No guy kisses a girl for 5-minutes that he doesn't like. You are Golden, he likes you. Have fun.
2007-08-04 20:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by Realgroovy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From what you told me, I can have no more idea than you can. It's possible he likes you; it's possible he just sees you as easy.
The only way to find out for sure is to just be friends with him first and get to know him better, especially because a restaurant is not a normal place to find someone. And then date him. If you date him now, you still won't be sure what he's after until who knows what.
2007-08-05 03:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by wizball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that was a long kiss and i think all that sexually harassing got you somewhere ........ but anyways you should talk to him and definitely outside of work
2007-08-05 03:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Charity?? Grow some self respect or you are going to end up being used. Harsh talk...but true. Good luck
2007-08-05 03:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, are u THAT thick?
of course he likes u, if it lasts for more than 10 seconds it's NOT charitable.
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2007-08-05 03:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didnt like you he wouldnt of kissed you......i would just go back to the bar and see if he would do it again.... or write him a note to meet you after he finished work.........
2007-08-05 03:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he kissed you for that long, he likes you, alot. Go for it, but stop the harrassing, at this point it will just annoy him.
2007-08-05 03:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by marks_your_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so.
2007-08-05 03:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋