2007-08-04 20:26:22 · 7 answers · asked by Washington 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Disadvantages--
a built-in date that didn't want to take me anywhere.
a not-so-good provider who was out of work more than 50% of the time.
an immature self-centered idiot who competed with the child for my attention.
a man who peaked too early and became superfluous within 2 weeks after the ceremony.
Advantages--
?????
2007-08-04 20:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Advantages:
1. Get a security from ur husband in terms of protection from other guys who r on a lookout and also from the lousy society who doesn't let a single women live peacefully.
2. Be a mother to the kids who are loved by a good father so half the tensions gone.
3. Get to give out orders and demand things from the husband which are out of her reach...this is called NAGGING lol.
4. Spend some money from a generous husband on the luxuries, go out with hubby dear to good restaurants, etc
5. Ofcourse have a good sex anytime with the husband .
All the above points are applicable only and only when the husband is really a good person not a supersonic beeyat*h lol and also who loves his wife truly.
Disadvantages:
1. Cook, clean, watch the kids, do clothes, fetch kids from school, feed them, clean them, clean mess around the house, etcccccc.
2. Get beaten by the good hubby who just sits around ordering and feels like the ultimate BOSS at home coz he ain't one where he works.
3. Get abused and looked down upon by her hubby and inlaws.
4. Run errands which the husband is supposed to do but who doesn't do it for hez either mighty busy at work or simply doesn't bother bout his home and family.
5. Entertain loads and bushels of friends who are invited for dinner by the husband, his relatives coming and living at home, and after all the entertaining when the wifes bonre tired she has to have sexxxxxxx for it's free for the husband and it's a duty for the wife to fulfill all her husbands needs as she did a big favour marrying this man for herself !!!!
Dude there are so many disadvantages but then u ask for 5 yet i've almost mentioned some in each points lol . Being a wife to a good guy is more important then just being a wife to a guy whoz heartless, senseless and who doesn't respect his better half.
2007-08-05 06:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by kittana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
advantages:1)there is someone who will decide for you 2) you have someone to talk to, to lean on 3) it is nice to belong to someone, to be loved 4) your being a woman has some meaning since you're a wife 5) you don't have to decide on major issues since it is the husband's job, ideally
disadvantages: 1) you'll always be subservient to your husband 2) you can never decide on your own alone, it must always be both of you 3) you can never be totally independent since the head of the family is the husband 4) it is sometimes demeaning when you still have to ask money from your husband just to buy some basic necessities 5) if ever you have the bad luck of being married to a jerk, then your life will be a living hell.
2007-08-05 03:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Advantages:
1) You now have the possibility to be divorced (you didn't when you were single!
2) The wedding is over
3) You are now allowed to feel sorry for yourself occassionally
4) Tax Break!
5) One more anniversary to make someone buy something for you
Disadvantages
1) You're married
2) You probably have to share a bed with someone
3) You're married
4) You have no reason for birth control now (kids..eek!)
5) Did I mention you're married?
PS---this was a JOKE. :P
2007-08-05 03:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by étiénne 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about the married kind of wife, or is defacto included?
Advantages- you have:
*Someone to share life's journey with.
*Someone to create a family with.
*Someone who understands you and likes you the way you are.
*Someone to be proud of your achievements.
*Someone who appreciates your attention.
Disadvantages-
*The inevitable power imbalance that comes from being financially dependent when you are raising kids and not working full time
*Having to clean up after the wretched man! Of course, you don't really have to, but the house will look like a bomb site if you don't.
*Having to compete with his work for attention
*Having to compromise your goals and desires
*Can't think of another :)
I was told that marriage (and kids) are both the best and worst that life has to offer. I've found that to be true...
2007-08-05 03:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
5 Advantages
get to share your life with the man you love
raise a famliy
wake up next to the most wonderful man in the world
love him
watch our children grow together
5 Disadvantages
dont know since i've never been married.....at least not yet
2007-08-05 03:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The 5 pluses:
You got someone to share your day with.
You have someone to share sex with.
You have someone to help with the kids.
You have somene to invite to dinner.
You have somone to help with the rent.
The 5 negatives:
You have to cook when you dont want to.
You have to put up with another kid that you didnt have.
You have to negotiate.
You have to be more concious of what time you get out of bed.
You have to look your best more than often.
2007-08-05 03:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋