but i'm kinda hesitant. i don't wanna get hurt so i guard myself and that's what i think is the problem to my failed relationships. i want to change but i'm afraid. i want to believe what guys tell me but i find it hard. want should i do?
2007-08-04 14:28:57 · 11 answers · asked by purple_goddess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
purple princess, Dear I am 47 and single and I need a lady but that is another story. Hon love like life is a gamble first you need to accept Jesus Christ as you lord and savior then pray that he puts Mr. right in your life ! As far as sex goes wait until there is a wedding ring on your finger and there has been a blood test. These days a person needs to be cautious, sex can kill !
2007-08-04 14:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't mind the guys when you change. Because you can stay single forever. It's okay to gaurd yourself but just don't gaurd on everything...Here's a trick to tell if they're lying: If they hesitate after ask them something or if they just hesistate between sentences or words. But if they hesitate and look away then they aren't lying. Also check for any changes in expression. Mostly check their eyes. Normally they would look straight at you if they wanted to tell the truth but then they tell a lie. Also if they laugh while saying something then you have to guess. So just find somebody and be happy.
2007-08-04 21:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Walter 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will be a gamble no matter what the thing is you should trust a guy some what. I do not mean just believe anything he says at first but feel your way around. You will know if he is telling you the truth or not. Then over a little time you will begin to trust him more and more.
2007-08-04 21:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all it depends on what's your age at the moment that perhaps men might not be interested to invite you out for fear of laws because actually nobody wants to be a sex offender. Secondly if you are underage, don't rush in getting a boyfriend at the moment rather concentrate on your future success. As summing that you are 18yrs or older, it all depend on how you keep yourself and they way you communicate with others. Dress neatly and decently, not junk, associate yourself on type of individual of you class. If you associate yourself with bad groups surely you will adopt their styles. Understand that not all people who ware pants are men but most of them are players. If you rush, surely you will get hurt. Sometimes you have to take chances after you are convinces that he is honestly interested in you and open up your quiz as to what you are looking for. Don't hesitate to ask him what's on your mind and let him tell you about himself. Don't be shy to ask and have confident in yourself about relationship. Remember STD is also around the corners. Calculate your steps with care.
2007-08-04 21:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is a big risk. you should only go for it if you kno that he is just as into you. remember, not every guy is looking for a relationship, so if you want one, ur gonna have to sift through the ones who are really committed versus those who just want a fling.
2007-08-04 21:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by BNizzle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go looking for some one.
I know it's hard but the more you look, the more you try and it's really off putting.
Just wait and some one you don't expect will find you.
2007-08-04 21:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by George C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can start by changing your screen name. No one wants to date some WHO THINKS they are a princess
2007-08-04 21:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by south of france 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Vi brator? Telling u its better then dealing with men most of the time. And cuddeling- get urself a soft pillow!
Just Joking! But if u never just go 4 it- you will never find love!
2007-08-04 21:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
draw a picture of johnny depp on a bananna ;D
2007-08-04 21:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by rain_drop 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only online , if you like !
2007-08-04 21:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by more m 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋