Is it wrong to expect your boyfriend to tell you who is calling him and what he is doing?

Question

I just got out of a ten year relationship. (We started dating when I was only 14). Now I am dating someone new. He treats me so well and I know he would do anything for me. He has proven that. I do trust him, but I'm finding myself more insecure and jealous than I want to be. For example, in my past relationship nothing was left unsaid... after ten years if someone called him or he was going somewhere, he told me. No secrets, you know? But with this new guy, his phone will ring and he will silence it and never say who called. Once when I had the nerve to ask, he said, "My Grandma." It was 11pm! I'm 24 years old and don't want to seem like a child getting all upset over something so silly, but I just need to know if he should be courteous and telling me who's calling or if I just need to deal and give him his privacy. Any thoughts?

Answer 1

Of course. He deserves some freedom.Give the guy some air, will you?.

Answer 2

Yeah, you are right! You have every right to know who's calling him! If it is his "Grandma" calling him, why won't he answer the phone? At 11 p.m? I don't believe it. I think that you might be his girlfriend "on the side". I'm not trying to make you more upsert, but that's what it sounds like to me. Investigate deeper. When his phone rings, LOOK at his caller I.D. If he won't let you look, then he's hiding something that he don't want you to see.