plz help i dont know what to do
2007-08-04 05:34:41 · 16 answers · asked by Shorttie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not till your sure
2007-08-04 05:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a lesbian is not the end of the world.You're a human and the rest is not important in this life.Be open,be proud of your sex orientation and over all, don't hide what you really are.Tell you father.After all is your life and nobody else business. Is your body and is up to you, how to used.My hart is with you and here, in Yahoo, you have a new friend.A big hug and the best.
2007-08-04 06:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it's the right time and that he will understand. I feel it's better to get this off of your chest than to keep it their and let this situation barrade your life. Have an intelligent conversation with him and tell him things that you feel he needs to know. Do not add in extra things like I fantasize about women in bikinis or something. If he doesn't accept it then what can you do-you do not live in a perfect world. Just be happy with yourself and live your life.
2007-08-04 05:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you confused about your sexuality or confused about whether to tell him? Do tell him eventually just make sure you are certain, then wait for the right time. He may not like the idea at first, but he will get over it and love you no matter what.
2007-08-04 05:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Stiffler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only tell your parents that you are gay if you can emotionally and financially support yourself. This is really important because I've heard of kids getting kicked out of their house by really narrow minded parents. I'm not telling you to tell him or not tell him, just think about the consequences first. good luck.
2007-08-04 05:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do it. At least this way he doesn't have to be concerned about you being taken advantage of by a guy. He might be a little reluctant about this fact but if he loves you(I don't mean to say there is doubt about his love) he will be okay with it.
2007-08-04 05:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think u should tell ur mom instead ur mom will go a lot easier and will be more understanding ur dad will probably blow it out of paportion so just do what feels right
2007-08-04 05:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by juicy princezz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's best to tell them so they dont find out from someone else. but if u cant do it now then wait till u feel comfortable to tell them. u can start off sayin something like this "mom, dad i really need to discuss something with u. this is really hard for me to do, but i just want ya'll to understand me and continue loving me the same...."
good luck :)
2007-08-04 05:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by gapimpette4sho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? are you involved with someone? if you think you're ready and you want your family to know, go ahead. and don't worry what they say. It's YOU who matters! i'm sure your dad will tell you to do what makes u happy. i hope u relax a bit. because it's perfectly normal!
2007-08-04 05:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of lesbians are not permanent. So tell your dad that you are lesbian now, but maybe next year you become straight.
2007-08-04 05:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by YucaKacamata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im only going to say this:
The worst thing you could ever do is lie and keep secrets from your parents. And don't forget that if your parents really loved you that they will respect your decision.
2007-08-04 05:42:02 · answer #11 · answered by FlutePlayer#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋