Now i have a guy friend that cheats onhis wife and he says that he loves her but i tell him that he doesnt.I say you love her but your not in love with her.This is my question how can you cheat on someone and llove them? is that possible?And if he loves her why does he do it?It doesnt make sense!!!
2007-08-04 05:38:58 · 18 answers · asked by missylynn2005_1829 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seems impossible to me...the problem is i cant cheat...i'm too damn sensitive for this.
so dont trust my answer...not all guys r same.
2007-08-04 05:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame the guy.Perhaps that couple has some personal problems in the bedroom and the guy don't get all the attention.Think about this,cheating is serious business and the person goes into the cheating because something is taken place in his or her life.What is that? I don't know, but your friend might have the answer.ask her about the whole matter.
2007-08-04 06:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you cheat you are not in love. If you are really in love you would talk to your spouse. A relationship is all about communication.
If either spouse is not being satisfied in any aspect of the relationship, they cannot expect the other to read their mind. If you tell them what you would like done or what you don't like then its known.
It's all communication. I don't believe that cheating is acceptable if your truly in love.
2007-08-04 05:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by artsygal_cc86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I only see that u keep saying that this guy cheating his wife but u never tell how he cheat his wife and also how u know. I presume that this guy must be having some special relationship with you and that's why you are questioning how true is his love.
2007-08-04 05:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by starlight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mabey his cheating partner does stuff he wants that his wife refuses to do ..or is just not very good at
mabey his wife isnt in the mood very often .
2007-08-04 05:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by silkbutterfly1973 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can love 2 people at the same time. so yes, you can cheat and be in love.
2007-08-04 05:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by Love Child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does love mean? yes two things can happen at the same time. Anything is possible... and maybe hes a liar.
2007-08-04 05:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by oracle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep. you can love 2 people in 2 different ways.
but there is no right excuse for being a cheat.
he will regret this once somebody finds out.
for sure !!!
2007-08-04 05:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe there are many kinds of love.
He probably loves her with the love of a companion with whom he's shared much and not that of one consumed by a burning passion.
One has room for other liasons the other has room for noone else.
2007-08-04 05:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by Te 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
if ur frnd loves his wife thn 4 sure he cant cheat
coz those who cheat dont love
n those who love dont cheat
its as simple as anythng
2007-08-04 05:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by shifali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its possible, she may not be giving him what he needs to be satisfied... Lots of married people cheat on each other and doenst mean they dont love them at all....tell him to tell her what he likes instead of cheating
2007-08-04 05:42:36 · answer #11 · answered by switchmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋