My friend is really annoying me and i dont know what to do. I sleep over at her house last night and i tried to do stuff like talk and other sleep over stuff but all she would do is text her boyfriend and her other friend and she wouldnt stop i kept on telling her to stop cause i am over and bored and she is like no so i ended up just going home with a fake stomach ache. what should i do to make her stop/
2007-08-04 05:39:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is obviously a loves attention. I would talk to her, tell her that you don't want to hang out with her anymore if she isn't going to talk to you. If she continues ignoring you move on, she isn't a good friend.
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2007-08-04 05:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by justagirl. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't do anything to make her stop. She's gonna have to stop on her own. She's insecure and crazed about whats going on with her boyfriend and other friend when they're not within reach of her.
So u going home may have been smart because she was ignoring the fact that u were there. I hope she comes around because she's gonna run herself crazy and she's gonna run her friends off if she doesn't get a hold if herself. U can talk to her about this and tell her that if hurt ur feelings that she made u feel like u weren't there hopefully that will start the precess.
Good Luck
2007-08-04 13:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fake your stomach ache next time. You should have told her that if she had you over to hang out with "yourself" you could have stayed home, or gone to another friends house.
Next time when she invites you, ask her if she'll have any "distractions" like she did the last time. What she did is immature and inconsiderate. She'll grow out of it, but at the same time, you should have told her it bothered you. She can't read your mind. And if tell her it bothers you and she keeps it up, then you tell her unless she shows a little more respect, you'll hang out somewhere else.
2007-08-04 12:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she asks you over, you'll have to let her know you'll come over but only if the two of you are able to enjoy one another's company. You'll have to let her know you're going to visit w/her, not to be there & have her call, text & visit w/others while you sit there doing nothing. If she can't promise to give you her full attention while you're there, you have every rite to just tell her you're unable to sleep over. That is totally rude, she might not feel that way or take it as being such, but it is. You ask someone over because you want THEIR company. She can do her visiting w/others when she's alone or bored. But if she has you there as company, she should give you 100% of her time. That's only totally good manners. I would not go there again & have disrespect shown me while I was there. That's what it boils down to. She either wants you & your company, or she can visit the world on her own & be alone while she's doing it!
2007-08-04 12:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't stopp her.. but you can be honest with your friend and let her know how you feel about her beeing like that to you. And take distance for a wile, then mabie she will come back to you sooner, and ask you to hang out and do fun friend stuff together. She has a boyfriend,and she's exited about him..so, she forgets you every now and then, but I am sure that she doesn't do that on purpose.
Some day she'll realise that she's getting tired of hanging out with her boyfriend and then she'll comebackk to you. But you definitaly should give other people out there a chance to make friend with you =) it could be exiting with some new freinds I bet =)
2007-08-04 12:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by rebecka d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. If she has the nerve to not treat you as a friend, then you shouldn't be friends at all. But if you still want to have a relationship with her, then you need to talk it out. She may not see that she's hurting you or annoying you with the things she is doing.
2007-08-04 12:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by Dilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have 2 choices:
1. you could say," you know what when i`m over, you pay attention to ME..your ugly *** boyfriend can WAIT. why the hell did you invite me over if you werent going to pay attention to me?!"
2. you could tell her," you need a life...when i am over, you pay attention to ME not your ugly boyfriend..if youre going to text your boyfriend all night while im over here, dont even bring me over here at all..im not even kidding..get a life or get out of mine"
i kinda just woke up so thats the best i can do right now..sorry
2007-08-04 13:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by ilovewhatshisface:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg how rude...i would have gone home aswell...that isnt a good way to treat a friend at all...i would just stay quiet with her for a while and see what she does...if she then asks what is wrong then just tell her how it made you feel...sure youve got nicer friends than that you can hang around with...she is not a very good friend...sorry.xx
2007-08-04 12:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a sleep over with her anymore. Tell her that since you're not important to her anymore, you're not going to waste both your time.
2007-08-04 13:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just wants everyone around her she loves since u were around she cared about the other things
talk to her about it seriousley do it! becuz i did it to my friend she acts the same way! now she is better
2007-08-04 12:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Nowy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋