Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

I am an attractive woman,and i am scared to go out and meet people. Whenever i get close to being with someone i run fast. i like safe attraction where i know that nothing will ever happen. I am shy and really anxious around people i don't know.especially men. I am scared that i am going to be alone forever. what can i do.

2007-08-02 03:46:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just kicked a bridesmaid out of my wedding and I don't feel bad about it. I think the wedding just brought the whole situtation to a head and made me relieze that she wasn't really my friend. I feel bad about not feeling bad about her feelings or the situtation.
For those who know me- Yes, it's was the crazy phyco friend.

Has anyone else gone through this or know someone who has?

Why do weddings bring out the worst in people?

2007-08-02 03:46:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Christians Please--
Are there any Protestants that married a Catholic and then converted to Catholicism?
Do you currently still attend the Catholic church? What was most difficult for you? What was your most memorable experience or lesson? Do you have any regrets? What did you question most about the differences in beliefs and practices?

My boyfriend and I are of different faiths and this is something we’ve been discussing before we get married. Just curious about the thoughts of anyone who’s been there before.
This is not a debate of different religions of what I believe or you believe. I just want to know if anyone converted to their spouse’s religion or vice versa and how did that work out for you.

Any advice would be great. Thanks.

2007-08-02 03:45:29 · 5 answers · asked by sugar sweet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How old when you started the relationship with them?

2007-08-02 03:45:17 · 19 answers · asked by Zach 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is 16, He got arrested for 3 armed robberys (With Guns), Attempted Murder on 2 Child Pedos and GBH. He was sentenced a few weeks ago to 24 years in prison. My family thought he was a very good person. he was starting college and had a long term relatiosnhip with his girlfriend who is pregnant. And he won't even let him visit him in prison, He declines all visits? What can i do? I'm 14. Thank-you

2007-08-02 03:39:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

year ages 12 & 14. He's 40+ and an alcoholic. One day my husband, brother and the kids came home from being on the river. As soon as they pulled up to the dock, my brother rushed up to me and started screaming in my face...actually bumping his chest into me. He was drunk and screaming something about me telling the girls to pick up their fishing rods. This went on for several minutes...spit flying from his mouth screaming and chest butting me. I was in total shock...my husband was sitting on the steps watching this. Hearing the screaming, my 18 y/o son was coming to my aide when my husband stopped him and told him not to get involved.

2007-08-02 03:39:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and if you think is good would you give me a star???
love ya

***MY WISHES***

I wish that just by closing my eyes,i could be where you're at...I wish i could fly,so i can fly near you...so many wishes inside me...because thinking of you brings to my mind a lot of things i will love to do with you...but i just can't...would be nice that just for one single time i could apear where you're at...so i can tell you how much i miss not seeing your smile,your eyes and listening your voice...I wish i could bring you near to me and keep you for ever,never see you leaving...I guest i just gotta go with what i have now...because at least i have you...Maybe not all the time and every single hour but i know that everywhere you go,you think of me like i think of you ...and at least this way we are together forever.......AM I RIGHT???...........................................

invented by :joliely

so what do you think?

2007-08-02 03:37:28 · 21 answers · asked by Sm1l3 6 in Friends

2007-08-02 03:37:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

feels a bit rubbish cos i liked the girl, what should i do?

2007-08-02 03:32:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 03:31:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I just moved in together about 2 months ago, we work very different hours and are rarely together except on his days off (they vary). Well within the last 2-3 weeks or so he has started stopping at a local bar and playing pool for and hour or so while I am at home sleeping (he works nights I work days). He wants to start a pool league and has been going every night after work to get people together for a league and then practicing. He loves the game and wants to be a pro one day. He is a great player and likes the ego boost of beating everyone. But I feel so uncomfortable with it because he goes every night after work. I know he is not out cheating and he doesent drink but it is just uncomfortable. We have been fighting like crazy because I dont like it...but he feels like I am holding him down. WHAT DO I DO....am I just overreacting, he does spend his days of with me and has no desire to go when we can be together....am I just crazy and insecure??

2007-08-02 03:29:16 · 9 answers · asked by pinkfrizzle78 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi freinds
I see many questions each day relating to family and relation.
Most of the people suggest for moral,ethics,vows and loyality.
but threre are very few who suggest people to hear their heart .
we put suggestion with high degree of humanityand ethics but do we put in our life?

married males-do you get provoked when u see a sexy women and if she gives a way to get alongside what whould u do?

Married females-u talk lot of about being loyal and honest in relation, but can u realy control being physical if u r husband is out of town for 2 years?

2007-08-02 03:28:07 · 5 answers · asked by rahul 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Dont get me wrong i truly think cheating is wrong but why does the cheater get all the blame i mean yea it was a selfish and immoral thing to do but i think the non-cheating spouse needs to take some of the blame too cause apparently he/she wasnt doing something right either and he/she was also doing a selfish thing by denying sex and i know there is no excuses for cheating bu there is no excuse to deny your spouse sex either unless of course of a medical reason and i know nobody is gonna agree with me but its my opinion.

2007-08-02 03:25:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you could tell them how their voice is so annoying...or their cooking is so horrible.....what would you tell them

Think of someone whom you love / like...and wouldn't want to hurt their feelings...but you wish you could in some way tell them how you really feel about something.

Who would it be and what is it?

2007-08-02 03:22:08 · 3 answers · asked by Dream V 3 in Friends

Ex was ordered to pay me child support for our 2 kids. I felt with her job situation (been at her present job for about 6 months), it would overwhelm her so I offered to send her about half the money (with my oldest) to help buy food, clothes, etc..., at least until she gets established in this job. I'd rather have a little support now than no support at all and their mom in legal trouble. She took great offense to the offer and chewed me out for disrespecting her and stating " you are still trying to control my life" issues. She stated she didn't need my help because she had friends and family and refused. Long story short, one payment in now she has suddenly reconsidered. Asked in a nice tone but certainly not gracious or apologetic. Should I offer again and play nice or should I just tell it was a one-time offer and she has to sleep in the bed she made?

2007-08-02 03:21:12 · 20 answers · asked by Randall 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-02 03:20:39 · 28 answers · asked by ashleyw845 1 in Weddings

Ok I dated this girl for about a year. Then I find out she is cheating on me so I say forget it and I dont talk to her for a couple of weeks. Nothing no phone calls emails ims what soever. Well it turns out that she is like stalking me. I live in an apartment building and this other college age girl need help moving in and I helped her bring up a tv. Well I guess she saw this and threatened the girl to stay away from me. Now it turns out that the girl has a crush on me. My first question is does this girl just have a crush on me because she sees that my ex wants me back or would she of had a crush on me no matter what? Second this crazy B#$% EX was waiting at my door when I got home from work so I thought it would be immature but funny to just walk by her open up my door then lock it and not say a word. But she wouldnt let me unlock it and started screaming in the hall for me to talk to her so I finally said sure leave me the hell alone. I see her like watching me

2007-08-02 03:19:59 · 24 answers · asked by Mr. Martini 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend has this boyfriend I haven't seen him before but only a picture. I guess on the internet he filled out a form about what he wants in a girl. My friend has brown eyes short hair and it that form her but green eyes and long hair. And then he put that he would get married when he finds the right girl. My friend and I are at work she is really hurt with that fact that he wrote that. I don't like seen her sad and crying all day. So I need your guys help. They have been together for 2 yrs going on 3.

2007-08-02 03:18:28 · 5 answers · asked by Lita 2 in Friends

Every year my birthday's suck. My husband never gets me a present and he never takes my kids to get me one, he says every year he just didn't have time. He makes me a cake with the kids but big deal. I don't care if he takes the kids to the dollar store to get me something, it makes me feel bad and my kids feel bad for me because they have nothing for me. I never do that to him. Where's the respect???

2007-08-02 03:17:41 · 13 answers · asked by celexa 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up w/ my ex 6 months ago beause he was verbally.mentally abusive. He has been contacting almost everyday via text/email/voicemail. I never responded to anything. I was madly in love with him but I couldnt be that woman who disrespects herself any longer. However, yesterday my doorbell rang and it was him. He showed up to tell me he was leaving the area. He acted so differeent (emotionally) than what he has said in his texts and emails. He was kind of on top of the world and non chalant.I gave him a hug good bye and some tears came out. He said hes only going to be 2 hrs away and hes coming back on weekends. I said thats good. He kept hugging me and then kissed me on the lips. He asked me to call him later last nite and I never did. He then sent me a text saying "hungry?" and I said no, just ate.. I dont know what to think of this. I still love him but I dont believe his feelings and im scared. i dont know why he does this when he hates me when Im with him..

2007-08-02 03:16:52 · 13 answers · asked by Kit Katt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We broke up.So now hes tryna put me out. What can i do???

2007-08-02 03:16:13 · 4 answers · asked by TONI C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think it would be cool to find a couple with the same first names as us. We are Emily and Andy.

2007-08-02 03:15:19 · 7 answers · asked by Emily Chicago 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it like divide and conquer, political negotiation, cohersion, pleading, tempting, black mail, ultimatum, bribery?

2007-08-02 03:15:14 · 5 answers · asked by a2z_alterego 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband told me he is no longer attracted to me. Has anyone been in a similar situation?

2007-08-02 03:13:54 · 10 answers · asked by Kw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-02 03:13:10 · 13 answers · asked by AO 4 Yayo 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl have been friends ever since we started high school (I am currently in year 10). Lately I have been getting sexual feelings for her, the other day when she was over my place we just started kissing out of the blue, so I know she feels that way about me too. A couple of days later we went further just foreplay no sex. I don't know what do to, I don't know whether I want to start 'going out' with her or just stay friends or 'friends with priviledges'.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-08-02 03:11:00 · 8 answers · asked by justin_k007 2 in Singles & Dating

I was sexually abused for three and a half years, when i finally told, i was sent off, i came back home and now everyone hates me and calls me a liar, I can't stand it anymore, i am always depressed, i think i am slipping away, what do i do?

2007-08-02 03:09:32 · 7 answers · asked by angelleticangel2008 2 in Family

2007-08-02 03:08:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im going on a date with a lady thats 43 that has a super nice body. what are my chances of ending up having sex with her.
she flirts with me a little. should i just try to kiss her?

2007-08-02 03:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 03:05:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating