Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

we read here all the time and i just dont get it. i love my...,but... mistake...cheated. these three words in one sentense just dont go together it digusts me that people even consider anyone taking them seriously. how can cheating be a mistake? its not like they didnt know what they were doing!

2007-08-02 06:24:18 · 29 answers · asked by not this way 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with this person for the passed 5 years and in the beginning everything was great. it only took a couple of months before the problems began. I'll admit that I've made mistakes within the first couple of months but it's been a long time since then and he still doesn't trust or have faith in me. He's only just started to question my loyalty as well. What I need to explain is that I don't leave the house by myself. I rarely go anywhere at all. I've respected the fact that he wants to be the soul breadwinner but his reasons are that he's worried I'll just leave him for someone with more money. And it's not just that. He compares me to his ex-girlfriend and other girls that have screwed him over expecting me to do the same. It's been this way for 5 years and I've just about had it. I've never broken up with anyone and therefore do not know how to say something as bad as divorce. Let's keep in mind that I've never cheated on him physically or emotionally. Please, someone help?

2007-08-02 06:23:00 · 12 answers · asked by prfreckle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what do I have to say?

2007-08-02 06:20:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's been like this for a year ever since she got the laptop. She sits in her room 24/7, she's not eating, lost alot of weight, not sleeping, not going out, not taking care of herself and worst of all she's not attending classes at the university and her marks have gone down considerably! When i talk to her, she's always somewhere else doesn't listen to what i'm saying. She won't even admit that she has a problem. Once i gave her this article to read about internet addiction, she just laughed it off and said "That's not me" I've spoken with her mother and she said she was thinking of disconnecting the internet but she was afraid that by doing that she'll drive her insane! or to do something worse! Someone plz help? I know she needs proffessional help, but how can i help when she's in denial????

2007-08-02 06:19:07 · 10 answers · asked by grievingbadly 2 in Family

Ok well yesterday I had an interview at a gym for a front desk position and he told me at the end that he will let me know by this afternoon sometime or the latest by noon tomorrow. Well.. even though he said when he was going to contact who he interviewed... I just feel like I would like to call and ask anyway just to let him know I am very interested in the job but I am not sure how I could do that.. Can you help please?

2007-08-02 06:17:16 · 3 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Friends

Why do so many gay men act like queens, don’t get me wrong I’m a homosexual male myself but I play rugby, kick box and partake in “manly” activity’s, I’m a man why wouldn’t I! There is nothing in my voice or mannerisms that set me apart from my breeder male friend apart from the fact I like cock.

What courses so many gay man to act like 14 girls with there high pitched voices and flappy hands (its like talking to an Italian woman) I find men attractive not women!

Can some please explain this to me as currently I feel a lot of gay men are not guy but just women that need sex reassignment surgery?

I don’t doubt for a second that I will get a lot of flak from kylie and Dame Shirley Bassey cabin crew fans, but intelligent answers welcome.

(if you want 2 way dialog on this question feel free to email me at ronsoncomet@yahoo.co.uk)

2007-08-02 06:15:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day, I bought a greeting card and designed it. I colored it, and put pictures on it. I havent seen her in weeks since she left me but I called her to pick up the card. When I saw her I felt angry but I do love her. She was being nice to me but I was frozen that I barely could talk to her. She gave me a hug and I acted as the tough guy and didn't act as if i cared. I gave her my shirt too and she was all walking to her car looking back. I got up and walked away then I called her and told her I still love you. Later that night I called and we talk but I was all negative and mad while she was talking. At the end she said good night, bye, I did not say anything. I called back and said I love you and I miss you. Then we parted. Shes with this other guy well, her exbf, and I dont know how to get her back, What do I do???? Tell me how to get her back!!!!!!!! Please!!!

2007-08-02 06:14:26 · 7 answers · asked by Kenneth K 2 in Singles & Dating

I been with my boyfriend 7 months!
He just back from a 2 week break - when he left we had just resolved an angrument and agreed that this break would do us both good and allow us to think. He told me that this break would either underline that we were not ment to be, or rekindle the magic we had lost.

We have not had sex throughout our relationship but its what we both want to happen, me especially, but when it has a chance to happen after a few good days, an argument arises. It hurts.

When he arrived back from his holiday he rested a day n then came down to see me the day after, he gave me the presents he bought me and a hug.

In result to our arguments, it does not come natural to hold hands, or kiss, or even cuddle and talk to each other. He says we have got ourself in a situation we cat get out of.

This guy was my best friend and i am scared i have lost him.

What am i to do to make him want to be with me and be happy.?
Help please.
x

2007-08-02 06:14:22 · 1 answers · asked by xLaugh...Live...Lovex 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been told many times that i am gorgeous/beautiful/very pretty. but i'm not blonde. when i go out in public with my blonde friend who wears a lot of black eyeliner, every guy stares at her. i have some guys looking at me and drooling or dropping their jaws. but usually a lot of guys don't look at me as long as they would look at my friend.

2007-08-02 06:14:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i am in the 10th grade and i just seem to love this guy he is so sweet, he sits by me all the time, he kinda flirts with me too. And he would do anything to just keep me by him... But he is one of my friends and i knew i loved him before we were friends and we dont know eachother that well, but i totally think hes the one for me... But hes popular and im not and that ruins almost all my chances of getting this guy! I dont think he knows yet and i wanna make sure that i know what he likes and doesnt and what makes him feel like i've came on too strong... and almost all guys think alike right???

2007-08-02 06:13:18 · 1 answers · asked by Donna H 2 in Singles & Dating

There is no connection with or to anyone. I feel isolated. People outside my family apparently think I am fine and some even think I have a girlfriend.

Very short story:

Well, when I was in school, I was teased, criticized, bullied, and attacked almost every day until I graduated. I never developed any proper social skills, but it did make me very afraid of social situations.

I am unable to go anywhere or do anything without being consumed by what other people think. Just the way people look at me can affect my mood. I know I look young, but being called Sir (by a service person generally) puts the idea in my head they think I am old.

I can talk to women easier when I can't be seen. When I am in public, if I can get my mind off myself for a little while, I can talk almost normally. Even if I can, it doesn't last long.

2007-08-02 06:12:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever get in a bad mood and your're just bitchy for no reason that you can figure out? Well that's the way I'm feeling today, and my husband says that I take out my moods on him and that if work is annoying me so much - then I should just lash out at the people here that are annoying me.

It's not the people, or the work - I just don't want to be in work at all lately - just so lazy. And that's not why I'm in a mood...I don't know why I'm in a mood...I just am not happy today. And I feel like I'm going to snap every time someone asks me to do something for them.

Why can't he understand that sometimes I dont' know why I'm in a bad mood? And leave it at that and stop digging for reasons?

2007-08-02 06:11:46 · 21 answers · asked by starryeyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when she's not home, i wear her exercise shorts, the black very tight ones. i even wear her panties and bikini and then do things to my self. is tat right

2007-08-02 06:10:07 · 13 answers · asked by Herro 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want real answers.thanks a lot.

2007-08-02 06:09:54 · 21 answers · asked by lilac t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-02 06:09:47 · 23 answers · asked by natman565 1 in Friends

Do you *have* to pre-stamp the RSVP card envelopes? A shocking majority of people these days just pitch them, and then show up anyway, and with stamp prices skyrocketing lately, it seems like a huge waste of money.

2007-08-02 06:09:24 · 24 answers · asked by Queen Queso 6 in Weddings

My 28 year old brother and his 25 year old fiance are getting married on august 25th. I have no idea what to buy them.....here is some info about them....can anyone give me some ideas for a wedding gift

My brother:
He has always been into music..he has a band (punk/rock band). He has lots of tatoos, like skulls and snakes. He likes old rock like johnny cash, elvis presley etc. He also likes some sports, n he likes to travel n he likes the outdoors.

His fiance:
She also likes music, she is in my bros band. She plays piano n guitar. She is into makeup, hair, and clothes(very girlie girl). She also likes dark gothic things like my brother as well.

I was kind of thinking something that has to do with music, but at the same time. Im sure alot of people will be getting them like items.

I have a general idea, but i dont know any specific gifts.
so any ideas will help thanks a bunch....

I also have a limit..probably $100-$200

2007-08-02 06:08:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

it my best friend(guy) and the other guys who i work with

2007-08-02 06:03:00 · 7 answers · asked by <3myheadphones 3 in Singles & Dating

Brother is having a $50,000+ wedding. His fiance' is an only child from a family that spoils her rotten, they aren't really wealthy though. At the shower I gave a $150 gift and thought it was generous until her friends and family gave $500+ gifts. Now the wedding is here and we were planning on giving a $250 check and a $50 item from their registry. Normally I know that would be appreciated but I have a feeling that she and my brother, who has changed since he met this woman, will be upset with us for not giving more. I know that sounds crazy but I am seriously worried about starting World War II over our "cheap" gift. Not sure what my question is? How to handle this and avoid ruining the relationship I guess.

2007-08-02 06:00:05 · 33 answers · asked by Luv2Answer 7 in Weddings

Imagine you had the opportunity to have sex with the girl of your dreams. You get her to your room an have night after night of the most beautiful sex in your life. After 2 weeks she confesses that she was a hermaphrodite and had the penis surgically removed. You inspect and find a scar wher a penis used to be. Would you continue to be with her if you two were the only ones who knew the secret?

2007-08-02 05:59:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 05:58:17 · 5 answers · asked by david g 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to French on Friday with my bf, what did it feel like on your first time?

2007-08-02 05:57:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it possible to love more than one but for different reasons????? so then how do u know 'the one'???


is it just mushy crap?

2007-08-02 05:57:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Grandson now living with his grandparent his mother hasn't made any effort to check on how he's doing. He about to start the senior school in september. How do the grandparents stand

2007-08-02 05:51:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My son has lived with me for three years, the first 1 of which his father had custudy. His father made out temporary gardenship contract and I signed it. After about a year of which I still sent my ex child support, I stopped the child support and so he said he would make my son go back to live with him. So we went to court and my son (then 15 yrs old) talked to the judge and told him he didnt want to move back in with his father and the judge granted me full custudy. We'll now he wants to move back in with his father, I'm still paying on a loan for my retainer and my attorney. I don't think it is nessisary to go back to court and change custudy when he could just change his mind again. I've already said he could go live with his father and I wouldnt fight it. Can I make out a contract that is legal and binding for temporaty guardianship? If so how?

2007-08-02 05:49:16 · 2 answers · asked by nola_b 2 in Family

I done a mistake with this boy, He liked me and he told me he loves me but I already had a boyfriend and I think he got so jealous and he was starting to do bad things and I think it was cause off me cause I did kiss my bf in front off him outside off his house everday for 2 yrs, why did he do that , after he left cause off me, I found my bf looking at nude women on the net and he did lie by telling the police that the other guy hit him and he didn't 7 years later I saw him and we both was just looking at each other in the eyes do you think he still got feelings for me

I picked the wrong guy the other person really does love me I think , I done so bad things to him to hurt him and I think he still got feelings for me does he still got true love for me

he missed a year of school thanks to me and he really got hurted cause off me and my bf and I know I done wrong but , how can I make it upto what hurt I cost him ... what happen if he don't want to talk to me.

2007-08-02 05:47:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay he is 14 and we are v close, we sleep at each others houses, go on holiday together ( with our parents ) and we do everything together, we been going out for 12 months now and he is starting to want me to sleep with him, last time he asked i said no and he didnt call me for the rest of the day
im 13, and im a virging and he is expecting me to have sex, i really dont want to do it, but whatif he will stop liking me?

2007-08-02 05:46:18 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

first she her stupid parents think just cause of me she wears jeans and polos and that kind of stuff even though i did not this other one of her asshole friend did.next she goes around showing off that she hooked up with a 7th grader and she is only in 5th grade that could never happen cause her parents wont let her.she goes around showing her stupid phone in peoples face well she is not the only one with a cell phone!next,her parents give me lectures to wear a scarf and wear these clothes in our country and stuff like that but dont they look at thier stupid daughter she has sleepovers at boys house she is alwayshanging with them her parents dont care a dawm about her and instead of telling her that she needs fix her acts they tell me i mean wat did i do!another she tells people i am show off which i am not .i have a crush on this guy who i was close to but then she came in and now that is the 7th grader i am talking about.when i am chatting with her all she can talk about is her

2007-08-02 05:44:32 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

ok my suppost to be best friend sleep with my boyfriend like 100 time! and well so i got have mad at them. my ex boyfriend jordan said he wouldn't do it again and would had out with me more.and my ex friend Christy said she would give me some sex tip and find me a new boyfriend

should i forgive them?

2007-08-02 05:41:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I made the biggest mistakes of my life last year. In that year alone, I managed to somehow become an addict, lose my virginity to a completely jerk, lose contact with lifelong friends, and completely flunk all my classes thus getting suspended from my college for the next year.

TODAY my wonderful, beautiful, perfect older sister left to go back to college and I'm home alone feeling like a COMPLETE failure in life and just hating everything about me.

I've ruined everything I've ever stood for and I don't even know why. I'm so STUPID and right now I just wish I was anyone else but me. My dad told me last night that I am the biggest disappointment of his life. My sister tried to comfort me by the usual "things will get better" but they WON'T because the past won't go away and I'm stuck with this forever.

I just hate me right now and I am so ashamed of myself. And I live in a house where I'm constantly reminded of my mistakes and how worthless I am...

2007-08-02 05:41:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family