Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

I know she loves me but I hurt her too badly. I really wish I could take it back but I want her to know how sorry I am and that I would never do it again. I don't want us to break up. I really don't think I can live without her.

2007-08-02 05:19:26 · 41 answers · asked by Buck Johnson 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok,wellz im goin to meet 1 of ma friends at ma old middle skool nd den we gonna chillin at da park but she wants me to bring sum beer nd go wild......where both 14 nd i like her a lot more den a friend but i also like this other girl....wat should i do??(im 14 and she's 14 nd the other girl i like is 13)

2007-08-02 05:18:56 · 6 answers · asked by Joker S. 2 in Friends

So i met this girl, that became a relationship, etc. It was going great and really intense at points. but toward the end i realized that she and the relationship is not what I wanted. Because of her jealousy, frequent low self esteem, and overall immaturity I just couldn't stay w/ her for the long run. Dealing w/her, i ended up hanging out w/no friends, no female friends, and basically doing NOTHING all day except to talk to her.

BTW, this was long distance, i was 18, she was 16. That was NOT what I wanted, but she would be so whiny at times I really didn't wanna hurt her. I think the relationship had some strain on her too. So we broke up. I moved on, she got a new b/f but I'm not sure she actually "moved on" (probably forced herself to). So i call her, lets say, every couple weeks after that to see how she's doing. First couple of time it was all good. But the last time, she had an attitude and tried to curse me out, brought up personal things, tried to make me out a loser. So...

2007-08-02 05:18:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 24 yrs old and married to my husband who is 28 yrs old for 3 yrs.I am a teacher and he works in insurance.Its not working out too much has happened and he cheated on me more than once.I have a daughter from a prior relationship who is 4 yrs old my only child who i want to make things easy on her as possible.I spoke to my soon to be ex.husband who has been working in london these last 3 months and we both agreed(verbal) to the liquidation of all marital assets as well as splitting everything 50/50.Well the thing is he wants to sell the house now. But the housing market is down at present so our home would only sell for about 336 grand when we purchased it for more like 400 grand or little more. I think we might want to hold off on selling but on the other hand there is no gurantee the market will pick quickly?My soon to be ex. offered me 750 dollars a month for 6-8 months if i sold the house now?Is this a good deal?

2007-08-02 05:17:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This girl @ work likes me, and she knows I like her too. Thing is- she acts weird sometimes. Long story short, she tries to make me jealous... What does that mean?

2007-08-02 05:16:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think my boyfriend might be cheating!!!! i have the password of one of his e mails but he does not know, well everytime i check it he has e mails of when he signs on to stuff, like today i checked it and he had something from sms.ac where u can chat and meet people and he has an account with them i also saw one of a porn site!!! help i mean he does not seem that way but nowadays you cant tell we been together for 2 years we are planning to get married soon but what if he chats with other people? how can i find out if he is should i create an account too and act like someone else?

2007-08-02 05:16:26 · 12 answers · asked by jessyka_g 2 in Singles & Dating

Have any of you guys out there who are/were in long distant relationships ever faithful to your girlfriend?

2007-08-02 05:15:47 · 23 answers · asked by ladydiana_a 2 in Singles & Dating

my mom is all of sudden she found any excuse not to plan the wedding i really feel like i am the underdog here since i am the youngest. then i have a friend who is upset that my mom is not on the ball with the wedding and a lot has happened but what is really annoying is my mom hasn't sent the contact back to the wedding place. which supposedly we are suppose to be getting married in november. is she delaying this on purpose just to make me mad and keep me nervous that it won't happen. please advice me every-time i bring it up she is like you overreacting which i don't think i am i need advice what do i do anyway to motivate her to get her act going? my friend like have you got the invitation sent it or order and no we don't. my mom has the money i don't. i need help any advice would be greatly appreciate how to motivate my mom to move her reerend and not in a mean way? and how to get my friend to lay off of me its really irritating i have two controlling people when it is my wedding please HELP? iwhat am i suppose to do i can't take the heat i feel like calling it off everythough save the dates and half of my bridesmaid have brought their dresses. which is not fiar to them. advice needed.

2007-08-02 05:15:42 · 28 answers · asked by ladylynx26 3 in Weddings

For me I would rather be a nerd. Because they are smart and honest. They are also nice company when you get to know them.

2007-08-02 05:15:17 · 24 answers · asked by norma.musicgeek 2 in Singles & Dating

Short and simple version. I work with this woman who I know is cheating on her husband with at least 2 other people.

I don't know him that well. We meet at work social events and he seems like thoroughly nice bloke (who frankly deserves much better than her) but since I know this, am I honour bound to tell him what I know or leave him in blissful ignorance?

2007-08-02 05:14:38 · 42 answers · asked by DMsView 6 in Marriage & Divorce

and not just for sex?

2007-08-02 05:14:11 · 3 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

care of your own main meal. He wants a fish pie out of the freezer. I on the other hand was just trying to decide which local eatery would enjoy my lunchtime custom when HE said. There's a bit of leftover veg there you can fry up........

2007-08-02 05:12:01 · 8 answers · asked by proud walker 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My not so dependable friend, who lives 3 hrs away has offered to make my wedding cake as a gift. Very nice of her, but i've never known her to be a cake decorator. I havent seen any of her work, but i'm reluctant to agree because she's well... flaky and i dont' want her backing out on me for some dumb reason at the last minute. BUT.. she'd be saving us probably $250. Should i make it myself and save myself the hassle? I'm really crafty and probably could do it myself.

2007-08-02 05:10:38 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay, I have a job and am perfectly capable and willing to work and support myself. My problem is, my boyfriend works for himself (he will Never get a 'real job', doesn't believe in working for someone else) and mades very little; sometimes he makes no money at all. The nature of his business is extremely unstable. He can support his very spare batchelor lifestyle. The issue is, he now wants for us to move in together, with the idea that we will get married in the future.

I am desperately in love with this person, but I am terrified. I want to buy a house in the next few years and start a family, but these things are very expensive and I will need a partner to contribute his share in order to make it happen.

He was also hoping to have enough money to travel to Europe next year, while I am in the process of searching for a new job so I can make more money and save for a home down payment.

Help! What should I do?

2007-08-02 05:10:02 · 30 answers · asked by Sam3931 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend and i were having a discussion and she said this.. and i was curious as to see what other ppl had to say on this topic

2007-08-02 05:07:34 · 18 answers · asked by sydd vicious. 2 in Singles & Dating

My Dad is 43, muscular and like 6'4. He and my mom are divorced so he's dating. Everytime I bring my girlfriend around he flirts like hell. Now he's taking her to the gym with him for personal training sessions and I don't like it. Last week I saw him pat her on the butt after we left the gym together. She says its nothing, he says it's nothing but I'm worried. My Dad is a handsome dude and he dates alot of young women. I'm just scared that he's gonna eventually screw my girl. And yes, I talked to him about it and he said he's not attracted to her and that I should mellow out.

2007-08-02 05:05:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you date me??
im 5'10'', 189 lbs. and muscular.
I have sandy brown hair and i have tanned skin.
I am 19 years old and i love sports and i love the beach.
I going to college in southern Cali. i am majoring in business.
Would you date me???

2007-08-02 04:56:17 · 26 answers · asked by Spencer 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you think?
If a man offers to pay for your (plane ticket/hotel..2 times a month) after seeing you for the first time this weekend and enjoying your company, finding you to be very attractive
..we live in different states
would you think he may want to pursue a long term relationship and that he may be in love with you too?
after you tell him you in love with him and he tells you he likes you....and miss you.since the last time he seen you...would you pay for anyone who is not someone your interested in?...
did i confused you?
Basicially im trying to say is Is this man really into me the way that im into him...
ive known him for 4 years....so it goes a little bit beyond the physical thing here yall
isnt it romantic? ?

2007-08-02 04:55:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been dating for about a year, and when we first met she said she wanted to stay a virgin until she got married, so we decided to hold off on the sexual part of our relationship. About a week ago she told me she was pregnant, and of course it's not mine, and she won't tell me who's it is. Should I stay with her or not?

2007-08-02 04:55:07 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like when I feel I am being a jerk, I seem to get further along with a woman than when I am being a gentleman. I have gotten the "you are a great guy speech often as of late." How great do I have to be? When I have been told that I'm being a jerk, all I have to say is, "I'm sorry." I don't like being a jerk and most women say they don't like men who are jerks, yet it seems to work for me when I am. What's up with that?

2007-08-02 04:53:59 · 12 answers · asked by Solomon Grundy 7 in Singles & Dating

I've liked a girl for a while, then one day i decided to tell her, and also asked if it was ok with me liking her. She told me she was fine with it, but now every time i express my love for her, like nice cards, reminding her that i love her... she calls me corny most of the times and it hurts. She makes me feel worse for being there. please any advice? would aappreciate it

2007-08-02 04:53:40 · 13 answers · asked by Inagony 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 04:51:28 · 10 answers · asked by Maria 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am young in my late 20s I stay @ home taking care of my 2 kids. Before I just wore t-shirts and jeans. Then my husband started doing things to make me feel suspicious and he would put me down for no reason and still to this day I feel insecure. So I thought I would change my look to see if he would notice me he never he brought me around his friends until reacently. I have highlighted my hair and dress more my age I guess and no I dont let anything hang out or dress slutty. I feel a little better about myself but my husband doesnt show that he likes my new look until his friends or other men take notice in me then he acts like I am the hottest woman in the world and then he claims me thats my wife and he will say" I dont know what a a good looking woamn like you is doing w/ a guy like me" Why cant he appreciate me all the time not just when other men take notice to say thats my wife?

2007-08-02 04:49:46 · 15 answers · asked by hotmoma1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-02 04:49:29 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need phone numbers, websites or emails to help me trace my father i'm 17 years old and when ever i ask my mum who my dad is she always says its none of your business.

i really want to find out who he is so please could you leave some details which will help.

please not that i have tried genes reunited and other sites like that and they are point cus it comes up with nothing.

2007-08-02 04:47:23 · 7 answers · asked by Dale-Jaime M 4 in Family

Or do you think they are like the majority of us; people who know what they should do, but won't follow their own advice when it comes to their own relationships?

I have a suspicion that most of them are home alone Friday nights eating a pint of Ben and Jerry's.

2007-08-02 04:46:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 04:46:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Can you figure out this one honest opinions would be cool?
Can you figure out this one honest opinions would be cool?
my friend sarah and i had an argument, she saw my ex boyfriend out and they took a picture on her phone and planned to send it to me (but she never did) She knows i was hung up on him and apparently he (jon) had approached her out in a bar....she for some strange reason thought i was seeing jack her ex (I was not) and then they though it ould be funny to send a picture message of themselves to me..Why would she/he do this (they both have new partners)..is she a true friend for soing this (1 thinking i would even look at her x in that way 2 taking a picture) ....Should i drop her and why do you think he would do this???

2007-08-02 04:43:46 · 10 answers · asked by lisa l 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 04:42:14 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is this a recent change in manners or have people always been like this? I am having a party this weekend and there are still many people who haven't RSVP'd, and it is an email invitation so it doesn't take long. I think it is so rude!

I don't really care if they are coming or not, but I would like to get a head count so that I can buy food! It also makes me think differently of the people. It makes me feel that they are just waiting to see if something better comes up. So rude!

Does this bother anyone else? I know it is applicable to all events, weddings, parties, etc. Has our culture always been this way? Are you someone who never RSVP's? If so, why?

2007-08-02 04:38:48 · 36 answers · asked by Tanya 1 in Weddings