Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

he use to try talking to me when i would see him out but since i was always hooked on my x i blew him off,now that im over my x and time has passed i saw him last month and he looked adorable,things seemed okay at first,then i drank too much and made myself look stupid.i found him on myspace the next day and sent him a message apologizing,he had no reply,so i messaged him again the next morning saying'your suppose to accpet my apology"he responded with'im pacing myslef"and a smily face.a couple weeks later sent him another message telling him I think we should hangout,he replied with"owtay,hey wait,you do hair right?where do you work again?eh,just being nosey" so I sent him a message back later that day saying"why,whats going on?you need a haircut?definitely not highlites,the brown is adorable"and he had no response, its been 4 days.do i message him again?

2007-08-02 07:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years, before that we were together for 4 years. I caught him cheating in february with a girl he works with she'd sent him a text message saying "I love you". He confessed. I chose to forgive and forget, he cried and told me he was sorry. in april, he left me, he didn't give a specific reason just that he was unsure about our future together. a week later he came back. I took him back and we worked on our problems. last week, he seemed a little distant I confronted him and asked him why he seemed so distant, he said it was problems at work. I asked him if he still loved me,he said yes, and that was the end of it. the next day I went to the doctor He seemed a little upset at the fact, but I thought nothing of it. On my way to the doctor's office, he called me and told me to go to my mother's house after the doctor's office because he was moving out again! It's been almost a week, and I've gotten two text messages from him. One asking if I was alright, and another saying "hold on to hope because i am not done with you love me". Yet he has not called, nor has he answered any of my calls or text messages. I feel like he might be spending time with the girl he cheated on me with (who by the way has a boyfriend). I don't know what to do in this case, or what to think. What should I think? What should I do?

2007-08-02 07:20:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this has always puzzled me for a very long time.most boyfreinds and now my husband all do this, can anyone shed any ideas on why this is.

2007-08-02 07:20:37 · 34 answers · asked by michelle h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They have nothing to lose and everything to build to and are not jadded So yes I beleive young people that get married have a better chance in Life?

2007-08-02 07:11:33 · 17 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

I have dated my boyfriend for a few months. He said he loved me, and when he asked me if I loved him.I said "Not yet, it takes time to fall in love with somebody". Everytime we meet, we kiss and I still keep my virginity. And I notice that everytime I kiss and touch him, he says "You naughty girl" and he called me "Baby". Is "naughty" a good word or a bad word according to the guy's point of view. Thanks for your opinion.

2007-08-02 07:09:15 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 15, and in the past year my best friend has admitted to me that she is anorexic and bulimic. She is about 5'3-5'4 and used to weigh 110 pounds but dropped to about 82. She showed me her stretch marks. It gets really upsetting because whenever we talk, its always about looks and weight and most of the time when I talk to her I feel as if I'm not good enough because I'm not as skinny as her. There are times when I will purge or cut calories for a few days, but I never totally go through with it because I realize that I don't want to live my life that way.

Her parents know about her problem but they aren't doing anything about it. I don't know why. She tells me how they say she's killing herself by not eating and they take away her cell phone as punishment. Sometimes I tell her that she needs help but she just tells me that she will never forgive me if I tell. What do I do? We used to have so much fun and now we have to obsess over weight. I hate it.

2007-08-02 07:09:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi. I was at this party a few months back, and got with this girl, both of us, had had a few drinks. and then later on a few hours later the girl i got with was sick etc due to too much alcohol. Now she cant remember anything of the night and I remember everything. Now her best female friend, thinks that when i got with her " i hit on her when she was so drunk she could barely move". Now that was not the case. But how can i prove to her that what i am telling her is the truth? especially when the person i got with cannot remember anything of the previous night. And why won't she believe me? she's calling me creepy, cos of what happened. any help would be very very helpful. thankyou

2007-08-02 07:07:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend told me they do and now it grosses me out to use the same shower as my husband. Please be honest.

2007-08-02 07:06:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone had to transport their cut wedding flowers from one place to another?

All I'm having is a bridal boquet, but I'm going to make it myself to save money, so there's not a florist to take care of the transportation.

The wedding is taking place on a saturday afternoon, and we will be travelling to the location on Friday afternoon. We'll be in the car for about 2 hours.

Should I put them in a cooler for the drive down, and then into the fridge? Or do you think the ice in the cooler will damage them?

2007-08-02 07:05:04 · 7 answers · asked by Queen Queso 6 in Weddings

By the time the wedding is over I will have spend $150 on a tux to be an usher, $150 on two night in a hotel, Taken a half day of vacation from work for the rehersal, driven over 300 miles. Do I still have to buy a present?

2007-08-02 07:04:57 · 17 answers · asked by Andrew E 1 in Weddings

I messaged this guy on myspace(i know him from outside myspace) and told him we should get together sometime,he replied with "owtay,wait,you do ahir right? where do you work again? eh, just being nosey" so i sent him a message back later that day saying"why,whats going on,you need a haircut? definitley no highlites,the brown is adorable" he must obviously know that i like him right? well he has not replied,its been 4 days?WTF???

2007-08-02 06:59:44 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has been in a serious relationship for about 9 months or so. The two of them moved in together 3 months ago, & ever since, they constantly get into fights... her bf will "throw her out" and tell her that he doesn't want to be with her, but then a couple days later, he takes her back.
I keep telling her over and over that she needs to leave him. That a guy like that is not worth her time... but she won't listen.
& every time they get into another fight, she comes to me and tells me how much she loves him and hates him at the same time and I'm just tired of hearing about it! I've told her what I think, yet she doesn't take my advice... I'm sick of her complaining to me about her relationship after I've already tried to help her... she isn't taking any of my advice, so why does she keep coming to me with this problem of hers? what can I do?

2007-08-02 06:59:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you think its fair for someone to have a relationship with a person just becuz they remind them in their ex gf /bf?

2007-08-02 06:57:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 06:57:26 · 16 answers · asked by LordVader 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this friend who lives in texas and i live in minnesota. well anyway i found out that she is having a baby shower. i had asked her why didnt i get a invintation and she said its because she knew i could not make it becuse we are long distance she also said its because she dosent want me to feel like i have to send a gift. what should i do. im so mad at her for not inviting me
im so sad. should i be stressed

2007-08-02 06:55:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of mine and I have sex. We aren't together in a said relationship, but neither of us are sleeping with others.

I want sex more than he does; but here's the twist: we found we are going to have a baby together too. So is it okay or wrong for me to have sex with another person (protected of course)?

ps: I've asked him where we stand relationship wise on several occasions and we are defintely just friends. (we are both +30 in case you are wondering)

So what do I do? Would I be wrong?

Please: no marriage counslers or like responses.

2007-08-02 06:53:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My family has always been a really close knit family....BUT My alcoholic brother-in-law called yesterday in a drunk rage and told my mom and dad that we could have nothing to do with my sister or my nephew...He said dont call and dont come by.....He is such an A$$ and my sister doesnt have much of a back bone to tell him that, that is not acceptable....HELP!!...What can I do??What should I do??...My sister is a grown women and should be able to stand up and choose who she wants to associate with....

2007-08-02 06:52:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and my ex met and went out while going to the same church. i dumped him and he stopped going to church. every couple of months he appears for a couple of days and then disappears again. everytime he wants me back and even thou he knows i have a bf but im not mad at him i dont think hes gotten the message that im not interested. the thing is that every time he comes back hes worse, his life is falling apart and as a friend im really worried. i cant tell him to leave me alone cuz hes such a delicatye person he might do something stupid, and i cant get close to help him cuz that would send him the wrong message. what do i do???

2007-08-02 06:51:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like do you think it is stupid or what?

2007-08-02 06:50:53 · 12 answers · asked by Zach 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 06:50:25 · 11 answers · asked by Afro 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My mum and i generally have a good relationship,and don't fight much.Seeing as it as the summer,my family had taken me away on hols quite a bit,and since i've been back,i've wanted to spend the time with my friends & boyfriend.This weekend,there is a huge concert going on,& my friends & i are staying at my auntie's.However,i've been banned from staying over in the past because my mum & dad really dislike her husband.Last night,i stayed at my boyfriend's all night and didnt come home until about 5am.She was in bed,but in the morning she was livid.She's saying 'she has no idea what i get upto' as if im some kind of tart & i'm so irresponsible.I guess i just took advantage because she didnt give me a time tocome home,but now she's not letting me and my friends stay over at my aunt's anymore.Everytime i see her she shouts at me and i cry,i've said sorry all i can.What do i do now?

2007-08-02 06:48:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A friend of mine for 10 years is in town for 2 weeks. He's leaving on Sat.

We've been trying to hook up for 2 weeks now. He's cancelled on me 4 TIMES now. I only cancelled once b/c I had to take care of a medical issue w/ my daughter.

So anyhow he just left me a vm to cancel again. Should I even bother calling him back?
If I do call him - what should I say b/c I'm pretty ticked atm.

His 'new' excuse is that his grandma decided to come down. I feel slighted.

2007-08-02 06:46:58 · 6 answers · asked by Corn_Flake 6 in Friends

Ever since this teacher came to teach at my school when I was in year 8, I have adored him. At first I just dismissed it as a crush, but I realise now that he means so much more to me than that.
He has never taught me but he knows that I like him, and he knows who I am. I am now 16, and lately he has been acting differently around me before we broke up for the holidays. He has been constantly staring at me, and we have made eye contact every time we have seen each other. Also (note he is the moodiest teacher at school) he has been smiling at me, whereas before he refused to even look at me. I have a feeling that he has some feelings for me too, but would it be wrong for a 30 year old man to like a 16 year old girl?
I know that it is no longer illegal for me to date older men here in England, as I am now 16 and I think about him all the time. I don't know what to do! I have only 9 months left at school...I need him badly! should I confront him about my feelings?

2007-08-02 06:45:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, my friend has a cousin, and his name is Chris, well I'm like in love with this guy but the first time it didn't really workout, but he has been talking about me to her and i'm thinking about giving it another shot. But he is going into like basic training or something for the Air Force or somthing along those lines soon. Then he will probably be shipped to another country later. Is it a bad idea to get into a relationship with him?

2007-08-02 06:44:08 · 5 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3 in Singles & Dating

My psycho friend thinks I stole a guy she likes. She sleeps around w/ a bunch of different guys and likes about 10 at one time. One guy she seems 2 like a lot. She treats ppl like **** and I just dont want 2 b her friend anymore. The guy who she likes a lot is a friend of mine on myspace. By accident one day I messaged him b/c I thought he was another guy who I met at a party. I apologized for the mix up, no big deal. Since then she has been going around saying I'm hittin on him and calling me a b*tch, and obsessivley asking every1 if i'm with him. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 YEARS there is no way i'm interested. Is it ok 2 message this guy again and have him explain it 2 her? Or should I just play it up 2 piss her off? I know it sounds mean but shes done much meaner things 2 me and my friends in the past. Now that I graduated hs I just dont wanna put up with her bs.

2007-08-02 06:41:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The text message said "I'm naked" and then "you better delete this before your wife sees it. I confronted my husband and he said it was someone he talked to a while back and she continues to call him. He is a tattoo artist and has tattooed her in the past...she's a stripper. (UGH!) I trust him to not cheat physically, but I am still totally bothered by this. After checking the phone bill I did see that ,indeed, he had called her as well. Since I have confronted him, I have not seena ny phone calls either to her or from her on his phone. Should I chalk it up as a mistake on his part and move on??? How do I confront him about his outgoing phone calls to her???

2007-08-02 06:40:43 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy tells you He loves you, is he telling the truth or is he just trying to get into your pants? When I said "I Love You" I meant it, even today, after he broke up with me. People like him make you wonder if its real or not, and if it is- When am i going to meet someone who loves me as much as I love them? I'm Living in a dark cave with limited oxygen, I want to fall in love now and get out of there!! Where is my Prince Charming? Others seem to have met theirs, so wheres mine? Have you met Yours yet?

2007-08-02 06:36:08 · 9 answers · asked by Heather P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

(my choice),my parents are both elderly and my mother is handicapped,my dad is slowly recuperating from a brain injury and dementia.between the two of them always nit picking with me theres a lot of inner turmoil here,i would like to move out but im on ssi checks every month and finding a sutable place thats close to our house may be impossible.i dont drive so i may have to use public transportation. thats not my problem ,my problem is my parents,theyve got a strangle hold on me,im not even free to visit my aunt in florida for two weeks! god forbid i should ask them,its no,youre going to annoy them (baloney) they like it when i visit them,and it gives me a well deserved rest. there are times when i feel like putting an end to all this riff-raff ,but i havent got then nerve. whats the solution? i only wish i knew!!! oh,and ive got high blood pressure as well.,this constant hollering isnt good for me,should i either move,or take a vacation from this zoo like atmosphere?

2007-08-02 06:28:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Like I know a couple of ppl but there like my brother and my bff. But still they might not have the same lunch as me so i'll be with a whole bunch of other people!Im very shy at first and im gonna walk in with a lot of sop. jun. and seniors!!What should I do!!

2007-08-02 06:26:18 · 11 answers · asked by LexieB:]] 1 in Friends

girl 1- 5'4 125lbs, toned body, popular, dyes hair blonde with highlights, goes tanning twice a day, lots of make up, football cheerleader, gymnast, 2.0gpa, smokes, drinks, lots of guy friends, not a virgin, kinda bitchy but really nice once you get to know her, will do anything for her friends. enjoys watching boys play football, kinda high maintanance, acrylic nails, belly button pierced, wants a nose ring, doesnt like to cover up much(didnt know how to say it lol), fashionista.

girl 2- 5'4 105lbs, toned body, semi-popular, brown hair with highlights and low lights, natural tan, light make up, cheerleader, gymnast, 2.9 gpa, occasionally drinks, doesnt smoke, virgin, nice to everyone but can be a ***** when she wants to, can hold her own in a sports convo, former part-time model, plays basketball and lacrosse, follows football, hockey, baseball, basketball, basically every sport, still girly, low maintinance, pierced belly button, dresses kinda preppy and sometimes conservative.

2007-08-02 06:25:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating