A friend of mine and I have sex. We aren't together in a said relationship, but neither of us are sleeping with others.
I want sex more than he does; but here's the twist: we found we are going to have a baby together too. So is it okay or wrong for me to have sex with another person (protected of course)?
ps: I've asked him where we stand relationship wise on several occasions and we are defintely just friends. (we are both +30 in case you are wondering)
So what do I do? Would I be wrong?
Please: no marriage counslers or like responses.
2007-08-02 06:53:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Suprise him and pull his shorts down around his knees and get busy, No man can refuse an agressive women like this. This will at least open up the door for conversation, you will at this point be a little more real in his eyes.
2007-08-02 06:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by ed l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not have sex with anyone else until that baby is born. He might be a great guy, but his friends might use your sleeping with someone else against you. Men tend to be paranoid and worried that a girl might sleep around and the baby might not be theirs, even if she was already pregnant before sleeping with just one other person. Focus on how you guys are going to raise your child, whether as a couple or friends. Just stick with sleeping with him.
2007-08-02 06:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by kitty10185 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not in a committed relationship so you are free to have sex with whomever (else) you choose.
Just be careful...birth control at this point isn't needed, but do use condoms to protect from STDs.
2007-08-02 06:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you began to date someone and that developed into a relationship I would say sex in that instance would be okay, but casual sex is not. I wish you the best of luck in this situation and God's Blessings.
2007-08-02 06:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Since you are technically single you could have sex with other people just like he can. Just let whomever you sleep with know that you are pregnant.
2007-08-02 06:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by *~*love always*~* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't the only thing in the life
2007-08-02 07:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by ^-^ engineering student ! ^-^ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well because your just friends ... im guessing hes your f*** buddy?so no, i dont think it would be wrong but then again, he is the father of your child...would you want to get pregnant again and then have different fathers for different children ...that wouldnt be good would it?
2007-08-02 06:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are having a baby with this man....you need to slow down
2007-08-02 06:56:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sunny Flowers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should letthe baby be born, incase it is any damage to your baby.
2007-08-02 06:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by kareena 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you need to tell him you're pregnant.
2007-08-02 06:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋