Do you think its fair for someone to have a relationship with a person just becuz they remind them in their ex gf /bf?
2007-08-02 06:57:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not fair to the other person if u hav a relationship wid them jus cause they look like ur ex n u hav no feelin for him or her in realty
2007-08-02 07:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by unknown_soul1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question!
Well it depends on the situation! Are you looking at this person as your exbf/gf or are you seeing traits or habits that your ex once had and are associating the two?
I don't think its fair to have a relationship with someone if your going to constantly measure them against an ex. You have to remember that everyone is different and while they may have similar interests, traits or habits as an ex, they ARE a different person and you should see them as that.
2007-08-02 07:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by missmelissa5286 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea, at all. Fair has nothing to do with it, but I guess you could say it's not fair to the person being dated just because they remind someone of their ex.
2007-08-02 07:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only is that not fair, it is not healthy for a person to expect the same the same thing from a bf/gf as was from the ex!!!
May God bless you.
2007-08-02 07:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by kathleen m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! Very bad reason to chose a relationship. Sounds like someone isnt' over the original relationship and trying to relive it through another similar person. Not only are they fooling themsleves, they are using the other person which is very UNFAIR to them.
2007-08-02 07:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Forgot How 2 Show Him 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeaas ! 100 % !
Wont u take a second look if all of a sudden u see some one just like ur bro or sis ??
Its the same for relationships too..provided they are gud with u !
2007-08-02 07:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by hari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with fair...it's not a kewl reason for a relationship but if they also actually really dig that person then there's no harm in it.
2007-08-02 07:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it not unfair to new BF or GF, One should better see new life in these , start enjoying afresh & forget the past
2007-08-02 07:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really but we often do fall for the same types over and over again. So, initially, there may be some similarities but if, over time, he doesn't recognize you for YOU and you become some shadow of his former ex, that's not going to cut it.
2007-08-02 07:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by Trillian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a problem but you have to Be Sure---you never let that person know why you dated him/her. It would be a tremendous slap in the face.
Don't tell your friends either for you KNOW it wont stay a secret long.
2007-08-02 07:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by we_are_legion99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋