My mum and i generally have a good relationship,and don't fight much.Seeing as it as the summer,my family had taken me away on hols quite a bit,and since i've been back,i've wanted to spend the time with my friends & boyfriend.This weekend,there is a huge concert going on,& my friends & i are staying at my auntie's.However,i've been banned from staying over in the past because my mum & dad really dislike her husband.Last night,i stayed at my boyfriend's all night and didnt come home until about 5am.She was in bed,but in the morning she was livid.She's saying 'she has no idea what i get upto' as if im some kind of tart & i'm so irresponsible.I guess i just took advantage because she didnt give me a time tocome home,but now she's not letting me and my friends stay over at my aunt's anymore.Everytime i see her she shouts at me and i cry,i've said sorry all i can.What do i do now?
2007-08-02 06:48:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ask her why shes so angry at you
2007-08-02 06:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really did take advantage and you probably knew what you were doing when you were doing it, which just makes it worse. You didn't accidentally fall asleep watching a movie and suddenly wake up at 5, so what were you doing? Your mother isn't stupid and she is naturally worried about you. Are you sexually active? Trouble happens most often between 12:00 am and 5:00 am. - which was the time you were gone. You most realize your mother's concern and her anger comes from that concern. You need to accept your punishment and start over and behave properly now, being respectful and responsible. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-08-02 06:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She trusted you and you took advantage. She is probably terrified that you'll end up pregnant and missing out on some of the best years of your youth. Sorry to say, it's going to take a while plus some very good behavior on your part before she will trust you again. I hope things improve soon.
2007-08-02 09:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Andy S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't apologise. Tell her you can't follow rules if she didn't set any. Also tell her (reguarding your aunt's husband) that you don't pick her friend's and she shouldn't pick yours.
This will probably result in another fight, unfortunately, but it should be the last one instead of everyone walking on eggshells all the time.
2007-08-02 06:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cut a leg off and give it to her as a present or something! Dude suck it up she is your momma and she just worries about you! She wants you to be safe she will get over it just let her be for a couple days or move out!
2007-08-02 07:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will heal this sadness. And it is a very sad thing that you have done to yourself.
Until you are 18, you have to do what your mom tells you to do. She is trying to keep you from becoming pregnant or ruining your reputation.
Be brave and strong.....do what she expects of you.
Big giant hug.
2007-08-02 06:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Keep a low profile; don't do anything to set her off.
2007-08-02 06:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋