A friend of mine for 10 years is in town for 2 weeks. He's leaving on Sat.
We've been trying to hook up for 2 weeks now. He's cancelled on me 4 TIMES now. I only cancelled once b/c I had to take care of a medical issue w/ my daughter.
So anyhow he just left me a vm to cancel again. Should I even bother calling him back?
If I do call him - what should I say b/c I'm pretty ticked atm.
His 'new' excuse is that his grandma decided to come down. I feel slighted.
2007-08-02 06:46:58 · 6 answers · asked by Corn_Flake 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's just a friend. I'm married and have a kid. I'm not chasing him, he keeps rescheduling & I'm tired of it.
(Why does 'friend' always have to be construed as boyfriend?)
2007-08-02 07:45:41 · update #1
it doesnt seem like he wants to see you all that much. if he really did, he'd make time and find a way for you, even with his busy schedule. just forget about him and move on. im pretty sure youre already tired of all the excuses.
2007-08-02 06:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by JIGGLY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but how many time? that just 5 times too many. as my brother would say when a man is intrested in a woman he would not let anything stand in the way of him wanting to see her. his grandma coming down is not an excuse he could have visited his grandma in the day and went out with u in the Evelyn. he is just not making the effort .my guess is that he's playing mind games to see how far he can push you. at the end of the day it seems like he is messing you about maybe he is really busy but that's no good for you u can do better. why should you go about chasing this guy it's not fare on you and he would probably just use you at his own convenience anyway. because your spending that much time trying to get his attention you might be missing out on the potential Mr right remember love there is more than one fish in the sea. happy hunting.
2007-08-02 14:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if he's cancelled on you for 4 times already, forget about him. From what you wrote, it doesn't seem like he's interested at all. Don't call him back. Wait and see if he calls you back. If he doesn't, move on! (:
2007-08-02 14:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Zoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him, wait 4 him to call u cause if u do then u would b chasing aftr him and thats not attractive 2 guys. if he really wants u, trust me, he would call u.
2007-08-02 13:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about him. If a guy wants to see you, he will find a way.
2007-08-02 13:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u can do better :)
2007-08-02 13:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Blessing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋