Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

what do i do we were awsome friends for a year and all the sudden he starts hitting his girlfriend and using dope and hiding it,his x told me he was that way always before so i told his girlfriend that( she is my friend too)and she told him i said that and he got all in my face then he posted papers all around town that i am a meth dealer and what car i drive and where i live! people have asked me about it already that live in my community,i am clean i don't even smoke or drink,what do i do!i want to get even or kick the s*** out of him any ideas please i need some thanks you guys!

2007-08-02 20:57:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

they r blongs to village and i'm frm city. my thinking connot match with them.they harrash me .their behaviour is too much strange. i don't want to tell them any thing belongs to study ,internet and books bcz i hate them. but some time i think that knowledge is often increase by shareing it with ohter but i observethat they will misuse it.then i get angry .they often querrel with me. idonnot like their society.ihave no any other option. suggest me right way.

2007-08-02 20:56:23 · 16 answers · asked by satakshie s 1 in Family

what is tha proper age to be in ninth grade if u started at the proper age

2007-08-02 20:52:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love him with all my heart . i do. we've had a few bumps in the past. our relationship is on again off again sometimes and we've been together for 5 years. give or take a total of like 6 months when we took a break (they were little breaks throughout the 5 year peorid) anyway.....the problem is..he wants me to move in w/him and will not drop it. i told him i want to finish school (im an architect major and have 2 years left) and as soon as i do i will do it. but every day he asks me and im starting to feel horrible. he says he understands my decision and asks cause i need to think about it. how do i tell him that he's making me feel like **** cause i dont want to? we have NO money. we can't make it if we do. .. im a logical thinker! its not all about the money i know but we will have bills to take care of and not enough money. if we wait...with both incomes we will! ugh. i love him & want to marry him as soon as im done with school...SO WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?!?! HELP

2007-08-02 20:51:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, for example, if there is a man, and he likes blonds with blue eyes, can he then like a girl with brown hair and brown eyes?
Really like, not just like a friend, or go out with her because she is a nice person, and he checks on blonds. Can men switch the types, or some can and some can not, and it depends on the person?

2007-08-02 20:50:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

umm... ok so im like jsut turnning 15. Everyone says my body is hott but, its only the guys bc they like my boobs.but anyways, my mom just got re-married. the man she married has a son, lets call him Jake. Well I never met Jake until the wedding and he seamed sweat. we didnt really talk but, he was nice. Well a couple of weeks later we moved to their house. The house was huge. My room was on the 2nd floor and had a huge bay window and one of those seats under it. Well at night i can see teh sun set through the window, so i usually leave it open. one day me and Jake were the only 1s home bc my mom and mike were out.Jake was havin his friends over and i went to my room and i started to change and as soon as my top was off, i was bout to take of my shorts, i saw jake and mybe 7 of his friends looking in my window from the roof of the guest house. When they saw me they smiled and waved. I freaked out and shut the blindes and havnt talked to him since. Its been 3 hours. What should i do?

2007-08-02 20:48:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm not very good at expressing my feelings, but I want to find the perfect song to play for my girlfriend of two years. I want her to know how much she means to me...

2007-08-02 20:45:39 · 2 answers · asked by BuuCity 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-02 20:43:53 · 42 answers · asked by Disha M 1 in Singles & Dating

I think I would have sex on the beach, I have not yet tried that!

2007-08-02 20:34:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm quite shy and overweight. I know this girl who is really pretty. We met each other at this summer school. We basically just talked to each other. Now i want her to notice me and start a relationship. How should I say it to her? I'm quite fat looking and i'm afraid I'll scare her and we'll lose our friendship. There's only a few more weeks of summer school left, and i want to get her to notice me before the summer ends. Any tips?

2007-08-02 20:28:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this person who was so good started bahaving badly, he does all the bad things which make his wife hurt.he used all the bad words to scold his wife when they're angry,but not to anyone else.he likes to take drinks,play casino & has started doing all the bad things,he lies to his wife a lot,they've got married recently,but the poor wife has not enjoyed her married life.this person is good looking more than his wife,recently it was caught to his wife that he was making a reletionship with one girl over the phone who has found his number & details to call him saying that he looks very cute like her x-boy friend&she loves him also.. this girl is not that good looking at all, but he has also called her so many times&he was hiding this story from the wife but anyhow she has found the fact & faught with him as she's totally heartbroken as she loved him a lot.he says that he never had a reletionship with that peson,but the wife thinks it's better to heal if he has a problem through hypnotism

2007-08-02 20:27:24 · 11 answers · asked by niki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Many times when I've been soaking in the bath, my boyfriend will come in to use the loo. And I'm not talking for a wee either!

I just think there's some things you not should share with your other half. He doesn't understand why I get upset when he does this.

Does it bother anyone else? I'm I daft or what?

2007-08-02 20:26:44 · 43 answers · asked by trackie1 4 in Singles & Dating

He lied, cheated and basically lead me on. I believe he deserves to pay. Any suggestions??

2007-08-02 20:21:08 · 21 answers · asked by DumbDumb 1 in Singles & Dating

i look exactly like my avatar but a little more muscular. so what do u gorgeous ladies think?

2007-08-02 20:20:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me n my boyfriend were going out for 1 and 1/2 years but then they had some nasty rumors going around that he was smoking and doing drugs so i broke up with him cause i didnt want to go out with someone like that, the rumors werent true so we ended up going back out. we talked for the next two days everynight and then we didnt talk for a couple days so i called him and he said he would call me back and he never did...that happened about 5 times. ppl started tellin me how he doesnt like me anymore so i broke it off again. he got really angry and said he never liked me and that he didnt give a eff about me so we didnt talk for a month. now he is started talkin to me again and i still really like him but i cant go back out with him...and i no he doesnt like me....what should i do??

2007-08-02 20:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanna call up my friend, tell her how I feel. I wanna be her friend forever. Man I'm so ghetto I might not be the prefect she could have, but I'd be the best friend I could be. I admit I got feelings for her, but she's got a guy, so I'll wait for my chance. I wanna tell her tonight how I feel, call her up and spit my feelings, but how would I know she understands?

2007-08-02 20:20:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am feeling so depressed b/c I like a guy that I can never have and it kills me b/c he seems like the most perfect guy for me and I really really like him!
he is definetly everything I want in a guy.... strong, sweet, funny, tough, hot, nice...

it's just really sad and I can't seem to get him off my mind even tho I know a relationship w/ him would be impossible. I think about him all the time and I love being around him.

any advice on how to get him off my mind? or what I can do? is it totally pathetic to always think about him and wanna be with him?

2007-08-02 20:12:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a bestfriend, lets call her sue, well me and sue havent been friends longs but we becaome bffs really fast but, one day we were talking and i was talakign about how my mom divorced my dad bc he hit her and then she told me that her dad hits, her, her sisters, her brother, and her mom when he gets mad. I know I should say somehtin but, idk if that is what she wants me to do. Im so confused. help?

2007-08-02 20:12:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I are both still friends w/ some of our ex bf/gf. We've even gone to lunch w/ our ex w/o eachother there. We happen to have have complete trust and honesty in our marriage. Just curious what others think of this.

2007-08-02 20:08:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 16 years. The guy I was living with before I was married has been on my mind for quite a while now. I have been thinking about him all the time and have had several dreams about him. I love my husband but can't help but wonder what would have been. The last time I saw him I felt the connection we had was still there and regretted the way we left things. I know he is married now and would just like to know how he is and see if the spark is still there. Any ideas?

2007-08-02 20:05:53 · 10 answers · asked by Snoopystheman! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently was browsing the home PC and found a load of p*orn movies and pics. The PC is in my niece's room and she spends enormous amount of time on the net. She is just 14 and watching porn??

There were a few photos of her too...taken with her mobile phone. She was alone but was nude and posing in indecent manner. Who took these pics and why? Or did she take them herself?

Her mother doesnt know anything about this. Should I rat her out? Or keep it to myself? Or should I confront her myself?

2007-08-02 20:05:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she has made a goodie goodie impression that everyone expects her to follow how can she convince herself to be freer?? help please!

2007-08-02 20:04:17 · 3 answers · asked by surffinder1989 3 in Friends

Well I am "in" a relationship that I can't get out of...we moved to VA from FL last year. I am a stay at home mom and only get out of the house to go to the grocery store once every 2 weeks or to take my children to the doctors. So I know no one here and I have no money of my own to get myself and my children back to FL. My family can't afford to give me the money to do it right away and it will take some time for them to come up with it. Well anyway my "bf" has been cheating on me throughout most of our relationship and I have forgiven him more times than I care to admit to...for the sake of our children. Well I have had enough and I keep telling him that I don't want to be with him anymore but he won't listen. Everytime I tell him this he starts to beg and plead and when that doesn't work he tries to make me feel guilty and when that doesn't work he gets mad. Then he drops it and pretends as if it never happens and expects me to just continue the relationship.

2007-08-02 20:03:53 · 10 answers · asked by Lilli 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 20:00:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

right lately me and my bloke have just got back to gether, i love him he loves me, but on wednesday next week he is going to be a dad! to his Ex what am i supposed to say to that one. he dont know for sure its his but if it is he wants to be a part of the babys life.but i dont want to be involved i have told him to do whats best for him. but now i am affraid he dont want to stay with me now and it feels selfish knowing theres a child involved how and i supposed to feel and react to this information he told me last night?? any advice please

2007-08-02 19:58:42 · 15 answers · asked by claire 2 in Weddings

theres this girl i dont like and she doesnt like me either. shes a year older than me and shes going to a high school near my new house. im still gnna graduate grade 8 this year. shes really bitchy and stuff. should i still go to the high school near my house (where that girl i dont like is going) or should i go to the high school near my old house (where all my friends are)?

2007-08-02 19:55:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my friend is scared. because his friend Morgan he was like really panicking sounding then she was like "okay jake I need to tell you something because you are the only one I can talk to." then she said how she broke her hymen or something like that and he know what it is but then she said she did nothing to make it break or IDK WHAT IT DOES. and Morgan isn't the type of person whot talks to her mom because her mom is very hard to talk around.


ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!! PLEASE TELL ME WHAT SHE CAN DO TO CALM DOWN!

2007-08-02 19:55:15 · 5 answers · asked by somsom120 2 in Friends

this was after not seeing me for two weeks...I was on vacation...what's his deal...???
And before I left, he gave me two hugs goodbye---because he wouldn't see me for two weeks. Both hugs were in a ten minute span of time.

He does hug other friends, but not twice and mild and wimpy like his regular hugs to me.

So the cranked up volume and intensity is ...what?
No, I'm not usually gone two weeks, but I have left for as much as four weeks twice before.

By "smashing squeeze" I mean he put his arm across my shoulder and crammed his head against mine pretty hard and squeezed me closer to him.

2007-08-02 19:54:05 · 11 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 in Singles & Dating

And that's not all. She spazzed at me for using a towel when she said it was ok, but when I was bathing, she purposely yelled to everyone, "I told her to wait but she can't even wait a little!!" when she NEVER told me! Besides, my dad does that all the time and she never yells at him, which I think is really confusing. Also, my sister keeps blaming me for mom yelling at me, and I can't tell her to shut up because she's "special" and is a tattletaler, which would be another reason for my parents to yell more at me.
I'm going to high school next year, and I wanted a good, long break so I can be less stressed when a mountain of homework collapses on me, but noooo, I STILL have school every weekday because of summer school. I am so sick of my mother for signing me up for education lessons instead of some hobbies, such as hip-hop.

How can I deal with my family? (talking doesn't help, I tried and they kept spazzing at me)

2007-08-02 19:50:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I always have a hard time keeping the conversation going after I get through the name exchange, I go from "Hey, my names Chris.. What's yours?" ...kinda try to get a background of the person, where they are from. but after that im usually stuck with an *awkward silence* and about 10 thousand thoughts going through my head but nothing to say.

2007-08-02 19:42:22 · 10 answers · asked by Christophe 1 in Singles & Dating