I am feeling so depressed b/c I like a guy that I can never have and it kills me b/c he seems like the most perfect guy for me and I really really like him!
he is definetly everything I want in a guy.... strong, sweet, funny, tough, hot, nice...
it's just really sad and I can't seem to get him off my mind even tho I know a relationship w/ him would be impossible. I think about him all the time and I love being around him.
any advice on how to get him off my mind? or what I can do? is it totally pathetic to always think about him and wanna be with him?
2007-08-02 20:12:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know why you can't have a relationship with this guy, but if it's because he has a girlfriend or is married, then its good that you respect that.
and no, i don't think it's pathetic to think about him and want to be with him, its normal if you really like a guy. eventually you'll get tired and want more than daydreams and move on to another guy. for now, just enjoy the fact that you like him and spend time with him (you know, when it's possible and legal :P)
don't stress about it, if you can't have him, then just enjoy liking him. you'll find someone you can call yours when the time comes.
good luck and choose to smile :)
2007-08-02 20:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by chardane 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all tell yourself if this relationship is really impossible to happen... if it is... well then you should forget about it
a year and a half ago i met this guy on a cruise and he was part of the crew. We liked each other and I thought that he was all I ever wanted in a man. But when the cruise ended, I thouight that we could stay together you know get in touch by email but he didnt want to. he said that that was not a relationship and now i see that he was right!! at that time i cried my eyes out but as time passed by i met someone else who i ve been one year with now and i see that that guy wasnt really all I ever wanted it was the step to that. So if its not happening then thats because Mr;Right is waiting for you round the corner
2007-08-03 03:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by chord 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear..
what you are going through is natural. Happened to me and to all of us. But tell me, Why do you feel it is impossible? Nothing is impossible, if you arent aiming for the moon.. Please do do give it a sincere try.
Still if his thoughts are keeping you from studies or work then try following activities:
1. Make more friends, stay in their company.
2. Share your thoughts with your close friends.
3. Join a gym or go swimming, keep occupied.
4. Jot down your thoughts on a diary every day.
All this will keep you busy and help you take your mind off the moon.
2007-08-03 03:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sudhir V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are so many things we want that we may never have.
Houses in New York, London, France, Maldives, Bali.
Porsches, Jags, Lamborghinis, Hummers.
The rarest paintings in the world.
Yachts, choppers, and private jets.
Hey, wake up!
2007-08-03 03:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by boyplakwatsa.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look out for another, you might get better. I said NO to a girl and she found a guy who is 10 times more handsome and ethical than I am. How lucky
2007-08-03 03:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Nikhil Son 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a few days, don't see him, and that feeling will go away when you meet someone else that is the perfect guy. It's called infatuation and it'll fade. Sorry.
2007-08-03 03:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know it can never happen? That's only so if you never go for it. Dont have any regrets; at least be able to say you tried. You never know how someone else is feeling.
2007-08-03 03:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married, huh? You have to tell yourself you can never have him and move on. Stay away from him and try dating other guys that you CAN have. He's not the only one that's compatible with you.
2007-08-03 03:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be his best friend if you love to be with him...
after time let him know how yu feel....
just dont make it look like you would do anything for him
2007-08-03 03:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by No_Fayce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol did you watch leno last night? It was hilarious man.
2007-08-03 03:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋