Many times when I've been soaking in the bath, my boyfriend will come in to use the loo. And I'm not talking for a wee either!
I just think there's some things you not should share with your other half. He doesn't understand why I get upset when he does this.
Does it bother anyone else? I'm I daft or what?
2007-08-02 20:26:44 · 43 answers · asked by trackie1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STAND UP FOR YOUR SELF TELL HIM THATS JUST WRONG HEY DO IT WHEN HE TAKES A BATH SEE HOW HE LIKES IT
2007-08-02 20:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by angie lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I have a house with a seperate toilet so I don't have this issue. It may be that he feels you are in that stage in your relationship where you are 'comfortable' enough in each others company to share things and maybe when you in bath he just got to go and can't hold it!
Thing to do is to ask him if he wants the toilet a few mins before you due to have a bath and then when in bath lock the door.
If he complains explain you just want some'me' time to relax and pamper yourself.
He will soon get the message!
Lx
2007-08-02 20:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by SunshineApple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some aspects of a loved one that SHOULD be kept private! I can't stand the thought of peeing in front of my husband! Watching HIM pee lessons my sexual thoughts of him. If he took a dump while I was in the shower or bath I think our relationship would be over! Would they want to see us digging out our plugs during our time of the month??? I think not! Sorry, I'm American and totally forward!
ANY function on the loo is private! There is NOTHING sexy about it!
Nothing daft about you!!!
2007-08-02 20:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At my aunts house, they go through asking...
Will anyone need the bathroom anytime soon...I'm fixing to take a bath!
Yes, I said Fixing...but you said Loo, Wee, and Daft.
I'm thinking your in Europe, but I'm the Southern United States...
And I'm Fixing to take a bath.
You need to run through the house like th town crier and inform him he has a Wee "timelimit" and the Loo is Fixing to be busy!
2007-08-02 20:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. Was it flirty, or was it just a "friend thing"? I don't think it's cheating for a girl who has a boyfriend to hang out with another guy a lot, as long as she's open and honest about this with her boyfriend and you're just friends. It's perfectly acceptable for guys and girls to be "just friends" if that actually works for them. Though I do think that most people wouldn't like for their partners to hang out alone with members of the opposite sex that often consistently. It might make them insecure, especially if you don't spend that much time with them. Then I would say it wasn't that great... but not actually cheating if there's nothing romantic involved. If her bf knows about this and is fine with it, then it sounds alright to me, but if he doesn't know about it and it is kind of a flirty thing, then I would watch myself. ;) I think it's just as bad to "help" someone cheat as it is to actually cheat on someone, and obviously you're not sure how you feel about this, so maybe you need to talk with her about it and get her point of view on the matter. :)
2016-05-17 05:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldnt annoy some people but the point here is that it does annoy you so ask him again not to do it. He is being disrespectful if he keeps doing it.
You could also try locking the door or go have a bath after he has done his daily number two...
2007-08-03 21:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky Mummy to 2!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a boyfriend where he did the same thing and it didn't bother me at all because i loved him and felt totally comfortable and secure with him. Knowing that he had no problem doing this in front of me meant he felt the same way. I would just take it as a compliment and let it be in less it is really that BIG of deal to you.
Good Luck
2007-08-02 20:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by wildflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think hes rude. Especially when you re in the bath. A bathroom is a very private place and any couple married or not sould respect each other when one is ushing the bath or anything else
2007-08-02 20:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh how i sympathise with you, the same thing happened to me years ago with a boyfriend. I,m afraid they cant see the problem must be a man thing. Bet he sits on the loo seat talking to you to, its so so annoying but unless you fit a bolt on the door your,ll have to suffer
Good Luck
2007-08-02 21:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens to me all the time... I do get angry, because when i get time to have a bath i kike to put some bath bomb or some aromatherapy oils in the water and then after he is done, the place just stinks and i feel like my bath has been ruined! I share your pain...
2007-08-03 03:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuk no wrong and no ya not daft cos its bloody annoying and you are left with the backlash smell afterwards! what is it with men and using the bog whilst you are in the bath? they have no respect for me time.... next time do it whilst he's in the bath after a curry and see how he likes it...gross i know but it might teach him a lesson!
2007-08-02 21:12:11 · answer #11 · answered by womble 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋