Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

I'm a concerned christian father, and a few months ago, my teenage son told me that he wanted to be a scientist. He tells me that he's an atheist, and after a battery of punishments started by his unillingness to go to church on Sunday, I figured out that it must have all started with science class at school. Over the past few weeks, I combed through his science and math textbooks, internet history, and the various books that he checked out of the library, and I have found out that much of what is out there is witchcraft, plain and simple. Of course, he realized that I was peeking through his material, and he just had a fit with me. That day, I called the cops and he was arrested for trying to run away. He called me a stupid hillbilly beforehand, and a "fundie", whatever that means. Is science a tool of the devil? Will military or training school help put him on the right path? Should I take him out of school and homeschool him? Please help, his soul is on the line.

2007-08-02 18:00:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im married for 13 years now,and i met this man named bruce,hes my chatmate,i think im falling in love with this man and he says he also falling for me.he wants to get me here in the philippines and lived together.do you think i will believed him and you think what he says are true...........is he really falling for me......

2007-08-02 17:59:04 · 12 answers · asked by reya m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-02 17:57:48 · 28 answers · asked by Blaze 2 in Singles & Dating

do guys look at girls buddy first or their faces first

2007-08-02 17:55:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do when your wife flirts over the cell phone with a co-worker in front of you? I took off a week on my job and went with her on her job and found out a few things that really upset me and know im thinking of go ahead and getting a devorce...

2007-08-02 17:52:58 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am having trouble remembering the old love songs. the good ones!!!! i know what some of them are but cant remember how the beat goes or some of the titles. ugh!!!!! will someone please help me with some old love songs. i need like 15 or 16 songs. thanks in advance for everyone's help!!!

2007-08-02 17:51:29 · 3 answers · asked by Jessika 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my x boyfriend wants to get back together with me.We broke up for many little things but mostly because he had a hard time dealing with and adjusting to dealing with the package that comes with me i.e.5 kids who do have some behavioral issues.the breakup was mutual.Now,he is telling me it was the biggest mistake of his life and he has grown and wants to be there for me and help me.We laugh together,get along good,and relate well.Other than 1 thing,i think he would make a pretty good catch.The one thing is very hard to explain so i will just give one example and hope you get the jist of it.If i had a best friend who did me wrong one day and had a serious crisis in their life the next day.i would be there for them no matter how mad i was.I do not believe he would or is that kind of person.He is trying to do lots for me right now.But i ask,why did he not do lots for me when we were together.is this fake or has he grown.

2007-08-02 17:50:44 · 6 answers · asked by justme 2 in Singles & Dating

It happened to me mostly when I was younger, but wow that was embarrasing at the time.

2007-08-02 17:48:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-02 17:47:53 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica G 1 in Family

I don't want to be desperate or slutty but sometimes i get so lonely i feel like if i guy just walked up to me and wanted to i'd make out with him on right here and now! i'm not some dirty girl, i'm not even sleeping with a guy till marriage...but does that make me really like a loser? or are some of you like this too?

2007-08-02 17:46:56 · 7 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 17:46:23 · 12 answers · asked by sandy 1 in Family

Where are their parents? I don't know when dating became a game or a casual thing. Dating leads to a relationship and I don't think this young girls and boys are ready to handle it. I just think you should grow up a little and be mature to begin dating.

I am 20 myself and I am just starting.

2007-08-02 17:45:40 · 9 answers · asked by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on a guy i met online through a dating website, he lives several states away from me. He and i have exchanged platonic emails and well i found he had a myspace and now we are myspace pals and leave each other friendly, flirty comments. I have since left that dating site. But am still on myspace. On the dating site he listed he wanted someone 10 miles from where he lives, i stated i wanted someone 50 miles from where i live. But somehow we caught each others attention. Anyways my question really is: Should I tell him i have a crush and try to take it to the next level, or should i just lay back and wait for him, or just totally forget about it. Please help i don't know what to do.

2007-08-02 17:44:45 · 11 answers · asked by ~confused~ 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this white guy but i am asian so is there a chance for him to like me back, even though i am asian?

2007-08-02 17:44:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got married to a foreign national from the Philippines. We were married in Japan while I was stationed there. While her investigation was being done for her visa to come here it came to our attention that she was still married to another man by Philippine law. She divorced in Japan and apparently under Philippine law they do not grant divorces, only annulments. My question is, am I still legally married here in the U.S.? Thanks to all who answer.

2007-08-02 17:43:51 · 9 answers · asked by sparky_1627 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 31 yrs old and have been married less than a year. Since i've been married I have become more fit and have lost 20 lbs. My husband on the other hand has become more lazy and has gained a little weight. Not enough that it would effect me wanting him sexually. I have found that he tends to reject me more when initiating intimacy. I don't understand!!! I hve asked him why he doesn't want to have sex, and all he can tell me is that he is tired or he has a headache. Wait a minute!! Did I just wake up in another life? I am not unattractive by far. I feel more confident in my appearance. He says that I complain about my stomach and how I need to lose it. He says that makes him skeptical of groping me or looking at me. I have tried to lessen those comments. I have tried to encourage him to exercise and eat better but he refuses. He used to body build alot and I tried to encourage that. Walking in front of the tv naked isn't working either. Somethin's gotta give!! Help Yahoo!!

2007-08-02 17:43:34 · 21 answers · asked by amithidius 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so detached from the world. I grew up on a farm and have never really had many friends (none that I see more than once a month). I was an outcast in my hometown and I've never been part of any social circles. Even if I'm 'with' a group I still feel separated, somehow.

I just moved to the city to go to University. After my first year and all my best efforts I still feel like a lonely little island. All the people I've met still have their high school groups and I can't seem to break in. I can't just hang out with some people (and yet I hear people complain that they didn't do anything exciting on the weekend, just hung out with some people!!!)

I'm a bit shy but only at times. I rarely go out without making the plan myself and I've met a ton of people and tried to get involved with their friends, but I still end up a loner. I suppose it's not making friends that's the problem, it's going to the next step.

2007-08-02 17:42:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i went to the doctor today, and he told me that majority of the health problems i have are caused by stress. the most stressful thing in my life is my dumb, bitchy, worthless sister, and i have to live with her, because she lives with my parents, and i dont make enought money to move out, she used to have add so now everyone says that she is the way she is because of a learning disability, which is total and complete bullcrap, because she knows what shes doing, and knows how to get other people in trouble, and loves every moment of it, she is a minipulative, calculating, satan in the flesh type of person, and i absolutely cannot stand her, but as i said, i cant afford to move out, and my parents think that she is a little angel with a slow brain, what should i do to eliminate this stressful situation?

2007-08-02 17:41:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you **** her

2007-08-02 17:39:41 · 8 answers · asked by Raina R 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy texts me, compliments me, ask me out to lunch and sometimes invite me to drinks...is he interested in me or just leading me on?
What confuses me is that he already has a gf...

2007-08-02 17:39:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when does age really matter?
at some point you would think, music, movies, outings, all of this would be so different that dating isnt possible?

so tell me your views on what ages are simply too much of a difference?
22 male with a 36 yr old female, and vise versa?

2007-08-02 17:38:39 · 18 answers · asked by Me 4 in Singles & Dating

1. person from any other region/country: Yes/No
2. prefer person from some specfic region/country only: /
3. DO NOT prefer person from some specfic region/country only: /

I appreciate your honest reply.

2007-08-02 17:38:35 · 2 answers · asked by masku darling 4 in Singles & Dating

Guys, what do you like in a girl..like include traits or features that you love about women/girls...

please try to stay away from perverted stuff..thanks!!!!

2007-08-02 17:38:33 · 3 answers · asked by Jamie P 3 in Singles & Dating

I told my mother that she was a bad mother, because she was. No wait!

I told her that I am not willing to sacrifice my adgenda to help her at the last minute. I told her that I wouldn't because she uses her time to hang out with bad people. Those same bad people are the individuals how tormentment and ridicule me for not dealing with them. They use verbal abuse and intimidations to contol. I just ignore her becuase I know she could not do nothing.... Anywho. I told my mother that I want to get myself "together" now so that I could be a good mother when I have children.

I want to be as honest as possible with her. I love her and want her to get the message, but she just doesn't seem to here unless I say something direct. In this direct ness I believe I hurt her feelings. I had a family member hurt my feelings, and it was my first time ever feeling any emotional pain. I cut this person off so f98king quick! I just hope that I haven't given the same pain to my mother.

2007-08-02 17:37:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-02 17:37:33 · 14 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been living with my boyfriend for about 4 years already we have a 3 year old child together.Great dad no complaints provides everything we need. When I first found out iI was pregnant he was very happy but confessed to me that he was not in love with me. I was crushed.We live together and get along well. Sex life is very active. Still his emotions have not changed. I like to remind him that I love him by leaving little notes in his lunch or wallet. I never expect him to keep them but recently he showed me one of them that he put away in his wallet. And he also has one hidden behind his I.D in his wallet. So my question is will ever tell me if he loved or would he keep it to himself? He was hurt once before when we were just friends and he would mention sometimes that it would be hard to love again after that. So should I stay or should I go? PLEASE HELP!

2007-08-02 17:37:14 · 11 answers · asked by Lisandra M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been wanting to buy a sex swing they sell on ebay.

My sister has one and she says it is the best thing that ever happened to her. She claims the swing helped her want to be with her husband more. He seems happier too but I can't tell him I know why:)
Sis would kick my butt.

The type of swing I want, they are not going to be selling, on ebay anymore. But I will not be able to buy one until next month.
Dose anyone know of a place that sells these swing?? I know they have different colors I was hoping to get a pink swing.
Or has anyone ever used one of these swings, is it worth the extra money???

Here is the link to the swing I want.

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&rd=1&item=330150906554&ssPageName=STRK:MESE:IT&ih=014

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2007-08-02 17:37:13 · 0 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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