Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and my sister and her husband been married 14 yrs..Sometimes we talk about our sex lives and she said her husband who is 42 is a real stud in bed cause he can last over an hr during actual love making..Well my husband is also 42 and can last 15-20 minutes during actual love making and that is good for both of us cause we get completely satisfied..My sister said a "real man" can last longer then my husband and i called her a ***** and she said i cant take the truth...What is her problem?

2007-08-02 16:53:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my daughter picks on me every day and swares at me alot.it,s come to the point that i cant stand hearing her ***** about me every day i love her very very much but i cant get through to her. sometimes i think she has the devil in her . i,m terrified of her, i just want her to love me and be my best friend. has anyone got ant advise for me please i cant take it anymore.

2007-08-02 16:51:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not the kind were you want to get pregnate,but like with boyfriends in high school and college.just wondering

2007-08-02 16:51:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not the kind were you get pregnate,but like with boyfriends in high school and college.just wondering

2007-08-02 16:50:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been having fantasies about strangling my co-worker, lets call her "Charmaine".

She's really pretty, smart, funny and a nice girl. I wanted to ask her out, but was always too shy. Then I overheard her saying that her cat died last year.

So I told her my dog died on Monday. She felt bad for me and invited me out to lunch. We really bonded. Then someone revealed I didn't even have a dog.

Now Charmaine will barely speak to me and it hurts my feelings to have to look at her everyday. I wish she would die.

2007-08-02 16:46:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's how the bet would go. I'd get the money upfront and would have to return it if I quit the bet.

I get to the mall in my school uniform at 10:00 AM. My friend would handcuff my wrist to the railing on the bench. We'd cover the cuffs with my uniform sweater. I'd have my cell phone, the new Harry Potter book, and some snacks. My friends would bring me lunch, and I'd get three bathroom breaks (more than enough for me). I would not be allowed to bring my iPod, as that would be too easy. The cuffs would be double locked to prevent tightening. I'd also have a key on me (just in case). But if I use it (my friends will check on me very periodically), I lose the bet.

Should I do it?

2007-08-02 16:46:18 · 15 answers · asked by trickyone9911 1 in Friends

If the relationship was getting serious would you wait for her to get divorced?

2007-08-02 16:45:40 · 7 answers · asked by bittersweetandsour 1 in Singles & Dating

wel this guy named toney i love him 2 death but he is in cali and he told me munches of times that we would be 2gether but we rt and i am tired of this game what should i do HHHHHHEELLLLPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-02 16:44:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 16 years old I would like to live with my father, I just recently met him for the first time about a year ago. My mother and I are not close, she is a unfit mother and doesn't even put the child support my dad pays to me and my brothers needs. She spends it on ciggs/drugs/and clothes for herself and a kings island ticket for my sister(-half sister and my dads child support isn't toward her, her dad pays for her). I want to know if I have the right to choose which parent I want to live with. Now, my dad doesn't have custody but he pays child support and I feel If I have to put up with all this drama and stress my mom puts on me anymore I will jump out a window or run away. She is horrid, like the wicked step mom in the fairytales. Bleh. Me and my dad are really close already and from spending long periods of time at his house I understand him better then my mom and he will at least listen to me.

2007-08-02 16:44:03 · 15 answers · asked by stacha 1 in Family

when ever i call my ma...shes starts to laugh, and then she stops, and then we will get into a conversation about something that doesnt call for laughing and then she starts to laugh for like 4 minutes, and nothings funny, she will cut me off numerous times and then laugh some more, i think shes crazy, should i get her checked out. i havent said anything bc i didnt want to hurt her feelings!

2007-08-02 16:42:40 · 2 answers · asked by :) 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-02 16:42:40 · 9 answers · asked by tara d 1 in Family

He already knows, but only 'cause he caught me in a lie. I felt bad about lying to him and wanted to tell him but didn't know how. I love him with all my heart and truly feel that it would never happen again. He's hurting very badly and I have lost all of his trust. Can anyone PLEASE give me some suggestions to try to make it up to him?! He is my world and I don't want to lose him! :(

2007-08-02 16:42:29 · 40 answers · asked by Chassady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Keep dat thang real

2007-08-02 16:41:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 16:41:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 16:40:57 · 4 answers · asked by Kiki's Treasure 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 19 years old and I still live with my parents. I have 1 older brother and he's 22 and he also lives with my parents. I feel like he does nothing to help around the house and I feel like my parents put all the pressure on me. I get in trouble if I do something wrong, but if my brother does it, they don't say anything. They always depend on me to do stuff like clean the house, run errands, etc. My brother goes out with his friends everyday, comes home late and just sits on his butt during the day. He has a job but hardly works and I get so disgusted by him in general. Why are my parents always on my back but they're not like that for my brother?

2007-08-02 16:38:22 · 5 answers · asked by teenster 3 in Family

what can i do?

p.s she makes me sick when i look at her. is this normal for me to feel this way

2007-08-02 16:37:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after they break up with you, and you know its totally over, how can you make the love you have for them just go away?

2007-08-02 16:35:49 · 31 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm curious, I've had this conversation before many times, and was wondering what men's opinions are.
I have two small boys and am in a complicated relationship and was just curious as to what men really think.
I am not planning on leaving my relationship right now, but have in the past.

2007-08-02 16:35:15 · 4 answers · asked by Butterfly 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-02 16:32:58 · 39 answers · asked by lisa x 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl keeps poking me, throwing fries at me, making fun of me, and its getting aggrevating. i dont know what to do does she like me or is she just being a pain in the butt

2007-08-02 16:30:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to have sex with my bf and he really wants to too, but we can't because my sister is home, what should we do?

2007-08-02 16:29:58 · 5 answers · asked by blondebabe 1 in Singles & Dating

Im only thirteen but while in conversation wit her we run out of things to talk bout...what are some things to ask or talk bout?

2007-08-02 16:29:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy has been giving me MASSAGES. Let me explain....
Okay, at first he started giving me all these knowing looks and would mouth "you look hot!" (when I was wearing totally boring clothes) to be kind of funny/jokey, but a couple days ago he came up to me and started giving me a MASSAGE for 15 seconds. I thought this was really weird, but i Let it go. Then yesterday, he came up to me AGAIN and started giving me another massage. Then today he did it AGAIN today. Ok, that's 3 days in a row.

The thing is...
1) he has a girlfriend
2) I dress completely modest (never wear low cut shirts orANYTHING skimpy, I always wear business pants, high heels, tailored jackets etc)
3) I in no way act sexy or ask for this kind of attention
4) I've talked to this guy for maybe a total of 3 mnutes (cuz I'm new), so it's not like he can have some huge crush on me, but he keeps giving me those "bedroom eyes"...Is this about power? or Is he just a flirt?

2007-08-02 16:27:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in a two year "toxic" relationship with a man that has two sides to his personality. He has a huge fan club, mostly women, and they think he is a wonderful sweet man. I believe he is addicted to the pursuit of women or can't stand to be alone for a second or is a sex addict. This has caused many fights and always results with him doing it again because I end things - he calls his "girls", texts, posts personal ads, instantly - all the while calling me and begging and saying every sweet promise under the sun - in particular that he is not talking to anyone else - I love him still and always always resume our relationship - only to find the evidence of his girl chasing which starts the whole cycle over and over and over. He has cheated with at least one of these "friends" - unless you don't call it cheating if he texts to you first "I'm breaking the vows" just before going for dinner and a hotel. He admits now to a prob and wants therapy - can he change?? Should I run?

2007-08-02 16:25:03 · 47 answers · asked by Springtime of my Loving 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I guess I take my parents' sacrifices for granted. They have sacrificed their dreams for my well-being - my dad abandoned his good job and his homeland, while my mom (she's the one bringing $)works multiple jobs just to pay for my education. I cannot go into details about what led to this, but let's say it was all because we didn't have money. Money is still causing problems for us and my parents argue occassionally because of it...but sometimes they argue because of their clashing personalities. While my mom tends to be tolerant and calm, my dad tends to be...well, rather unreasonable and not so understanding. He blames (and cusses at) mom a lot for lots of things. Anyway, at some point, I began to lose respect for them as parents - primarily Dad - and have never quite abandoned my bad habit of talking back at them and displaying my frequent angers. I know I am already a bad daughter - and I am beginning to hate myself. I am past puberty (I am 20). What...heh, what is wrong with me?

2007-08-02 16:24:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

now he is remarried he won't even talk to us and has never seen the babies. It really hurts how do i get past being done so wrong with out feelin like something is wrong with me?

2007-08-02 16:22:41 · 12 answers · asked by Tonya v 1 in Family

Why men doesn't change their facial expression or moan so much during making love compair to women?
Don't they feel good as much as women?

2007-08-02 16:22:39 · 12 answers · asked by crazy ma 1 in Singles & Dating

she is nice to my mother.
she asked me to to buy her a shirt when i go on vacation.
i asked did i scare her when open the door and she said no i scare you when you in the back room.
she asks me what i am doing for the weekend.
she said to my mom that she will put food in the back room for me when it comes in.
she does give my mom free grocery bags.

2007-08-02 16:22:02 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so recently me and my girlfreind broke up and well i was bored and i came across craigslist and well i kinda peeked into this one section lol and well i came across this ad. It was for a massage and such and well i called the person and the person just gave me a location and to call when im in the area and i dont know if i SHOULD go or if it shouldn't what is ur opinoins and for people who are hobbyists as what i hear they call it what would you do ?

2007-08-02 16:21:23 · 9 answers · asked by ckhavoc 1 in Singles & Dating