Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

i bought my sweet 16 dress today and i love it, although i am afraid it might be a little too beady, but the price of the alteration really surprised me and my mom. what is the average cost to hem the bottom of a ballgown? the skirt is tiered so i think that makes it a little more complicated.

2007-08-02 16:16:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-08-02 16:14:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do i have good legs?? i don't think so, but someone told me i did.. so i don't know whether to show them off a little more.. i'm not trying to be conceited... i'm basically just wondering if they're good.. that's it :).. please answer! thank you so much..

and please ignore my face in this :) i wasn't ready :)
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=6hfn3ma

2007-08-02 16:12:01 · 26 answers · asked by peace love lauren<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not old enough to just move out of the house, hell, I can't even drive yet! My mom yells at me all the time for everything. You haven't heard swearing until you've heard my mom yelling. My dad goes out nearly every day to drink, either leaving me home alone, or leaving me with my mom to be screamed at. Neither of them admit that they have serious problems and that they need to get help. I went to talk to someone [a psychiatrist or therapist or something] every week, someone that I'm really attatched to, but now my mom isn't sure whether or not I should go to see her anymore. This is because the woman tried to get my mom help with her anger management issues, and mom didn't like it. She also thinks that this woman is too expensive. I have NO ONE to talk to at all. I also suffer from trichotillomania, making me pull out my eyelashes when I get nervous or upset about something. Very hard to explain. Read up on it.
Can someone please give me some advice? I would really appreciate it.

2007-08-02 16:12:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay I was walking with my friends when my 1 friend started talking to this random guy it ends up were the same age and everything what does he think of me? Could he like me?
He said my name is Dabaze but you guys can call me Baze
My friends the whole time were gushing about how my crush was near us and how he ditched his girl friend and he must be following us.
the guy repeated my name a lot and didn't repeat my one friends name
At the end he was like Marissa and natasha right?
See you tomorrow
He also told lots of jokes like how he flunked kindergarten
We asked him questios like what school does he go to, bla bla bla what does he think of us?

2007-08-02 16:09:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It will be an evening garden wedding. March 2008. I am thinkinh of fushia and green. I would like the bm's in black dresses. would that be appropriate? My thoughts for a centerpiece would be limes in a vase with fushia and light pink roses? What are your thoughts.

2007-08-02 16:09:22 · 5 answers · asked by kwsa 1 in Weddings

Do you have the guts to date one without falling in love?

2007-08-02 16:08:35 · 19 answers · asked by bittersweetandsour 1 in Singles & Dating

im 17 and my boyfriend is 18, we just started dating 3 weeks ago. he is a very nice person and is the most respectfull guy i know. problem is, he is WAY too nice and it gets annoying sometimes, he calls me too much, 5 times a day. tells me he misses me every three minutes, we use to have a lot to talk about but now...nothing, all he sais is i miss you..annoying. He tried to see me everyday. twice a day if possible. im not a virgin and he is, a week ago he told me ''ive waited 18 yrs and i am ready to give you my virginity'' never heard a guy say that kind of stuff. he CAME while i was hugging him. BAD. we have no communication nothing to talk about, no common friends, and i am starting to lose interest, he is very demanding and always asks me if i miss him more how much i like him. i feel like im in a relationship with a 15 yr old boy in a hurry to have the most serious passionate love in a week. all his friends tell me hes inlove with me. i told him i dnt fall inlove in 3 weeks.

2007-08-02 16:05:06 · 5 answers · asked by PureInnocence 2 in Family

SHUTUP. Different people like different things. if u tryna attract somebody u kno, asking people wat they think will not help get the guys. As u have probly noticed, thee have been many different answers. Maybe the guy u want likes pokemon and everybody here tell u that guys like digimon better. Different people = different proferences... so shut up. thank u for ur time.

2007-08-02 16:04:23 · 15 answers · asked by Solid95 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 16:04:11 · 18 answers · asked by lisa x 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what are your grandparents names on both sides if posible..mom- eunce and william dad- ernie and shelby

2007-08-02 16:03:42 · 7 answers · asked by alaska282 1 in Family

i think my sister has ADD and ADHD, but she doesnt. she will laugh..........at nothing.....all the time. the laughing will last up to 3 hours. she makes weird whistiling noises, and she will sing a song out of nowhere. when i talk to her, she will dramatically start to scream and attack me. do you think shes bipolar??? and other days she acts like shes all depressed, whats wrong with her???? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-02 15:58:21 · 5 answers · asked by *Alma* 2 in Family

I just wanted to know how many people are getting married on 08.08.08! I am and already It's hard to find open photog. caterers and rec. halls! Im in Houston, Texas! Help if u can!

2007-08-02 15:57:19 · 9 answers · asked by Jenn 1 in Weddings

ok well i am a redhead 5,1 110 pounds have a nice body a preety face but for some reason i always feel like guys dont like me just because of my hair. but it also has darker redhighlights and some blonde but i feel like guys dont like me just because ihave red hair any guys like redheads. i am also 18 so i dont know if because im young any guys like redheads??????? or is it a turnoff???????

2007-08-02 15:57:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance's best friend (and best man) always makes comments towards me and his gf that we should "make out".. as well as have a 3some or orgy etc.. It's usually when he's drunk as well.

I love to kid around with him, but I find this a bit awkward sometimes. Any relationship I've had before this it seems the guys best friend always hated me.

Any of you have to deal with a sexually driven best man?

2007-08-02 15:55:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

cussing?

2007-08-02 15:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife left me, and there is no chance of her coming back.

I don't want to be one of those people that get married, divorced and married again. I do not want to deal with the whole relationship thing again. I feel I had met my soul mate, and because of things out of my control, I lost her.

Is this natural? I really feel different than I ever had before in my life- what do you think?

2007-08-02 15:52:21 · 57 answers · asked by baron d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I yell at my parents sooooooo much and sometimes for NO reason. And then I feel SOOO bad later, but I'm just too embarrassed to apologize. (I'm weird like that). I don't know what's wrong with me. I want to stop yelling, but I just can't control myself. Seriously, I don't deserve the things they give me. they do sooo much for me, and I still act like a jerk, but often times, I don't mean to. I REALLY badly want to change, but I just don't know how. What can I do to decrease this anger I have? I think of all the things they do for me everyday, and then I just think about how much I don't deserve it.

I'm 16 right now. I don't know if I'll change in the future, but hopefully I will. I don't wanna be a spoiled, jerk forever.

2007-08-02 15:46:19 · 13 answers · asked by pixiestix 1 in Family

i was challenged with a decision to move to wisconsin with my brother . to finish high school there and idk what to do ?

2007-08-02 15:46:08 · 1 answers · asked by tna rulez 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance is in the hospital, he just had surgery today. He had his apendix removed, and is in a lot of pain. He is supposed to be discharged tomarrow, depending on how well everything goes. We are having some money problems, so we have both been trying to work some extra hours. Well, I want to stay home from work tomarrow to take care of him. I live with him, and I Really want to be the one to take care of him. But he wants me to go to work because we need the money. My work has already said that I can stay home if I need to. My question is, should I stay home or go to work? And if I do stay home, would it be okay if I asked my dad if I could borrow some money, like $150 just so we don't get behind on bills? I have never asked my Dad to help me out financially, it just makes me feel bad. Please give me your advice, I feel stuck.

2007-08-02 15:44:09 · 5 answers · asked by Stark 6 in Family

I dont know what type of centerpiece I should use, Im hispanic and usually the tradition is that the guest get to take the centerpieces, I am not sure if I should use real flowers or silk flowers, or a candle stick inside a clear flower vase, is there anything else out there besides that? Can someone please help!

2007-08-02 15:43:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

How do you get parents to stop comparing me to my brother. Honestly, I think that I'm just some big disappointment to them. I always am compared to my brother when he does something and I should do the same. Well news flash, I'M NOT MY FRIKKIN BROTHER AND I NEVER WILL BE. I just can't understand my parents, it's life my life was paved already by my brother. No matter what I do, I can never be as good as my brother. It makes me mad and sad that I just can't live my life the way I want to, I have grown apart from my parents as I can't relate to them, especially my mom. They always condescend me and always nag and yell at me. Whenever I do something, they say I'm doing it wrong. THERE'S MORE THAN ONE WAY TO DO SOMETHING! I can't even remember a time my mom or dad said they love me, it's been that long. Whenever I do something that gets me hurt, they don't even check to see if I'm alright, they just start yelling. Any advice for me?

2007-08-02 15:40:45 · 7 answers · asked by Tommy T 3 in Family

And forces me to do stuff to him! He says if I tell someone he's gonna kill me and my mom! I don't know what to do! I have no one!

2007-08-02 15:39:11 · 29 answers · asked by Krista B 1 in Family

a friend of mine watches my son while I work in the evenings in exchange for cleaning her home and usually once every couple of monhts I either go to the store and buy her groceries or I cook for her family of 15. I have 1 son. She watches him between 20 - 25 hours a week.

I do not have a lot of money which is why we made this arrangment. It has been my hope to pay her at some point but I just haven't gotten that far into making it. It's frustrating.

Well here is the problem I was paying $135 mo for prek4. Which she knew and had no problem with. But this year he starts K and the school district I'm in is NOT good. So my dad said he would pay for the other 140 for me to send him to a private K this year. 140 on top of my 135.

I haven't told her. I want too but would you be upset? My dad views women diff. Example my brother went to private sch. I went to public. How do I handle this? I appreciate and love her and I don't want to hurt her or for her feel taken advantage of.

2007-08-02 15:38:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Iv known this guy for about 2 years.
Last night i was at his house, i had been drinking quite abit. And things got out of hand. One thing led to another... and i lost it to him.

At the time it felt good.
Now, I feel disgusted and gross.

I woke up this morning and i cant believe i did it.
I wasnt in love with him.

Im christian and i did belive in no sex before marrage. I hate myself for this. I cant even look at myself in the mirrior. I feel so depressed.


Have i ruiened my life?
im questioning everything now.
Is havin sex so sacred?
Does losing my virgity to someone i dont love make me have no self respect?

All i know if it wasnt for Lust, i wouldnt have done it.

The question im asking is.
Is it fair to say that Lust took over my body last night.
I dont want to blame this on myself.

I think iv ruined myself mentaly.
I cant stop crying.
I feel stupid writing this.
I feel so weak.

2007-08-02 15:31:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my cousins wedding is tomorrow! i want to sing a song. i am a guy and i am 13 but i have a good voice. i need to know if anybody knows some good songs. they don't have to be FAST but i don't want it really slow so you get bored....so idk... it can be slow and get faster....you know what...i really don't care i just need some good wedding songs, they can be short or long. i am preferring shorter! but please help me!!!!

thanks,
tguynews!

2007-08-02 15:31:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My son and his wife have been married less than 30 days. They have broken up and he wants to get an annullment. I have read online that the marriage can be annulled if they have been married less than 30 days and they did not wait the 72 hour waiting period after getting the marriage license. They did not, they were married the same day as the license was issued. Can my son go down to the county clerk's office and file for the annullment himself? They got married in one county but he lives in another (she went back to her mothers in the county they were married in). Can he file for the annullment in the county he is living in or does he have to file in the county he got married in? His thirty days is up this Sunday, I don't know if that gives him until Monday on his deadline or not, so if anyone knows this also, it would be very helpful. Thanks for any input.

2007-08-02 15:24:22 · 4 answers · asked by Birdlegs 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so im so in love with my girl shes the most amazing thing in the world she has the best personality loves me for who i am and i havnt done anything behind her bad but i feel guilty for having her like she can do better than me and that i dont deserve her i meen she has a funny outfit in this one but shes gorgeous
http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l304/GLAM_R_US_xX/DSC00361-1.jpg

2007-08-02 15:23:38 · 17 answers · asked by stephen M 1 in Singles & Dating

I just feel extremely worried, of course. He says that nobody got killed where he is staying, but I still can't just depend on that.
I am feeling very depressed. He will only be gone for 45 days..
Any ways I can feel more comfortable?

2007-08-02 15:23:24 · 6 answers · asked by Katherine 2 in Family

im dating a women with a child but she doesnt want to do any thing she feels stuck how can I be romantic while with her child is around clean romanticy help me ladies.

2007-08-02 15:23:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating