how to be romantic to a women with a child?

Question

im dating a women with a child but she doesnt want to do any thing she feels stuck how can I be romantic while with her child is around clean romanticy help me ladies.

Answer 1

Flowers for her and kid.
Take her to the park for a picnic with the kid.

Answer 2

Bobby you can be romantic to this woman exactly the same way you would with a childless woman. Certainly you two have some times where the child is not with you and these would be opportune times. Or even when the child is around paying extra attention to your lady and surprising her with a nice homemade meal, or an unexpected flower or gift of some kind. Being romantic doesn't necessary have to mean being sexual. So be natural and remember you went into this relationship knowing good and dam well that she had a child so don't start getting all messed up over it now. Advice from one man to another.

Answer 3

Sounds like she has some issues with balancing romance and parenting. I've been there, but all I can tell you is things work out in time. If she means something to you, just hang out in her world for a while. She has a lot going on and there are some things that a mom has to deal with on any given day that she may feel she needs to shield you from. If she sees you can hang with the ups & downs of a kid, she'll come around. I knew my current husband was the one when my kid threw up on his bed and he hurried around getting her calmed down, bathed, into one of his t-shirts and then laid down on the couch with her and rubbed her tummy until she went to sleep. We hadn't been dating long & I was pretty mortified by the whole thing but he acted like it was just what you do.

Answer 4

Count your blessings. (Been there, done that. Got screwed. Women wonder why men don't want to date them when they're single with a child. There's a dang good reason, pal.)