2007-08-02 16:04:11 · 18 answers · asked by lisa x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What do you think of women i mean
2007-08-02 16:04:40 · update #1
Kristine never say never.
2007-08-02 16:16:14 · update #2
I think they have total faith in their husbands and only time will tell if that trust is warrented or not
2007-08-02 16:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think that women who think like this are to comfortable. Often it seems to happen the longer you are married. There are many books written on The Midlife Crisis and the 7 year itch. I think some women honestly feel that it couldn't happen to them the men married to these trusting women have the best opportunity to get away with it. They would never suspect it in them and most men married to them know it. Many men may feel that what they don't know won't hurt them. Some men may not get into an affair situation because it takes to much time away from the home to keep it up and they could get caught. Many men can find an hour to lose somewhere from the trusting wife to stop by a massage parlor that offers prostitution. They could easily hide a few bucks here and there to pay for something once or twice a year and never be discovered and.........they don't have to worry about emotional attachment because it's about the sex. Also they can choose a different woman anytime they could go there when they wanted to. It is very easy for men to cheat this way and and many women are naive and in denial if they think it can't happen.
2007-08-02 19:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in reality they are hoping that he doesn't cheat on them. In some cases, they are so confident that they think he won't cheat on them. In some cases, it's just denial because they cannot face the fact that he is cheating on them. But I am a living testimony. I thought my husband would NEVER cheat on me. He was quiet and laid back and he seemed to be very committed to me. But one day reality hit me in the face and after having a heated conversation, I asked him if he had ever cheated on me. He admitted to doing something sexual with an ex-girlfriend. No physical sex was involved, but it went far enough. That supposedly happened a year or so after we were married. Then about 8 months ago he cheated with an ex-fling and yes, they went all the way. I was more shocked than anything. I had to really get over the shock before I could begin to hurt and I am still trying to heal. My point is, people who say my husband would never cheat on me are very naive.
2007-08-02 16:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... I think naive or denial. To me it's kind of a stupid thing to say since we can't predict the the future or anything else for that matter. I think they say it aloud to convince themselves so that they don't feel so bad.
My coworker kept saying that crap over and over again to me about her husband. Two years later not only did her husband cheat, but he got the woman pregnant.
This doesn't mean that I believe all men cheat. Some do some don't. I would think if you had a faithful man there wouldn't really be a need to run around telling people...it's like saying "Hey I brushed my teeth this morning". Who really cares.
2007-08-02 16:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Lucky♥ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
So you are basically saying they are wrong? Not everyone cheats. And most women know when their relationship is solid or not. So I would say they are not naive OR in denial, they just trust their husbands and know that they have no reason to cheat.
2007-08-02 16:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Linda K 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They are women that want a decent man. Every married man in this world does not cheat. Women who think all men are cheaters are naive, and probably dont have a very good selection when it comes to men.
2007-08-02 16:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by ehrlich 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i believe they are good women who base their assumption on their own morals, and that they would never cheat. they could be naive, but if one has a long term marriage and their husband has never given them any reason to distrust them than they are going to feel this way, and not think that anything bad can ever come to them.
2007-08-02 16:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lisa a lot of these women are hopeful that they know their partners well enough to believe that they will remain true to them. Perhaps they have a great relationship, cultural believes that disapprove of this, or have men that are very satisfied with whom they have at home awaiting them and don't feel the need to wonder. But reality is never is a long time and each and every one of us, regardless of which sex we are have the possibility of being unfaithful.
2007-08-02 16:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lisa,
My wife and I are Christians. I have never and will never CHEAT on her. We have been happily married for 32 years and have three beautiful children. She and were high school sweethearts and I have never even considered anyone else in my life. Why do you feel this way? I believe that a true Christian would never cheat on his/her spouse. GOD expects that from HIS CHILDREN. Have a wonderful weekend.
Thanks,
Eds
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2007-08-02 16:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think some husbands WOULD never cheat. Mine can piss me off royal but I DO know he'd never be unfaithful.
2007-08-02 16:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that with out a doubt my husband would NEVER cheat on me!! He'd rather shoot him self than cheat on me!
2007-08-02 16:46:57 · answer #11 · answered by brlracer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋