My fiance's best friend (and best man) always makes comments towards me and his gf that we should "make out".. as well as have a 3some or orgy etc.. It's usually when he's drunk as well.
I love to kid around with him, but I find this a bit awkward sometimes. Any relationship I've had before this it seems the guys best friend always hated me.
Any of you have to deal with a sexually driven best man?
2007-08-02 15:55:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Nope and when my boyfriend's friends have overstepped I have let him know and let him take care of it.
2007-08-02 18:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i had a guy friend call me the night before my wedding and tell me it was my last chance to have an affair with him. yet, now that he is married as well, he still says things like that. I always think he is joking, but, when he drinks, he says more things that are more serious.
I would ask him to stop, and perhaps your fiance could support you with it. i am sure as a man he would like to hear that you are uncomfortable with it and would like it to stop. Just tell him in a gentle friendly manner that you really feel uncomfortable about it. If he is a good friend, he will feel awkward and stop.
Make sure you let him know you value his friendship and that you are just asking him to stop that kind of talk.
2007-08-02 16:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Rhonda Rabbit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friend he is! Not it is not common, nor is it acceptable! And if he does this in front of your fiance' hasnt anything been said in your defense? If not, you should let your sweetie know that you dont like it! Do not encourage his behavior- it could get worse! Just because he is doing this doesnt mean he will like you better for letting him do it! How disrespectful!
2007-08-02 16:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by tpettee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a drinking problem if this only happens when he is drinking. Have you told your fiance that it makes you uncomfortable? Maybe he can tell him to lay off.
I would say that is normal for a jackass, sometimes there isn't much you can do about that!
Good luck!
2007-08-02 16:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Reba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's not that usual.. if the guy is generally funny and makes jokes about everything ok. but if not then these jokes are a way that he subconsciously expresses his true feelings and desires towards you.. just be carefull because this may cause problems between the 3 of u if not handled right.
2007-08-02 16:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by noodle-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to say it's not common for him to act that way, but it's still weird. And perhaps you need to tell him that it makes you uncomfortable, and maybe you shouldn't kid around with him as much, then he won't think it's okay.
2007-08-02 15:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by jadaju_08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like that's what he's interested in,
A 3 some or the 4 of you.
Yuck....
Your boyfriend needs to say something to him, so that he stops making these advances to you.
2007-08-02 16:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, well boyfriend always cracks jokes about my best friend and I getting together since I'm only "gay" for her even though we would never actually do anything about it. I would just laugh it off. It's every guy's fanstasy.
2007-08-02 16:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a pig drunk or not drunk. You should avoid him, he is nothing but trouble. Does he say things like that in front of your fiance'?
2007-08-02 15:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him you'll have a 3 way when you get to watch him have a 3 way with a donkey and an elephant!
or when he's crowned king of the universe............ in other words NEVER and to get on with his life
But that you mean it in the best possible way of course
2007-08-02 16:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being drunk is no excuse but wait until he is sober and tell him you find his comments offensive and that he should stop.
2007-08-02 16:09:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋