ok so im so in love with my girl shes the most amazing thing in the world she has the best personality loves me for who i am and i havnt done anything behind her bad but i feel guilty for having her like she can do better than me and that i dont deserve her i meen she has a funny outfit in this one but shes gorgeous
http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l304/GLAM_R_US_xX/DSC00361-1.jpg
2007-08-02 15:23:38 · 17 answers · asked by stephen M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i know her outfit is odd but shes italian and this is when i was there with her in so that explains the outfits they dress differnt over there
Oh and thanks for your answers i dont know why i was upset probly need to raise my self-esteem
2007-08-02 15:41:43 · update #1
You feel guilty for holding her back? No, it's more like your worried she will wise up and leave you for someone who has a spine.
2007-08-02 15:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Metro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stephen
You're living in HEAVEN. You love her, she respects and admires you, so what's your problem?
Assuming she could do better than you, but why let her? Instead, why don't you turn the question around and ask yourself, what talents and gifts do you have, or can develop with practice, to deserve her? You'll have a lot more fun finding out your own talents and strengths, trying out different things. Plus, it'll show her how interesting you are.
gosh, I wish I was in your position. I'd love to be with someone I didn't think I deserved, and if I was, I'd be more focused on developing my own interests and gifts, so then I'd be better suited to decide if she was really ALL THAT!
Maybe it will take work but you have a lot of exciting fun ahead of you!
2007-08-02 22:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by weallwannaknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stephen!!! Just you asking this question means that you're more amazing than you think! She's as equally lucky to have a guys that is "so in love" and thinks that "shes the most amazing thing in the world she has the best personality." Plus, there has to be something in you that she sees and loves. You need to look within and see the same thing. We are our own worst critics! That was so sweet of you!
2007-08-02 22:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Tue T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you keep thinking she can do better than you, pretty soon she'll start to agree. Try to figure out what it is that she likes about you and see yourself through her eyes. The more you like yourself the more attractive you'll be. If you can't do this and it's really making you feel guilty... maybe you should take some time off to figure yourself out before you get involved in serious relationships.
2007-08-02 22:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kristen D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. Don't fell bad!!! She is Gorgeous, AND she LOVES YOU!!!
Celebrate that!!! You say she's perfect for you, and she loves you, so she doesn't care about anyone else!!!
Get your head on straight before your low self esteem pushes her away.
She loves You.
You love her.
She doesn't want anyone else because SHE CHOSES YOU!
Thank the Gods, Praise Budda, and Pay a tithe to the Goddess of Love.
Girls pick guys because they like the guy. They don't care about whether or not someone else is better for them, unless you give them a reason to. DON'T GIVE HER A REASON TO WANT SOMEONE ELSE!!!
Be proud of the woman who loves you, and be a Man. Guide, Mentor, Love, Share and Dream with that woman.
Good luck! She Loves You! You need to love you too!!!
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PS- Sorry DON'T take time off from the relationship to find yourself. You DO need to figure out YOU and be the BEST Man you can. Be strong (girls hate wimpy guys, they get tired of them fast). Be decisive (girls like guys who make some decisions for them. Don't always ask her what she wants to eat or go do, make plans and go do it with her. ) Be yourself - cuz that's what she loves!
2007-08-02 22:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Rif Tahoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not to sure what's the purpose of the picture but if you love your girl and she loves you, why are you so insecure? Because she's seems perfect? Hey if you are lucky enough to get a sexy and beautiful chick to totally be into you, just celebrate and forget this non-sense about not being deserving of her, that's for her to decide not you.
2007-08-02 22:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty. It'll only make the relationship worse for you. No one wants to be constantly told that their boyfriend or girlfriend doesn't feel they are good enough for them b/c after a while that will get [old] and they'll start being annoyed and not having the desire to be in the relationship anymore. Have more confidence in yourself and appreciate what you have. =)
2007-08-02 22:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ebony Dalia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, did you ever hear of self-esteem? you need to stop saying you don't deserve this girl. of course you do. did you ever hear someone who won the lottery say "i don't deserve to be rich for the rest of my life"? Heck No! take what you got in life and enjoy it while u can cuz nothing lasts forever you lucky dog!
2007-08-02 22:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by sportguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you have found "the one in a million" !! Many of us strive all our lives and never find such a person !! Clothes do not a person make !! Its whats in their head and heart that counts !!!!!
2007-08-02 22:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by AZRAEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww...
dont feel guilty, u seem like a gr8 person, shes lucky to have you.. i mean a guy who doesnt cheat, thats very hard to find
2007-08-02 22:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋