Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

ok i have this bf when i have my monthly period.. i told him honestly that that time i dont feel good.. he juz ask me to sleep..

n then 1 more time i tell him i don feel good.. he said `is it my fault?`

AND THEN once more i said y didnt u make me feel good like talk nice to me?.. he said i DIDNT TREAT HIM GOOD!?????


omg .. this is so frustrating.. i love him.. but i cant stand how he treat me..


am i a bad gf? i need other people opinion.. I NEED THE WHOLE WORLD OPINION!!!

am i? or is he? a bad person? i need help to solve this problem.. i cant tell my feeling by word.. its juz too sad

2007-08-02 00:59:53 · 21 answers · asked by kathy w 2 in Singles & Dating

We never grew up together but we are close, Shes been staying with my mom & i was raised by my gran. I heard the other night she came home @ 3am, Shes only 17, has a child, doing grade 11. Do u think I must try n talk to her. It seems like she was never affected by my mom's death. Do u thinkdats her way of healing (turning to alcohol)

2007-08-02 00:59:36 · 8 answers · asked by silky-butterfly 2 in Family

My chat partner, a military deployed to Europe, wants to meet me now in person, after we have been talking on chat now for 2 years. We agreed to meet next week in the country he is stationed. Now, as the day comes closer, i dont want to meet him. Why? Well, he was not always honest with me, he is perfect liar and had an oneline sex affair with my best girlfriend. We broke up several times, but in the end of the day we went on with our love-hatred relationship. I felt lonely and he was at least there to talk, whatever. I regret that it came that far and after making balance about all what happened between us, i decided not to meet him. I have to tell him this as soon as possible. Please tell me your opinion and what you would do/say. Thanks

2007-08-02 00:59:24 · 8 answers · asked by Rain 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 20 yr old step-daughter moved in with her 26 yr old boyfriend, very much against my and her mother's advice. We know we can't stop her, but we strongly reccommened against it and in no way, shape, or form support her decision. Now, she's asking for help with money and wants us to buy things for the apartment (curtains, microwave, etc.). Of course we love her to death, but how much help should we give, if any at all?

2007-08-02 00:54:12 · 13 answers · asked by Jim C 5 in Family

MY ex has already gotten married how i have no idea no anullment just divorce, but they are calling asking me if i am baptised not being catholic I am wondering why?

2007-08-02 00:49:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so yeah my boyfriend looks at porn and he saves the girls in folders. Sometimes its not even nude. I cant stand it I hate It just pisses me off to no end. I ask him why andh e says he wants to. I want to it end it sometimes but I love him a lot I dunno what I wana do I dont wana leave him but sometimes I dont wana be with him. I dont care if it's "natural" for guys to look at porn. I cant stand it and i tried talking to him about it and I guess he wont stop.

2007-08-02 00:49:31 · 15 answers · asked by Jessa 2 in Singles & Dating

do i tell my neighbour i've slept with her man, they are planing a wedding

2007-08-02 00:49:09 · 3 answers · asked by loopy 1 in Friends

2007-08-02 00:34:35 · 7 answers · asked by vicamu3@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My kids have gone through a lot in the last 8 months. I have a 3 bedroom 1 1/2 bath home probably about 1200sqft. She keeps asking me to trade rooms which has a 1/2 bath. It's the master bedroom. It's only12x14 her room is 9x10. Her younger brother's room is 12x12.

I have been separated for 8 months now. I have domicile custody. Their mother decided to get a new boyfriend and start with the drugs. She is not a good mother. I thought for this question I needed to throw this in.

My daughter is 10 years old and starting to have friends come over. Sometimes sleep overs too. She is wanting more space because of her small room. And yes, She does have a lot of things.

I am considering since all I have is a bed and dresser in my room to trade with her. It is just the 3 of us. Her 6 year old brother, her and me the dad. She says we are disgusting guys and wants her own bathroom.

Would you trade your master bedroom for a smaller one to please your daughter who is growing up?

2007-08-02 00:31:37 · 20 answers · asked by Bones 5 in Family

I like this boy and my friend asked him if he thought I was pretty. He turned red and smiled. Then my friend told him that I like him and he turned even redder. My friend is positive that he likes me.

I know he is very shy because he was very quite when I first met him. He comes to my youth group's gym night once a week.I called yesterday him to tell him that the location was changed and that this week we were going to do something in church instead.He said hello in his normal voice but then when I told him who was calling,his voice changed.like I caught him off guard. He kind of stumbled over his words and mumbled something when I told him that the meeting was switched. Then he said he couldn't come. I'm thinking that he didn't want to go to church.If he really liked me he would go.I'm scared that he won't come anymore cause he knows I like him and he is really shy. What can I do?Do you think that maybe he really did have something to do last night?Do you think that he likes me?

2007-08-02 00:29:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 00:26:42 · 1 answers · asked by holla 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've known my best friend for the past 2 years and have never had any reason to doubt her but in the past year she has claimed so many things have happened that im starting to wonder if she is lying
-shes had loads of problems with her ex (him beating her up, broken ribs etc. she decided to press charges eventually and hes been locked up for 6 months)
- she had an abortion in november (ex's kid and she was scared of him. she hasnt been the same since this)
-her mum was diagnosed with breast cancer in january (luckily it was caught early)
-her gran died 2months ago
-6 weeks ago she told me she was 5 weeks pregnant, she decided to keep it and was really happy about it.
- but yesterday when i phoned her she said she had lost the baby (she sounded devastated).

but with everything she said happened, we've never seen any proof of it (except her in pain, never saw any bruises etc) .

do you think all this could have happened or could she be lying to us?

sorry this is so long

2007-08-02 00:19:23 · 30 answers · asked by kelly j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is eye candy !

2007-08-02 00:11:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been knowing one another for 8 months now where he confessed his love to me & is nuts about me as I like him too. He knows that am not doing sex unless there is serious relation or bond between us and he seems to be getting my point and agrees to that. He calls me so often, sms me day/night without missing a single day since then as well as sending me gifts for ocassions & for no reason at all. He keeps courting me but he kinda repeats much this sentence"I want you so much" What does a man means by wanting, does it carry any sexual signals? coz he could have said "Like being with you" or any related words? Dunno .. these days he keeps saying "I want you much" does it mean anything that I am not aware of or normal?

2007-08-02 00:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating