My chat partner, a military deployed to Europe, wants to meet me now in person, after we have been talking on chat now for 2 years. We agreed to meet next week in the country he is stationed. Now, as the day comes closer, i dont want to meet him. Why? Well, he was not always honest with me, he is perfect liar and had an oneline sex affair with my best girlfriend. We broke up several times, but in the end of the day we went on with our love-hatred relationship. I felt lonely and he was at least there to talk, whatever. I regret that it came that far and after making balance about all what happened between us, i decided not to meet him. I have to tell him this as soon as possible. Please tell me your opinion and what you would do/say. Thanks
2007-08-02 00:59:24 · 8 answers · asked by Rain 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell him straight out that he's not good enough for you. Save your money, better still go out and blow it all. Pamper yourself, buy clothes, makeup, have a massage enjoy yourself you deserve it.
2007-08-09 02:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by mezzle1963 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Balance? Nope hunnie no balance there, you havn't even came to terms with it. You havn't even confronted him on it. So its just my opionin but not saying what needs to be said is just like lieing. And you still playing nice with him, shows me, you still havn't came to terms with what he really is. Which is also why your in indescion, because you havn't came to grips with how this makes you feel. Usually when someone backstabs someone we let them go, what are you waiting on? And why O why are you showing him any respect? attention? Love? Yea I feel lonely to, thats what friends are for, not romance.... which most be all you guys got are you really have some deep seeded need to beat yourself up....
Oooo and the cool thing about specking the truth of the way you feel! YOU CAN'T SAY IT WRONG!!! So go speck your mind....
2007-08-02 12:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely not recommend online relationships. Both of my parents decided to try that TWICE each. Lets just say only one of theflings ended up not being psycho.
You can never be tooooooo careful.
What ever happened to good ol fashioned blind dates?
2007-08-10 05:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by ILoveBeingAMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't meet with him. Why bother? He's a liar and you can never have a relationship.
2007-08-09 13:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by dreamwhisperer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest,most liars,don't like honest people, and you want to tell him stright up,you deserve a friend who will be truthful,to you,no cheat or lie to you,i would not meet him if i were you,i would walk away.
2007-08-06 09:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by tnsupermomwhit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you never forgave...time to just cut him off and find another chat partner... it will never be the same
2007-08-09 02:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him you just want to be friends if he was cheeting on you over the internet then wats he going to do if you have a real contact relationship. i think you should trust your instincts what is your heart telling you to do.
2007-08-10 06:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold on to you money and stay at home...You never know what you well get face to face...
2007-08-08 16:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋