omg i really need help urgent.. please ohh please help me!?

Question

ok i have this bf when i have my monthly period.. i told him honestly that that time i dont feel good.. he juz ask me to sleep..

n then 1 more time i tell him i don feel good.. he said `is it my fault?`

AND THEN once more i said y didnt u make me feel good like talk nice to me?.. he said i DIDNT TREAT HIM GOOD!?????


omg .. this is so frustrating.. i love him.. but i cant stand how he treat me..


am i a bad gf? i need other people opinion.. I NEED THE WHOLE WORLD OPINION!!!

am i? or is he? a bad person? i need help to solve this problem.. i cant tell my feeling by word.. its juz too sad

well he know im having my monthly period.. i juz want him to talk to me nicely.. thats all.. he said to me is it his fault im having my monthly period? and is it his fault im tummy hurt? u guys dont understand.. he never hug or say sweet words everytime i have period..

Answer 1

Boys are really supposed to understand how sensitive we girls are when we have our periods. I try to make my former boyfriends understand how hard it is when my monthly visit is here. If I'm I didn't treat them right in any manner or if I did something to offend them, then they should tell me and make me realize that I was just being mean thanks to the girl thing.

In your case, I don't think you're a bad person at all. What's wrong with telling him that you weren't feeling so good. It's the truth anyway, and if he's too selfish to understand that, then break it off with him. It's going to be hiss loss, not yours. There are so many guys out there who would give you the respect that you deserve and who would treat you right.

Keep your chin up girl, you're too good for that jerk. :)

Answer 2

You are asking who's fault it is. In a relationship there's never one to blame, they both make mistakes. You never explained the true reasons that made you feel bad, he overeacted by thinking it was his fault. The only solution is discussion. When you clear things up he will feel relieved that it wasn't something he did. What I didn't get though is the part that he is talking to you in a bad way. Why is he doing it? Does it have to do with the fact that he thinks you avoid him? Discuss with him and everything will be sorted out, just do it calmly and honestly.

Answer 3

Omg that not how every thing goes u always make me sound like a bad person u said that u have peirod i can understand that.thats why i wana leave u alone because i know when girl pmsing they will get mad for no reason all i said to u is go 2 sleep then then u said that u ******* hate me and all that crap? how do u think i feel huh? u said u feel bad u dont know what i been to as well im depress my grandma is sick and in the hospital and all u keep saying to me is i have another gf and craps like that and now u make people think that im a bad guy here. yes people im her bf -.-!

Answer 4

My dear, i am so sorry for what you feel. It is really hard to be treated like this. You are not bad, you are a very normal GF, the problem is just that you chose the wrong person, you have all the time of the world to find your match and soul mate,

Answer 5

There's obviously a breakdown in communication when you are transitioning through your menstrual cycle. Like most guys, he simply doesn't know how, or doesn't want to deal with you when you're going though your period, simply because, like most girls, you become an unpredictable wave of emotions, a ticking time bomb of sorts. He can't counteract all your questions and feelings, and expect to please you with each answer he gives you. Your physical and emotional pain are too much for him to handle, because he doesn't know how to handle them. Neither of you are bad people or spouses. He just needs to learn how to handle your volley of emotions when you're undergoing your time of the month, and you need to learn to have a bit more control of your emotions when you do. Talk it out on a normal day, when your time of the month has passed, and see what happens then. Communication is key, and yours is breaking down. Reinforce it, and you two should be fine.

Answer 6

Let me put it straight; if he is so ignorant of woman's nature, he shouldn't even have a relationship with you! You shouldn't blame yourself about what is absolutely physical to you! And it is indeed physical to have period, not to feel good, to need love and understanding and cozyness. If he's incapable to offer you this treatment, then you should leave him right away! It's not that you're a bad girlfriend (and you are defenately not), it's just that he is such a pig!

Answer 7

im going to tell you the truth im in a realtionship with the same exact probelms. Im not going to waste your time but im going to tell you ITS NOT YOUR FAULT..it may not be his fault either. But hes defintly wrong! He should understand whats going on and accept it. You need to sit him down and talk to him and tell him to either be more acceptive about your monthly changes or to hit the road. Because you can find someone else who will be supportive and help you during times of your Needs! right?

Answer 8

Hi ya its unfortunate that the people we care about take us for granted anyway my opinion...........my dear u are not wrong or a bad person to tell ur bf how u feel if anything he should be understanding wen u don't feel good and should be comforting. Its not about one of u its about both of you and making each other feel good and appreciated by each other.

Answer 9

no you are not a bad GF he's a bad BF!
dont worry girl i know how it feels to love someone that doesnt treat you good, but you should already know that if they dont treat you good then there definetly not THE ONE =]]
everyone has at least one special someone out there and you'll surely find yours!

Answer 10

Don't worry Kathy =]

he's the bad bf. He should respect you more. If you don't feel good he should let you sleep and maybe give you some Tylenol and hot tea with that. He shouldn't be making you more and more frustrated.