My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and my sister and her husband been married 14 yrs..Sometimes we talk about our sex lives and she said her husband who is 42 is a real stud in bed cause he can last over an hr during actual love making..Well my husband is also 42 and can last 15-20 minutes during actual love making and that is good for both of us cause we get completely satisfied..My sister said a "real man" can last longer then my husband and i called her a ***** and she said i cant take the truth...What is her problem?
2007-08-02 16:53:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I love my siblings but discussing my husband's performance in bed isn't going to be a topic of conversation. That's not information I plan on sharing with anyone but really not with someone who also oversharing about her husband.
2007-08-02 18:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. to funny.. ur sister has insecurity issues and is jealous of ur relationship with ur husband for some reason , not sexually but she's trying to find some way of making her husband be better then yours.. im surprised u didnt say "well hun, real men only last an hour when their not with real women that turn them on enough to get them to climax faster " lol.. i mean its not true of course but, damn if she's going to try and take a hit , u should of been just as witty back at her.. Or, u could of said " yeah i heard that men on viagra can go that long " lol..
2007-08-03 00:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is a saying. some women like sprinters, some like cross country runners. if you get the meaning then you know what i mean. i have known a few women who like 15-20 min, and others the longer the better. its your sisters preference but i wouldnt worry about it. its not your fault it takes her that long to get off.
2007-08-03 00:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by partly smart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to have sex for hours? 15-20 minutes is long enough...especially if it is good sex. Tell her that your man is a real man and shut the f up.......
2007-08-03 00:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15-20min is above average (and probably more so for someone over 40). Your sister kind of sounds like an a hole. It's time for her to grow up!
2007-08-03 00:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by dm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha, you both sound like bitter teenage girls. Oh no! She insulted the manliness of your husband! How dare she! She must be banished.
Really, both of you need to grow up. She likes her husband more than she likes your husband, isn't that how it's supposed to be? It's not a competition.
2007-08-03 00:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't listen to her. Misery loves company. If you and your husband are both happy, tell her to get lost and stay out of your business.
2007-08-03 00:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is an idiot. Sex is a very personal thing, and as long as it is enjoyable and satifying for the two people having it - how long it lasts is irrelivant.
2007-08-03 00:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She's probably not getting enough and her husband is far from the stud she claimed him to be.
2007-08-03 00:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that your man does not have to spend all that time time trying to get the job done right !!!
It is NOT the quantity it is the QUALITY !!!!
2007-08-03 00:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by Kit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋