I feel so detached from the world. I grew up on a farm and have never really had many friends (none that I see more than once a month). I was an outcast in my hometown and I've never been part of any social circles. Even if I'm 'with' a group I still feel separated, somehow.
I just moved to the city to go to University. After my first year and all my best efforts I still feel like a lonely little island. All the people I've met still have their high school groups and I can't seem to break in. I can't just hang out with some people (and yet I hear people complain that they didn't do anything exciting on the weekend, just hung out with some people!!!)
I'm a bit shy but only at times. I rarely go out without making the plan myself and I've met a ton of people and tried to get involved with their friends, but I still end up a loner. I suppose it's not making friends that's the problem, it's going to the next step.
2007-08-02 17:42:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There are time when as much as you try, you cant make friends. This isn't a bad thing. i have trouble making new friends too. but if i think about it. Do i really want to hang with people that are jerk? Do i want friends that are fake or real? Don't go with the crowd that will only lead to bad things. Be nice to people, but don't try to rush into a friendship. Just be yourself, Once you meet a true friend then a connection will happen. But don't think people are rejecting you.
2007-08-02 17:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by saber_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered this last time you posted it, please see previous answer.
2007-08-03 00:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋