when does age really matter?
at some point you would think, music, movies, outings, all of this would be so different that dating isnt possible?
so tell me your views on what ages are simply too much of a difference?
22 male with a 36 yr old female, and vise versa?
2007-08-02 17:38:39 · 18 answers · asked by Me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I once dated a women 12 years older then me. She had kids and I felt like I fit right in, in every way. But it got to her, and she thought I wanted more, she let me go. damn I loved that women and her kids.
2007-08-02 18:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dated a 43 year old female and I was 28. She was sweet and good looking. She was also a little crazy I came to find out. If it had not been for that I do not think I would have broken up with her. I think age is not that big of a deal. I know a couple she is 29 he is 50 and they just had their 1st child within the past year and seem to be really in love. They had a nice wedding to. So I do not think age matters that much at all. All that does is that the 2 people love each other and care about each other and get along and can talk and have fun. That is what matters.
2007-08-02 17:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think for me, age don't matter anymore when you truely likes someone. My mother has many friends who are married to men way older than them.
I am 18 and i likes someone who is 16years older than me. My friend all said that i must be crazy. But i just can't help falling for him...(because love is blind and it does not need any condition or reasons)
Regarding yr question i think doesn't means he is 22 and she is 36, he will love pop-rock and she will not. It can happened that they both have common hobbies even thought they had some age gap. (Remember, nothing is impossible) and I believe that there must be at least something different in both of them that attracts them together,because opposite do attracts (If not they won't like each other, even if they do they can only be best friends)
Age will only affect both their thinkings whether mature and all that.. unless both their age has a really big gap like, 20 and 50 in-regardless of which is boy or girl)If there is too much generation gap, i think they can't communicate well. Even they can there won't be any *sparks between them.
2007-08-02 18:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the two people, because everyone is different... I'm 22 and my husband is 27, we got married when I was 18 and right out of high school and he was 23 and had just graduated from college... We are celebrating our 4th anniversary on August 16th and our twin boys turn 2 the following day. We also have a 4 month old boy as well and we couldn't be happier.
2007-08-02 17:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesnt not have a determinant on age. the greater the difference just means that both are willing to part with social norms in their generation to find love, and that is something rare. so a 22 yr old dude and a 36 yr old girl is nothing wrong, just as long as they are happy and in love- that's all that matters.
2007-08-02 17:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by BNizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see age as a real significant problem as long as two criteria are met.
1) Both are in a legal possition to be together (This generally means age of concent, even though dating and sex are different thing one usually will lead to the other)
2) They both know and understand the age differance.
As long as they feel a connection and a bond there shouldn't be any other problems.
2007-08-02 17:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mark G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon; i think of that once 2 people who're committed are a minimum of 25 or older then the age distinction might properly be as much as ten-15 years. those between 18-25 might desire to have a maximum of five years; those from 14-18 might desire to have a one million year distinction, and anybody who's youthful than 14 should not be relationship.
2016-10-09 02:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AGE is but a number, yes it does play a significant role in a relationship, but to be honest if the couple loves each other and realizes that the age difference may cause problems in the future, yet are willing to accept them, then I say GO FOR IT.
2007-08-02 17:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by canuck1950 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age only matters if one person is over 20 and the other is 16 or younger.
2007-08-02 17:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as both are over 18, I say go for it. My grandparents were 15 years apart in age and were married over 50 years.
2007-08-02 17:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋