what am i supposed to do?

Question

i went to the doctor today, and he told me that majority of the health problems i have are caused by stress. the most stressful thing in my life is my dumb, bitchy, worthless sister, and i have to live with her, because she lives with my parents, and i dont make enought money to move out, she used to have add so now everyone says that she is the way she is because of a learning disability, which is total and complete bullcrap, because she knows what shes doing, and knows how to get other people in trouble, and loves every moment of it, she is a minipulative, calculating, satan in the flesh type of person, and i absolutely cannot stand her, but as i said, i cant afford to move out, and my parents think that she is a little angel with a slow brain, what should i do to eliminate this stressful situation?

ok, so first answerer, you can go f*ck yourself, i make 2g a month, but i happen to have alot of bills, because im a grown up, get with the real life before you try to put somone down, and also, my education is more relevant than anything that most people know, so just answer the questions, and dont throw your little fantasy world into play, thanks

Answer 1

Give her the silent treatment! It will drive her insane. If she provokes you, ignore it. People like her will look for any opportunity to to make you look bad (like telling on you)
Just avoid her, and ignore her, and she may give up. If this doesn't help, I don't know what will...

Answer 2

Holy Evil Siblings, Batman!
All jokes aside, I know how it feels to be in close proximity to someone that everyone else seems to think is a darling, when in reality - they're the Antichrist! Oh the urge to just sneak a quick sucker punch to the nose, or perhaps a carelessly misplaced thumb tack in a seat. Believe me dude...I know.
But check this out...as far as the ADD thing goes? Yeah, that usually doesn't just go away. There are different levels of this, and it can range from one coming off as just spacey or to the extreme where they are just not manageable. Spontaneous, or extremely irritating behavior is often an uncontrollable side effect of this disorder. And no worries, man, I'm on your side. So, have no fear of me being biased. But truly, ADD doesn't go away...the sufferers just learn coping skills....usually. Albeit, it certainly doesn't sound like it in this case. Additionally, it sounds like your parents are coddling her...which adds to your dilemma.
Bottom line? You gotta get outta there. Period. Your health seems to be hanging in the balance here, and if you can't get through to your parents(have you tried talking to them about this, and do they know what your doctor said??), then you're going to have to seek out your own place of refuge.
Granted, you stated that you can't afford to leave now, but that isn't something that will remain a fact. You probably couldn't get out of there fast enough, because you are uncomfortable, fed up, and exasperated with your sister, and your parents' failure to see the position that you are in as we speak. A week from now wouldn't be soon enough. But, no matter what you have to do (if you have to take a second job) get out of there. It's time for you to get a place of your own, or perhaps share an apt with a roommate. Try an efficiency apartment. Place an ad, ask around, see what you can find out. Info is free, and I'm sure if you keep looking, you'll find something that will accommodate your need for space, recuperation and relaxation. The alternative is more trips the doctor, and more health problems, and family conflicts.
It's not impossible, just difficult, and you can do it.

Good luck!!

Answer 3

Maybe you could get a roomate or a low income apartment. They have them in all cities. Put in a want add for a roomate or an application or a LIA. I don't see you getting away from the problem unitl you move out of the house. Maybe you could talk to your sister and tell her that she is making you physically ill (litterally) and ask her to back off a little before she causes you to have a nervous breakdown! I actually had to move to another state to get away from my brother. I was so bad off my husband almost had me comitted and it was because of all the stress my brother and father had put on me over 15 years. It will get worse if you allow the negativity to continue in your life. Take it fro me, you really can loose your mind and it does make you very sick. Good luck to you hun, I'll say I prayer for you.

Answer 4

Hey, pretend she doesn't exist. Don't speak to her if she speaks to you. Don't address her when you see her. Don't pay any attention to her NO MATTER WHAT. IGNORE her every move, word, action, attempt. You will DE-STRESS your self ~ I promise. Just go about life as if she wasn't there. You dont' have to interact with her righ? So don't. It isn't like you have to take her to school, or feed her or anything with her. Just tell your parents you are DE-stressing yourself by ignoring her. They will soon get it.
Hey man, it is NOT worth tearing yourself up over. You can't afford to move out, yet, so stick with it and just ignore her. She gets off on pissing you off and getting you riled up. Don't give her those chances.

Answer 5

She is who she is and you have to deal with it. How old are you? Can you get a job and move out? She is your sister and always will be, you just have to deal with each situation as it comes up. Speak with your family and make your feelings clear. If she has done something, don't just rant but give them specifice details. It might be that she needs help and they aren't aware of this. Good luck.

Answer 6

It might help to be out with a lot of friends every day, go for a jog, maybe a bike ride. Be with friends and keep motivation at an extreme level. It can help you get your mind off things. Maybe yoga classes can help. :) I wish you best of luck.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Distance yourself from her and the drama. Don't get caught up in it. Save up and move out. Hopefully she will grow up and grow out of her current persona.

Answer 9

Get an education, get a better job, be an adult and take responsibility for yourself instead of sponging off your parents. It's their house, it's their way. You have to keep your mouth shut and deal with it.

Answer 10

kill her?