does that make me desperate???

Question

I don't want to be desperate or slutty but sometimes i get so lonely i feel like if i guy just walked up to me and wanted to i'd make out with him on right here and now! i'm not some dirty girl, i'm not even sleeping with a guy till marriage...but does that make me really like a loser? or are some of you like this too?

Answer 1

Hey it's ok. Everyone gets lonely. I've felt the same way. I'm divorced and I just broke up with a guy I'd been seeing for a while and I promise you that there are times when I feel so lonely that it's all I can do not to throw myself at the first man who smiles in my direction. It's called being human. Many of us feel it.
Best thing to do is remind yourself that nothing lasts forever. Even loneliness. I personally love alone time. I go to movies alone. I've eaten in restaurants alone. I've even gone to bars alone (though I don't recommend that last one). Point is that don't stop living your life because you're lonely but also don't make a mistake you'll regret.
Just keep up with friends, school, work and when you least expect it, you just might meet someone that might make the wait worthwhile.

Answer 2

What's wrong with going for what you want whether it's just a physical thing or an entire relationship? As long as you know what you are doing and can handle the responsibility...go for it.

Answer 3

Well im alittle bit differant but i find it kind of weird. In a way its disgusting and in another way its not all that gross

Answer 4

im the same way but only with girls maybe becuase u want 2 hav a real relationship ( i kno i do!) ;)

Answer 5

thinking about something and doing it are two different things

Answer 6

buy a dildo

Answer 7

just do it!