me n my boyfriend were going out for 1 and 1/2 years but then they had some nasty rumors going around that he was smoking and doing drugs so i broke up with him cause i didnt want to go out with someone like that, the rumors werent true so we ended up going back out. we talked for the next two days everynight and then we didnt talk for a couple days so i called him and he said he would call me back and he never did...that happened about 5 times. ppl started tellin me how he doesnt like me anymore so i broke it off again. he got really angry and said he never liked me and that he didnt give a eff about me so we didnt talk for a month. now he is started talkin to me again and i still really like him but i cant go back out with him...and i no he doesnt like me....what should i do??
2007-08-02 20:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it is not the end of the world.
2007-08-02 20:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by boyplakwatsa.com 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are wise to not want to go out with a guy that smokes and does drugs, but do you think that those rumors are true? do you really think he would be the type of guy that would do that? if you do, good job breaking up with him. and as for the fact that he never called you back 5 times, means that he's not good enough for you. he obviously has other things on his mind, and you need a guy that holds you as his first priority. you shouldnt be with seomeone that doesnt care about you, even if your heart is telling you that you still really like him. youll have to use your head, use it to overcome your heart (which is hard) and you'll make the right decision soon enough! but just dont get back with him. i honestly think you could do MUCH better!!!
2007-08-02 20:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may just be trying to be friends with you again. and if you want to be friends too, then there's nothing wrong with that.
the fact that you broke up because of a rumor that wasn't true, well, maybe that shows that you can't trust each other enough...and if he already told you straight up that he doesn't care, i think it's time you move on and find someone who does care for you, i mean truly care.
but if you think you both deserve another shot at each other, and make an agreement to work things out, then go for it of you think it's worth it at all.
good luck and choose to smile :)
2007-08-02 20:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by chardane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother talking to him. Obviously he's only coming back to you when he needs someone to talk to or is bored with other people. You can do better than that.
Back off or you'll just get hurt even more. =(
Good luck.
2007-08-02 20:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kappa Girl Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I guess my advice would be to still be friends with him. because even though u still like him, its better to just have him as a friend in ur life than to not have him in ur life at all. even though u want him back.
2007-08-02 20:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by JustAGirl16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your head your heart will just mess around :) it depends who you love more really, if you and your ex were meant to be why did you break up in the first place, just something to think about :)
2016-05-17 05:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question for you is simple...Are you a glutton for punishment??? Just dump him and stay away from him. Don't even talk to him...He's not worth it... Find yourself a good guy. Believe me we are out here...
2007-08-02 20:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by M J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it cool
just be friends
find some other guy
u dont need to waste your time on him
there are PLENTY of guys out there
good things come to those who wait.
2007-08-02 20:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible he was upset you thought he smoked...
or he smokes weed and doesn't give a darn about anything
2007-08-02 20:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by No_Fayce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to say... do you like a relationship based on sex? because it looks that yours is totally that.
2007-08-02 20:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋