umm... ok so im like jsut turnning 15. Everyone says my body is hott but, its only the guys bc they like my boobs.but anyways, my mom just got re-married. the man she married has a son, lets call him Jake. Well I never met Jake until the wedding and he seamed sweat. we didnt really talk but, he was nice. Well a couple of weeks later we moved to their house. The house was huge. My room was on the 2nd floor and had a huge bay window and one of those seats under it. Well at night i can see teh sun set through the window, so i usually leave it open. one day me and Jake were the only 1s home bc my mom and mike were out.Jake was havin his friends over and i went to my room and i started to change and as soon as my top was off, i was bout to take of my shorts, i saw jake and mybe 7 of his friends looking in my window from the roof of the guest house. When they saw me they smiled and waved. I freaked out and shut the blindes and havnt talked to him since. Its been 3 hours. What should i do?
2007-08-02 20:48:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hes about a year older than me and so were his friends from what i saw of them.
2007-08-02 20:53:12 · update #1
Confront and make him feel uncomfortable ! Don't tell your parents that will make him hate you - I know cuz im a guy - just be like "why were you ******* off with your friends you fag?"
or go "Do You Get off on touching yourself(or selves if you are talking to his friends as well) with your friends?
or use this line " Go buy a Playboy or DVD because I am your sister not a porno." That should make him feel bad.
2007-08-02 20:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by Brandon C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First you need to be sure that you tell your mother and her new husband. Please do this. Then, be sure that you close the blinds before dressing, or dress where you cannot be seen from the window (in the bathroom, closet, behind a screen). I think you should also have a lock on your door and lock it when you go in your room. You did not mention how old Jake is, but if he is old enough to be left at home without supervision, and old enough that he and his friends are interested in watching you undress, this is seriously inappropriate behavior. Your parents need to take some action to ensure that Jake does not try this again.
2007-08-02 20:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you need to say anything at all to him...He immature and hes not respectable, which should give ytou more of a reason to NOT SPEAK TO HIM...I could just imagine the ignorant things he would tell you...what you should do is speak to your mom in private about this, and chances are she'd tell her husband and then her husnabd would have a talk with his son...that way theres no anomosity in the house...you really need to let her know that you felt uncomfortable and that was really not cool and not called for..what an ***? and keep your distance fromm him for now on, because now you know what hes reall about...a PERV
2007-08-02 20:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jessie, Stay in your room until your mom comes home. I would tell mom what Jake and his friends were doing. That would freak me out to. You don't know what they have on their minds. This was very wrong for him and his so called friends to do. I am sorry you had to go threw this but boys are like this and when older they get worse. Just stay on your toe and watch out for boys like this.
A Friend.
poppy1
2007-08-02 20:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by poppy1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like you got it pretty well handled so far. Just make sure you leave your blinds shut from now on, when you are changing. He is a guy, and your not related and he is definitely going to try this again.
Other then that, i'd let your mom know what has happened.
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As an after thought, since he obviously embarrassed you... You could go around school saying that you saw him naked and that he is small and cause him a bit of embarrassment.
Payback is a *****.
2007-08-02 20:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey right now just stay put in ur room lol.. im not trying to scare you.. but 7 guys plus jake... is not a good idea to be near them esp since they'v seen u.. another idea (for right now) is to call ur mum to come back.. then u just tell ur mum and maybe mike the situation.. hope this helps.
and tell them that you dont want jake hating u and like.. taking revenge on u when he gets scolded.. tell them everything
2007-08-02 21:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by nobodyknowsme™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your stepbrother and his friends are creeps . You should definitely tell your mother and stepfather as soon as possible. If they willing to invade your privacy in this way; they might do something worse. This really disturbing because they are older, there are seven of them, and their nonchalant attitude to your noticing them looking at you. You really need to do something and you should not hesitate to contact the proper authorities if "Jake" or his friends do this again. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-08-02 21:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by egyptgirl422000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents immediatelt or as early as you can.Now Jake is sort of half-sibling to you,In my view it is not the role of a brother he is playing.Today they are watching you from outside your room,but what will you do if they come in?You are insecure in such conditios.Inform your parents,or in case they dont listen to you,you may contact legal authorities or social workers.Do not ignore it.
2007-08-02 21:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by slpfarhat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be cool about it. They are probably in as much shock as you are. If it really gets out of hand, don't be afraid to tell your parents. Your mom could lose custody in the worst case.
2007-08-02 20:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by Andre 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely talk to your parents about the intrusion of your privacy. It is their responsibility to monitor and discipline your step-brother.
2007-08-02 20:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by I Hate Migraines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋