And that's not all. She spazzed at me for using a towel when she said it was ok, but when I was bathing, she purposely yelled to everyone, "I told her to wait but she can't even wait a little!!" when she NEVER told me! Besides, my dad does that all the time and she never yells at him, which I think is really confusing. Also, my sister keeps blaming me for mom yelling at me, and I can't tell her to shut up because she's "special" and is a tattletaler, which would be another reason for my parents to yell more at me.
I'm going to high school next year, and I wanted a good, long break so I can be less stressed when a mountain of homework collapses on me, but noooo, I STILL have school every weekday because of summer school. I am so sick of my mother for signing me up for education lessons instead of some hobbies, such as hip-hop.
How can I deal with my family? (talking doesn't help, I tried and they kept spazzing at me)
2007-08-02 19:50:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Plus, I can't spend anytime with my friends which I'm never gonna see for 4 years because we're all going to seperate high schools, but my parents NEVER let me spend anytime with them! It's either piano practises, homework and just plain NO. No mall, no beach, no going to each other houses, just phone callings but that's not enough.
My elementary grad year was supposed to be the summer of my life, before the pressure of my life comes to me. Its all spoiled now.
2007-08-02 19:53:50 · update #1
Sounds like you are jealous and have a bad attitude. Your dad can do anything he wants because he pays the bills. You are evidentally not doing good in school or your mother would not have to sign you up for summer school. Look at yourself for the answers to your question. You need to evaluate yourself and your attitude. Sit down and make a list of your good and bad qualities. Then take the bad ones and try to change them one by one. Things will get much better, I promise. People with bad attitudes are usually miserable for all of their lives if they don't try to change.
2007-08-02 19:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay how is this... do everything your parents tell you too and do it the first time. When something needs to be done do without being asked i know your probably thinking how is this going to help but trust me it does for me and I'm the rebel in the family. Dyed hair pierced about a million times ect ect... And about your sister sit her down and go look it I don't purposely get in trouble. I don't want mom to yell she just does. And if that all works out and your mom starts paying more attention too you then talk to her and tell her you think she treating you unfairly and you don't understand why. Parents can be a pain in the a*s we all understand that one. But of they are the ones acting childish then its you who has to step up and be the bigger person.
2007-08-02 20:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by My.Princess.Is.Here<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is hip hop a hobby?? it looks like the only thing you can do is talk to them about it, if not with mom then tell your dad you think your mom and sister are being too harsh, maybe he'll speak with her about it
2007-08-02 20:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a thought get out and run away for a while and come back and say you will only stay if they let you do the things you want and they need permission to sign you up for something
2007-08-02 19:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by reed 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋